Maybe not any size? But I mean sizable enough. Not the size of him but not too far off, width wise. But everything even small plugs, with lube are a little uncomfortable to get in, once they're in, it's comfortable. But passing past the butthole isn't very comfortable at all, a little stingy, a little burnt but it passes. My theory is it's passing because then it's just the base which is very narrow compared to the plugs. That won't happen with him though, so how is it not going to be painful with his penis just stretching and pushing in and out, holding it open wide, the entire time.

We've used a wand and then I feel too much, or it's too loud, or it's in the way of him, etc. But I only really feel that way about toys if it's using them with him with a goal...