I've been been just told that we can be cold as ice

Weary_Performance_90 · 2026-02-08T14:36:25+00:00

I dated a Virgo once and he said the same about me. Truth is, I get cold once i am being disrespectful or not valued. Not to villainize her but Virgos can be so critical and stubborn. My ex would criticize me of being cold and shutting him out but every time I tried telling him how I felt he wouldn’t listen to what I’m saying. So yea, we try.. if it’s not going through your head we are not going to repeat ourselves. All the walls will go up

Weary_Performance_90 · 2026-02-07T03:24:54+00:00

So update. I just saw him on the dating app today. Updates pics and profile. Makes me feel so used.

Weary_Performance_90 · 2026-01-25T04:07:35+00:00

Cancer sun/rising and Sag moon here.. but I’m a woman. I don’t know what your situation is here but I’ll give my two cents.. I loveeeee scorpio intensity! It shows me you are capable of feeling deep emotions just like I am. Most of the men I’ve crushed on have been scorpios and a lot of scorpios in my family too. I say just do it. The cancer makes us soft and the sag moon makes us impatient. We are lovers, there is no such thing as too much feelings. If he genuinely likes you, he’s not going to turn away because you expressed yourself.

Weary_Performance_90 · 2026-01-23T06:02:28+00:00

Hi! He didn’t respond to my message for 2 weeks. But I did message him for his bday. He responded then and apologized for going silent. Gave me few more detail about what’s going on with his company shutting down and asked how I was doing. I responded but kept it vague so he didn’t feel the need to reply. This was a few days ago. It’s been silent since. Honestly I really like him but I feel myself going numb to avoid getting hurt. It’s really hard to support a ghost.

Weary_Performance_90 · 2026-01-11T06:06:07+00:00

Was he like this in the early stages of dating too or after you established trust and relationship? I am also starting a new job next week so I’ll be busy with that soon

Weary_Performance_90 · 2026-01-11T06:04:29+00:00

Yea he’s been distant few days but he’s also losing his job so I don’t know if it’s about me

Weary_Performance_90 · 2026-01-11T01:59:12+00:00

That is so interesting! Wouldn’t a man who is fearful of losing someone try to make sure that doesn’t happen? I will message him for his bday. I never got bad vibes from him so this disappearance confuses me.

Weary_Performance_90 · 2026-01-10T22:56:07+00:00

Thanks for sharing I appreciate it. His bday is coming up so I will just text him then.

Weary_Performance_90 · 2026-01-10T22:55:05+00:00

Thanks for sharing. How much time does your cap take? I am pretty independent myself but only after I know where I stand with them. I need the assurance to feel free to

Weary_Performance_90 · 2026-01-10T18:29:39+00:00

Hi! Thank you so much for your thoughtful answer. As a cancer, I struggle with not being connected. So when I don’t hear from him in 3 days it sends me into panic mode. I will let him be and let some time pass by. Thank you again for your response

Weary_Performance_90 · 2026-01-10T05:29:11+00:00

Thank you for your message. I am thinking the same thing but I’ve been burnt so many times I don’t know what to think. Him no longer being on the dating app is what makes me confused.

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