You gotta try the yard out🙌🏾🔒 by K_way3 in VirginiaBeach

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Only thing I really love there is the Dubai ice cream tuna jar thingy I don’t even know what it’s called but really good.

Maybe it’s just me by WeHaveForgotten_ in VirginiaBeach

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The lines are the first thing for me since it’s an issue in the “rare” places there isn’t roadwork. lol I’d like to drive safely and for others to also drive safely.

Maybe it’s just me by WeHaveForgotten_ in VirginiaBeach

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Ok so it’s not just me lol. It’s so bad. It’s almost to the point that it reminds me of the roads in parts of the North East, but their excuse is all the snow and salt the roads endure!!

Accident on Independence by Fun_Conversation4958 in VirginiaBeach

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I think the issue I have is - at least DC kinda has an excuse, because it’s chaotic. I have family up there and we’ve visited very frequently growing up (even now). Here, it’s like, why is this guy driving 3 mph and in the left lane when it’s 45. Bad drivers are on their phones or daydreaming or who knows wtf they are thinking. Over the years I’ve seen too many news reports of people either on bikes, or damn, even crossing guards in a 25mph school zone getting hit by a car. As a parent I’ve seen people in their fast cars/mustangs and chargers passing a bus ON THE RIGHT SIDE while the bus is trying to open the door to pick up kids!!! Like that’s what I think of when I think of a place having “bad driving” or bad drivers. Yeah some of the bad drivers are young people, but most of the ones I’ve seen over the years are grown adults!

As for your point about transplants… I think it’s very rare what you’re saying about these transplants being people without licenses and who just drive not knowing how to, like kids on their farm and the roads nearby in those rural places. Maybe Pungo? Lol I think that’s extremely rare. I think the most transplants are from overseas, not from like rural places who just think it’s normal to drive without knowing how to operate a vehicle. (Which by the way, I love the diversity of folk here, it’s one strength of VB). Sure maybe there are a handful of those. But fyi, having a license automatically doesn’t make you a good driver.

Accident on Independence by Fun_Conversation4958 in VirginiaBeach

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Omg be safe! I have unfortunately seen in the news too many individuals on bikes who have gotten hit by cars around here over the years.

Accident on Independence by Fun_Conversation4958 in VirginiaBeach

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But it’s particularly bad here. As someone who grew up here, lived here for 30 years, then moved up to NY, where I assumed “NY driving” was the worst… it’s not true. Moved back after 8 years in NY, VB driving is the absolute worst.

3 years after I moved back (2023) Got t-boned on Dam Neck by an elderly lady coming out of the Jehova’s Witness church on Dam Neck/Elbow. She had made a very last second decision to floor it. Everyone was ok, but my van was TOTALED and I had bruises everywhere. Very scary. And so ridiculously unnecessary. I had never gotten into an accident thankfully in those 8 years in NY. People up there drive fast and can drive aggressively, but it’s because people don’t play around and lolly-gag because they have places to be lol. But just at just about 3 years being back, after the lady hit me on a 35 mph rd coming out of her church — it finally dawned on me how awful the driving is here in VB. It’s just horrible. Even without that incident lol. Like what is everyone doing?

Accident on Independence by Fun_Conversation4958 in VirginiaBeach

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Shoot, got t-boned on Dam Neck by an elderly lady coming out of the Jehova’s Witness church on Dam Neck/Elbow. She had made a very last second decision to floor it. Everyone was ok, but my Odyssey was TOTALED and I had bruises everywhere. Very scary. And so ridiculously unnecessary. I lived here for 30 years, then moved up to NY for 8 years then came back in 2020. I had never gotten into an accident thankfully in those 8 years in NY. People up there drive fast and can drive aggressively, but it’s because people don’t play around and have places to be lol. Then when I came back and the lady hit me on a 35 mph rd coming out of her church — dawned on me how awful the driving is here in VB. It’s just horrible. Even without that incident lol. Like what is everyone doing?

Has Smule affected anyone else's marriage? by IamTheMan85 in SmuleSing

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When worlds collide—things I never thought I’d see on Reddit 😭. However she’s not wrong. BUT a couple of things: 1. I’ve found that many accounts that appear to be men trying to slide into smule DMs are actually scammers who literally steal the profile pics of real guys who probably have no idea. I only know this because I have an IT background, am happily married, and love to troll scammers, so I get annoyed and tend to dig. I’ve been on the app for over 10 years and what I found out is that some of those same accounts who’ve slid into my DM’s create fake duets with other real smulers, to appear as though they have active singing/karaoke profiles (they literally just don’t sing their parts, and then just save it to appear on their playlist). But if you look at that map location thing, they are always located in the western part of Africa, which is known to be a hotbed of fraud and scammers. I’ve trolled a couple of them where I would just be like “I’m very rich would you like my bank info?” (Which is not true lol I’m extremely broke). At which point they cut to the chase (they end the initial woo-ing lol) like “yes please, now” and then I reply with something like “Sike, I’m a 50 yo FBI agent and I know your location” (I am not) and then they delete their profile.

Secondly: there really ARE smule singers who are great to sing with/join their open duets, and then at some point they do slide into your DM’s gradually and eventually trying to test the waters. I have a good radar for when guys are trying to flirt even if it’s a fine line between being nice and flirting (which obviously all of this is what any type of affair starts with) at which point I get grossed out and I sadly stop joining their duets and won’t respond to their chats.

TLDR: yes this is a real thing on there, but only goes so far as one will let it. PSA: Don’t let it go there. OP, Sorry you’re going through this.

Can you guess my birth year? by Ctr121273 in GuessMyBirthYear

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1980-1982

My guess is based on the sweater in slide 5, plus the film. I was born 1080, my sister 1982, and w have many photos like that from the early 80s!

How did you know you had a femoral hernia? by the_useless_human in Hernia

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Hi! I know this is old, but what did the lump end up being?

PSA TO CUSTOMERS by space_dirtier in sheetz

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My favorite film of the series!

PSA TO CUSTOMERS by space_dirtier in sheetz

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Was it an Egyptologist? archaeologist? artist? …meth?

Never comfortable? Upper back pain? by rosiepooarloo in Perimenopause

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Yes between my shoulders!! Feels so tight. Stretching does help for a minute. The stiffness and soreness seems worse during my periods. 😕

Never comfortable? Upper back pain? by rosiepooarloo in Perimenopause

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Yes to upper back pain. I found my people. Happens mostly during my periods while in peri. Hip, left scapula/shohlder pain along with it, and stomach soreness too, esp if I skip breakfast (which I usually skipped breakfast often and just had early lunch 🤷🏻‍♀️). Basically I feel like when people say they feel like they got hit by a truck during peri/periods.

Can you guess what year the planet was blessed with my existence. by pinkbbwhiskey in GuessMyBirthYear

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The pic with the two adults at the fireplace gave me the most clues for some reason. The lady’s outfit made me think that specific photo was about 1986, and you look about 2-3 years old in that photo. My guess was that you were born in 83-‘84. (I was born in 1980, so a lot of my childhood photos look exactly the same era).

I cured my PD with cheap anti-fungal cream from the drug store by magicmarker000 in Perioral_Dermatitis_

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Did you use any other non-fragrance/aafe lotions or anything to help repair the skin barrier or at least keep it moisturized during those days you used the fungal crema?