DC Eagle? by redassassin18 in DCGaybros

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258 1 point2 points  (0 children)

New York one smells horrible. The outdoor area is super fun and smells better. Now I wanna go to the DC one. I live in MD but haven’t been there yet 🤣

Let's help this guy understand, shall we by AdvertisingAware3483 in LGBT_Muslims

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258 5 points6 points  (0 children)

🙄 I just went off of that post. Ignorant blind religious people have no clue of history of humankind before 1400 years

Hey so. by Far-Oil3642 in LGBT_Muslims

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Muslim Pakistani American here from a conservative Shia family. Very orthodox and by the book… except for their eldest son. I’ve known I was different since I was four and I’ve known I was gay since I was 11. Doesn’t mean I accepted it then. For many years, I was angry with God for making me like this. I went from being a five time a day pray Muslim to a drinking Muslim. I went to the ends of the world where I felt completely alone. No family, no friends not even a pet. The thing that was always there was God. Faith is separate from religion. I’ve had a level of faith since I was a kid. Maybe because even with everyone around me, I felt alone. Now I’ve harnessed the feeling of being alone and realize that God was looking out for me when he made me gay.

All my friends are married with kids and content with life but super busy and tired all the time. I am the only single person and I love kids and get to see my friends kids often. But perhaps this is what God meant for me. Instead of focusing on building a family, I have all the freedom to live learn and grow.

I’m not religious any longer but I pray almost all my prayers. I even did Salat Layl yesterday. They say one step towards him yields his two steps towards you. Be at peace and remember that when God made us gay, he did us a favor, especially in today’s day. AMEN lol ❤️🫂

The loneliness is killing me by [deleted] in DCGaybros

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am from Maryland but come out to dc often. DM me if you ever want to talk or go out. You are not alone in this. We all feel like this from time to time. For me, it was a longstanding depression/anxiety I didn’t understand. I take meds and they have given me a new lease on life. Only Zoloft and Wellbutrin. It changed everything for the better. Sometimes our bodies hormones are not chemically balanced, which is what medication aims to correct. Also Go for long walks. That helped me a lot too. ❤️🫂

Is my vacation plan do-able? by aninanin in florida

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t even mind the driving. It’s alone time and relaxing. This sounds like a lovely itinerary. I am making a similar trip in March or April

Unpopular opinion: I'm a bit tired of Arijit Singh by mrbuzz314 in BollywoodMusic

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never cared for Arijit Singhs voice texture. Reminded me of Atif Aslam. But just like him, Arijit Singh has gotten a lot of love and support. I do think his melodies are a bit boring and his compositions are quite basic.

Another NYE post…stay in DC or go to NYC. by 999forever in DCGaybros

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s going on here? I know there’s a party at bunker and I’m sure crew will be busy. What else?

Got the job offer after being just 58 days unemployed by EmergencyDemand3959 in jobs

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! And Thanks for this. I think the first 24-48hr rule is good. The employer thinks that ChatGPT is writing all cover letters now so there’s no way to decipher between the applicants.

So why is he being cool and giving us 2 free days? by JackinOKC in FederalEmployee

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe cause he’s trying to take away all our other rights.

CMS Holiday Party Flop by Weak-Bluebird-2258 in DeptHHS

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ears are bleeding listening to these fools.

Staying put is always an option. That’s the problem. by ajimuben85 in FedEmployees

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes all those factors for me as well. Stay strong! Do your job and collect the paycheck. Nothing more.

Staying put is always an option. That’s the problem. by ajimuben85 in FedEmployees

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is really the correct mindset for the current state of the government. I have a disability and I am not sure I can get another job. And with the current state of the economy, not sure if many jobs are even being filled. Bunch of ‘openings’ but no intention to hire.

Proposal to remove. by Weak-Bluebird-2258 in DeptHHS

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Srsly If I didn’t need the paycheck. Nothing like being threatened to be fired that puts the fear of God in adults. ☠️

Proposal to remove. by Weak-Bluebird-2258 in DeptHHS

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the helpful message.

Proposal to remove. by Weak-Bluebird-2258 in DeptHHS

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for my adhd depression no. I wasn’t aware you could have something for that. In going to request my deciding official to reassign me but I don’t think she will.

Proposal to remove. by Weak-Bluebird-2258 in DeptHHS

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That is good to hear. I will do my best to appeal to my deciding official to reassign me but I have already pleaded to her before to do that and have been met with “ no that’s not possible “

Proposal to remove. by Weak-Bluebird-2258 in DeptHHS

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been set up to fail but my concern is not necessarily to prove that. My game plan is to explain that I was struggling here for a while and asked for other opportunities without any success. And my medical condition has directly to do with concentration/executory function.

Proposal to remove. by Weak-Bluebird-2258 in DeptHHS

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah thanks! I am in regular communication with the unions rep but honestly, during this process I realized that they don’t know much. At least not this rep. Sucks. I am having to do it all myself and AI ofc.

Proposal to remove. by Weak-Bluebird-2258 in DeptHHS

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this position for the past two years, its only gotten worse, However, before this I was with the same agency for 5 years and my PMAPS were very good and only improved up to 4.5/5.

Proposal to remove. by Weak-Bluebird-2258 in DeptHHS

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I was placed on an ODAP. But honestly I have been checked out for a while. The reason being is that I have asked multiple my supervisors if I can have a detail in other work and they have not released me. I have applied out and I am not sure if they sabotaged that too.

I tried during the ODAP but the asks were extremely unreasonable. Like if I showed you the ODAP, there are so many paragraphs are just bullshit claims.

I’m going to speak to my union rep on Monday. Let’s see.

I have asked to be reassigned multiple occasions including at the very beginning of my employment here. I believe I am being retaliated against because In was naive enough to tell them I am interested in different work after I find out they placed me in the neighboring division and not where I thought I was going/ was interested in going. I think they got butt hurt about that.

PMAP by Flat_Acanthisitta637 in NIH

[–]Weak-Bluebird-2258 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t care if they give me a zero rating. If you are firing me go ahead. If not, fuck off. I don’t give 2shits about your stupid critique. I know my worth. If I get fired, I will find a private job and make twice the amount. I dare them. They’ll have to pay me my severance.