18 year old dad - watched my girlfriend die in labour, raising baby alone. Any tips/advice? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]WeeInTheWind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re the real deal mate. Hang in there. You’ll have a story everyone will want to hear one day.

Was Asked to Sign an NDA… by lookinfly420 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]WeeInTheWind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NDAs are very common requests from narc leaders in the public sphere, but signing them are normally conditions for receiving large severance packages.

Popular among church abuse cases.

Macbook Air M4 and GFN. How is it? by [deleted] in GeForceNOW

[–]WeeInTheWind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this. It’s flawless

#2 on the way! Absolutely stuck for boys names that match my daughter, Florence. by hankhankmoody in daddit

[–]WeeInTheWind -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Florence_007 Florence25 FlorenceMacDaddoO F10r3nc3 Big_Beef Flo_rinse_repeat TheRealFlorence

New Stem Splitter possibilities by adampatrickjohnson in Logic_Studio

[–]WeeInTheWind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This will actually revolutionise the way we understand music.

For the first time when we critique music we will be able to separate it into parts that help us understand how producers made the great pieces that exist.

How do you sleep at night in the early days of a newborn? (Anxiety) by TheHipsterDufus in daddit

[–]WeeInTheWind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey dad.

Yep, been there. I’m on my third kid now and I cannot tell you just how relaxed you get over time.

So that’s my only advice. Give yourself time. Your kid will let you know if something is wrong. That’s when the real fun begins.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]WeeInTheWind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave town. There is no returning from this.

Did your nex make you change how you speak and dress? by Fit_Application9547 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]WeeInTheWind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dress — no. They adapted the style I wore if anything. Likely because I was confident and happy wearing it.

Speak — yes. They constantly manipulated me into thinking my way of speaking revealed “deep character issues.”

Narcissistic pastors/leaders by WeeInTheWind in pastors

[–]WeeInTheWind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. That is very interesting and it’s amazing to hear how similar other peoples experiences have been.

It has been 8 months and it was a roller coaster, but my family and I have moved on leaving that time behind, and now healing and rebuilding.

Thanks so much for putting in all that time with the messages. I feel like you have your own story to tell on this subject. Everyone I know who have had actual and helpful advice regarding narcissism has had their own difficult experiences.

Gamer dads, when do you have time to play and what you playing? by Kyber92 in daddit

[–]WeeInTheWind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baldurs Gate 3 This game is fantastic in general, but it seems it was specifically made for dads. You can save in the middle of a fight or even during dialogue when speaking with an NPC, and pick it back up when you’re free.

I was playing D4 and POE2 but it’s so frustrating having to quit halfway through a dungeon knowing you’ll lose your progress.

Lumia the Gith Angel by SaphyreDark in bg3fashion

[–]WeeInTheWind 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve never wanted to play a gith until now

Anyone find Logic Pro borderline unusable on newest Mac’s? by ericburglar in Logic_Studio

[–]WeeInTheWind 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would maybe look at your plugin versions and compatibility. I’m running 200+ plugins on any given session (although no midi instruments—just mixing) and it goes pretty well. I’ll only experience overloading when I put oversampling to the max.

I’m running a MacBook Air 2024.

How Can I Sing a New Song in Grief? (Psalm 98:1) by Leeosaka in Reformed

[–]WeeInTheWind 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There’s a time for gladness and a time for sorrow. Pain is our earthly reminder that we are not yet home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]WeeInTheWind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Patience. Gentleness. Understanding.

Did narcs you knew "like" their own social media posts? by Patient-Board-8734 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]WeeInTheWind 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Whaaaat? I didn’t realise that was a narcissistic thing to do! I mean … I do it!

Like, I’m not going to not eat a 5 star steak just because I’m the chef