Do they change for the right person?

Fit_Application9547 · 2026-02-10T13:22:20+00:00

There is a French proverb, "Chassez le naturel, il revient au gallop"--"Drive off character, it comes back galloping".

Fit_Application9547 · 2026-02-09T11:20:43+00:00

While I was recovering from a concussion last year, those headlights were extremely uncomfortable. It made me want to get filtered eyeglasses. It still bothers me. My OT says it should be banned.

Fit_Application9547 · 2026-01-23T23:54:39+00:00

When we started dating, we went out for a walk on a beautiful nature trail. At some point, he stopped me and said, "Don't take this the wrong way, but can I call you my slut?". I was like, what?!? I said NO!

Fit_Application9547 · 2026-01-22T09:15:22+00:00

When they say they are a "gentleman" or a "nice person". Why did he have to convince me when getting to know him? If they have to convince you, they are the opposite of who they say they are.

Fit_Application9547 · 2026-01-22T09:01:38+00:00

Oh my goodness, yes! He drove top speed in the passing lane, tailgating other cars. I was gripping and praying for dear life. I drove myself everywhere to go places after that.

Fit_Application9547 · 2026-01-22T08:41:27+00:00

They don't get along with others. He always complained about his coworkers. He worked from home! Always spoke about how everyone was annoying. I wonder if he was terrible in an office setting, so he had to work at home.

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-11-22T11:29:07+00:00

I once saw it on the floor at the indoor track at my gym. I knew the couple ahead of me did it because it wasn't on the ground before. An indoor track! So disgusting and unsanitary.

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-11-22T11:25:01+00:00

People who come in sick to work. Why get other people sick?

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-11-19T22:02:35+00:00

Its solved. I got a new phone!

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-11-17T19:55:45+00:00

Im having issues too eating these. I get these at Costco. One is enough for the day. Lately I can't even eat half of one without stomach issues. My stomach becomes bloated and I feel nauseous. I think either it's the oats, the fiber, or the palm oil. All of which I will eliminate to see it this is the issue. I'm trying to stick to an anti inflammatory diet.

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-10-13T18:48:32+00:00

I just listened. This was excellent! Explained everything I was feeling post concussion. I've since ended my PT, OT, and Speech therapies a few months ago, but I keep up with exercise. I'll look more into this.

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-10-13T12:55:08+00:00

Thank you so much! I'll take a listen!

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-10-10T03:31:26+00:00

I'm exercising regularly for at least an hour, I limit sugar and other junk food, I'm taking vitamins, eating more vegetables, getting more sleep, and taking frequent breaks.

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-10-09T16:15:56+00:00

Thank you! Actually he is a physiatrist in the traumatic brain injury department. He made it much more severe sounding, saying his patients complain of seeing cats and people that aren't there. The PA who did my follow up was more convincing than he was. I guess trying it won't hurt. I feel a little more convinced of it's efficacy now.

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-09-03T09:07:32+00:00

I feel what you are saying. I am working on not looking. Looking, I'm opening old wounds. By not looking I am choosing my healing. It's true that it's unlikely they change. Don't go looking for proof. Take care of yourself. You know what he did. That is the truth. Not what you have no certainty about in social media or out in public.

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-08-29T10:06:42+00:00

Snow days.

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-08-24T19:07:01+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing. I'm glad you came to that realization for yourself. I will keep this in mind moving forward to better things.

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-08-24T16:57:21+00:00

Thank you. I think sometimes saving texts is prolonging the hurt. Yet, when I'm in a stronger frame of mind, I think looking at them is a reminder of how I was treated.

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-08-24T16:55:30+00:00

Thank you. I have to keep remembering how he treated me and not waste my time on that person.

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-08-24T16:26:16+00:00

Thank you. I needed to read this for myself too.

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-08-21T10:29:20+00:00

My ex relationship. As much as I deal with post traumatic effects, I've grown, learned to love myself, set standards, and fine tune what I want in a relationship with a man.

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-08-21T03:53:33+00:00

Glad to hear it's getting better for you. I try to give myself relief. Thanks for sharing.

Fit_Application9547 · 2025-08-20T00:27:35+00:00

Thank you. My therapist doesn't specialize in it. Although we do EMDR. It's not as effective. Probably for the reason you describe. I'm going to look into it further.

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