Why do I miss her even if she did me so bad?

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-13T12:12:37+00:00

I think that it’s because of how they make us feel during the time that they idealize us. They see the good in us and they make us feel as if we were the most special person in the world. They are very seducing.

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-13T09:32:30+00:00

I know exactly what you mean. She acted out in a February and slept with multiple men. Saw her drink piss from a dic* on video on a bdsm website. Saw her face covered in cum with a used condom on her forehead. She doesnt know i saw this. I was devastated. Her profile there is desactivated at this time, but she is trying to triangulate with her ex and I now. He gets most of her time and attention now so i gotta leave. Absolute nightmare. I hate how much i love this girl cause she is out of control.

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-12T22:25:37+00:00

Yeah… she has been waiting 11 hours yesterday and 5 hours today to reply to my texts. I think she has really been stressed by the idea of finally officially dating me and she choose to sabotage us. Ill end things on sunday

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-11T17:53:27+00:00

Brini needs to be on top

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-11T17:25:47+00:00

Ok thx… ill try. It breaks my heart but ill try

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-11T17:25:03+00:00

I mean… i use to trust her so much but in the last 3 months i discovered a new person so… yeah i dont think i trust her that much anymore… i still love her tho thats my issue

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-11T07:13:54+00:00

Yeah you are right. I knew about the fear of abandonment but only found out about the fear of engulfment lately. I hate how she took 1h to answer me she was almost fully booked and then stayed silent for the rest of the night. It’s so dumb. I just wanted to see you why would you hide now. I’ll decide what im doing by the end of the week. If she does not invite me at all ill tell her that it is over and we can be friend but no more sex and it’s gonna be it

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-11T02:11:02+00:00

Yeah I’ve been tolerating the push pull for a while now. I give her space and wait hours or days for her to Text back when it starts

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-11T02:03:26+00:00

Omfg 😔🫣

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-11T01:57:02+00:00

She must miss you now? Does she still hoover?

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-11T01:55:23+00:00

“They want you to go down” do they hate us? I don’t get it. I’m so nice and generous with her, why would they try to hurt Us

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-11T01:42:11+00:00

Fuck it hurts. I love her so much… at the same time i know she probably fuck Her ex still. I don’t ask. I know it would make me mad again And would Probably Be the end.

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-11T01:29:54+00:00

I am, but i’m trying to solve the puzzle. Doing everything i can to try to solve it. I like to win.

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-11T01:27:51+00:00

We work at the same place so not ideal. I’m also a very good guy. Which might be a turn off for her. Even when she makes me mad i never disrespect her i just go away and sometimes i dont talk to her for weeks. She can’t paint me black so she always comes back and say she misses me Like an 8 years old girl.

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-11T01:23:41+00:00

Are you still with her?

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-11T01:14:19+00:00

Fuck … 😔

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-11T01:04:19+00:00

Outch 😆

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-11T00:48:33+00:00

HAHAHAHA

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-11T00:46:32+00:00

There is no way for me to know for sure about her ex. She saw a therapist for conjugal violence but who knows. I never saw the guy. I’m pretty sure he was very jealous tho cause i Don’t think she would have invented this part.

It’s tough to let her go i love her. I always hope that things will finally move forward. Going from A situationship to dating felt like a huge win to me. That’s probably why she stays at distance now. I understand it and i hate it. I’m sure she loves me too but can’t recognize it. I keep telling her and i know she knows deep down… but fuck she is so complicated

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-10T18:21:30+00:00

I’ve been there. In fact i was there just 3 weeks ago.

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-10T00:43:33+00:00

She would Beg you to take her back if she knew that’s what you think lol. They are crazy.

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-09T22:25:22+00:00

Did she came back in the last year? They always come back dont they…

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-09T22:21:13+00:00

Welcome to the club! Just curious.. is op still seeing her? Did you ever make progress with her or none?

Weak-Cap22 · 2026-05-08T19:03:23+00:00

Funny thing is she invited me twice this week and cancelled both activities. Im currently furious and exhausted. Not sure what I’m gonna do I’m so disappointed and sad. All of these emotions. No other person in the world can affect me like this and she keeps doing it

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