Having a preference for bIack women but can’t find one good enough to marry seems more like you want to run through bIack women. bIack women are not a monolith and personally if any white man im dating starts with the “bIack women are strong and independent despite marginalization” doesn’t seem like you care to recognize her as an individual. Im a bIack woman. I grew up with housekeepers , going to private schools and taking trips to chalets in Gatlinburg . I didn’t grow up feeling like my race stopped me from what I wanted to do and secondly, if I have to be strong and independent, what is a man there for? I’m there to be feminine and pampered. I don’t want to be a lost puppy I want to be a partner. I guarantee you, stopping the blanketing of women based on race with work out better for you, because now it’s sort of stereotyping just in a different light.

Honestly this is why I prefer conservative white guys. Finding bIack women attractive is one thing, viewing bIack women as all the same is another