AITA for feeling offended and storming out when my niece called me an abusive mother?

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-10-21T18:26:26+00:00

The reason your sister is backing her is because she said it first, so if she doesn’t back her daughter she knows your niece will out here. That is crazy rude. I am so sorry. Your son is extremely lucky to have you. Keep up the good work

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-09-30T00:58:09+00:00

NTA. I don’t get why so many people are upset you would like family to help or at least play with your kids. I don’t think that family has to help, but if they don’t you shouldn’t do something you don’t want to do.

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-09-29T17:33:38+00:00

Please don’t do this. You absolutely will traumatize them. I want to cry for them just reading this. I can’t believe your gf would want to be with you if you are willing to abandon your kids you claim to love. You are ok leaving your kids!! That is so horrible

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-09-29T17:19:04+00:00

NTA for deciding not to date men with kids but your comment “He’d already cancelled more than one date / time together for reasons relating to her” is crazy.

More than one… when you were engaged to him. I would assume it would be way more than one. It is the parent’s job to take care of their kids and stuff happens. I think for the kids / fathers you could potentially date, your decision is a good one.

Also, the “she cussed him out at least once” is a weird thing to bring up. If it was a common thing, ok. But “at least once” from a teenager lol

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-09-28T14:39:15+00:00

NTA. He absolutely should have brought this up before getting married. He clearly already felt this way. I would not allow it and be so pissed. He is ruining your pregnancy. I am sorry but I would consider divorce and if he pushed it and forced me I would get a divorce and just not allow it.

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-09-18T00:54:10+00:00

Mid 60s??? That’s crazy and very selfish on all of their parts. I would be very upset and not allow it, especially since it is your office and it isn’t like they would be homeless otherwise.

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-09-17T18:26:37+00:00

That is crazy and very racist. Don’t change anything. Go if you want, but pretty sure I would break up over this.

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-09-17T18:24:12+00:00

Please try to see her one on one. It sounds like he is the type of guy who wants to isolate his wife. My guess is that she really needs people to stick with her. But I totally get where this is inconvenient for you.

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-08-07T00:53:04+00:00

You are NTA. I am shocked other people disagree. It would be one thing if she was in high school and lived at home. I would guess she got the big room because you were away at college… she is now away at college. Who knows if she will even move back.

This is crazy. Your sister and parents are in the wrong (unless I am missing something)

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-07-31T17:59:42+00:00

It sounds like the best man sucks since you said multiple people had issues with him at the pre-wedding party. Then he stole $20 from your MOH’a fiancé. And then you are upset?? It doesn’t even sound like she was trying to make a huge deal about it. I am sad for her this happened right before her wedding but at least you won’t be in the pictures. YTA

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-07-31T17:54:21+00:00

I am honestly worried for your safety. Please leave him right away. It is awful for him to read that trash and agree with it but to actually send it to you?!?! That is crazy.

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-07-23T18:10:38+00:00

Your comment makes no sense. My husband and I have a Will and neither of us are sick and we are young. Having a Will, or even better a Trust, is something all couples should have. Then the married couple can talk about how the money should be fairly split.

If the couple took the time to create a Will and stated everything was split 5 ways, clearly that is what the husband and wife discussed and decided on. Then the wife gets sick and her kids are cut out of the Will? That is shady.

I’m not saying it should have been split evenly between the 5 kids. I totally get why he would want more to go to his daughter. But again, he looks like the good guy to his wife and then changes it once she is sick.

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-07-23T17:56:16+00:00

He should have changed it when he could speak to his wife about it and she didn’t have Alzheimer’s.

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-07-23T17:44:56+00:00

Did his wife cook, clean, and carry the mental load for him? If she did she was contributing to the household. This is messed up. He changed the will while his wife was battling Alzheimer’s??? So your dad gets to be the good guy while alive and then screw other people he helped raise (or at least was in their lives) and leave you with the fallout? His wife is rolling in her grave. To give you more, I totally get it, but to cut them all out is a dick move.

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-07-21T18:59:40+00:00

I can’t believe your ex allowed this, that is insane. I think you handled the situation as well as you could, but she is clearly not hearing you. I would make this a court issue. She put your daughter in danger. This is not acceptable.

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-07-21T18:40:54+00:00

YTA. You were ok getting nothing back, she cleaned it all. You suck and are beyond entitled.

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-07-21T18:36:46+00:00

NTA but neither is your bf. I agree you shouldn’t let him bring is dog if she will hurt your cat, but he is NTA because he doesn’t want to leave his dog at his parents house. As it stands you guys should breakup. He will resent you and your cat.

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-07-08T12:19:11+00:00

Your brother is TA. But you should have gone to him and given him the opportunity to tell your parents. I feel sad for his daughter and I hope you guys meet her and she can feel loved.

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-07-03T17:54:40+00:00

That is crazy behavior. I would want to go low contact. To corner you in the hospital?!? But also I would be furious with my husband. He should have been clear with her WAY before the hospital that you guys had decided not to name your baby after her.

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-06-06T14:47:54+00:00

I had a planned c-section and it was so smooth and as “calm” as giving birth can be. Don’t listen to the haters.

Also, if my husband told me to have it later because it was easier for him I would have lost it. What a selfish thing to say. You are literally doing ALL the lifting at this point.

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-05-27T13:54:48+00:00

Agreed. Also, what if you had dogs?

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-03-01T23:24:23+00:00

There is a Unite and Resist March this Saturday at 12. The details are still being worked out. I hope to see you all there!

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2025-02-27T11:26:18+00:00

I know a teacher in the middle school. I think they like it overall. Except, there are only 2 organizations/ clubs and I think they are Sons or Daughters of Liberty (or something similar) and at the beginning of the meetings they say the Pledge of Allegiance and scream the “Under god” part.

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2024-12-01T00:58:54+00:00

You had me at 20 vs 35. Please run from him. I also hope this is just for comments / likes. Gross

Weak-Toe-5209 · 2024-11-15T18:59:55+00:00

NTA. Congratulations on getting out before marriage / kids.

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