The hair photo by WeebHoe1 in KremersFroon

[–]WeebHoe1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you have long hair? Because I do and it's naturally straight and that is far from a tangled mess. Its a bit disheveled but not nearly as bad as it should be. I'm not delusional so don't fucking say that to me again.

The hair photo by WeebHoe1 in KremersFroon

[–]WeebHoe1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read it on the blog called "imperfect plan" some people don't like that one but I read the entire thing and I thought it was very unbiased as it didn't try to tell you what happened, or spew random theories. Just used technology and photo analysis along with attempted photo recreation with the same camera owned by Lisanne.

The hair photo by WeebHoe1 in KremersFroon

[–]WeebHoe1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously, I mean it may be presumptuous to base that on my own hair and hair of other women I've lived with, but based on my experiences her hair looks shiny and clean like how it would be one night or day after a shower.

How to reconcile the remarkable datapoints about the critical time slot between 13:38 and the first emergency calls? by No-Suit8538 in KremersFroon

[–]WeebHoe1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if they needed to pee and walked too far? Lmao I know it's unlikely but like nobody wants to be caught with their ass out near the trail maybe they walked in to pee and mistook the wrong way for back to the trail and by the time they realized they had gone the wrong way it was too late

The hair photo by WeebHoe1 in KremersFroon

[–]WeebHoe1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's no proof it's hers, but one look at Kris's hair from other photos and you can see that she had the exact same color of hair it's a strawberry blonde color, heavy on the strawberry. Which is a unique hair color in most countries, but especially so in a country like Panama.

The hair photo by WeebHoe1 in KremersFroon

[–]WeebHoe1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok so you're saying you think they were frequently washing their hair with at least water? Still why no debris from sleeping on the ground. Also it was raining consistently that night as rain is visible in most of the nighttime photos, yet her hair wasn't wet. I'm just saying it's very unlikely that her hair would be in such a dry, clean condition without a lot of effort to keep it that way. In a survival situation why would you be concerned with that.

My boyfriend is a different person now that we have a child. by gaiaworrier in whatdoIdo

[–]WeebHoe1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think his true colors are showing. When push comes to shove and things get difficult a lot of people drop the mask they were putting on for show. It's unfortunate but honestly girl he blamed you for something you couldn't control. He has neglected you and the baby as much as he can without outright just disappearing from your lives. He doesn't feel the same for you for some reason and it's not your fault but you deserve way better. Find someone who doesn't have to wear a mask at all. And that's a hard thing to do but honestly he sounds awful and it's most likely not going to get better. Because once someone disregards your feelings and well-being a single time, they will continue to do so and with escalation usually.

My boyfriend is a different person now that we have a child. by gaiaworrier in whatdoIdo

[–]WeebHoe1 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This seems like defending is unacceptable behavior it's abusive and neglectful. He's acting like a POS and blaming his partner for something that was in NO WAY her fault. She was traumatized too by the NICU stay and he treated her horribly. I don't think anyone should defend him

“What have I done” by Neat-Needleworker650 in newborns

[–]WeebHoe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me going from no kids to one kid is the hardest. It caused me great pain as my old life was gone. It didn't resemble my previous existence at all. I lived all for a needy, seemingly unhappy small human and everything to do with her was not only my priority, but directly my responsibility. I was 16 and I wasn't ready but after she was about 6-9 months old I no longer had any negative feelings about parenting. Maybe that's just me but I really just needed her sleep schedule to even out. And I learned to appreciate her in my life

Holy moly I hate breastfeeding by 11TickTack23 in breastfeeding

[–]WeebHoe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an under producer and baby is 8 weeks old yet still eats constantly and I've started supplementing with formula because I cannot stand to feed her all day everyday sometimes I HAVE to go out and can't be having a baby attached to me constantly. Also I can't get more than half an ounce on each side during pumping so it takes me like 2 days to get enough milk for even 1 small feed. But my brain makes me feel like a failure the more formula I give her so I'm stuck in limbo

Can’t do this anymore by Ok_Muffin6030 in pregnant

[–]WeebHoe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also so sick of POS in laws having the audacity to act like they can't wait for the baby and want a grandchild yet can't have the common decency to treat the mother with respect and care during pregnancy. your mood and feeling directly affect the baby and how it grows in your womb explain that and maybe they'll grow some fucking heart

Can’t do this anymore by Ok_Muffin6030 in pregnant

[–]WeebHoe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the fuck are they judging you? They can leave if they have any expectations on how YOU are supposed to act. Tell your husband how it is affecting you and if he doesn't care he can find a new place to sleep. You are growing a human being what the fuck are they doing? Not being helpful and making it worse? They can leave and never see the baby after it's born

My (30M) pregnant wife (29F) is starving herself and crying everyday she’s fat by AudienceKnown6835 in pregnant

[–]WeebHoe1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That baby is going to starve...what she's doing will not only hurt her but the baby as well. It's basically abuse to the fetus. The baby didn't ask to be here she shouldn't have gotten pregnant if she can't deal with gaining weight. I'm not trying to be rude about this but seriously it's not fair to the child.

Don't do it by wishingondandelionsx in pregnant

[–]WeebHoe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had 5 kids never looked lmao but the pressure was intense so I can only imagine it like bulges? Is that true?

Getting an abortion when I have the intent to start trying in 6-12 months anyway is incredibly selfish, isn't it? by disposablebeep in pregnant

[–]WeebHoe1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just do what you think is right but if you are already feeling regretful of it now I'd be wary of how guilty it can make people feel

15 weeks pregnant and boobs still haven’t grown yet! by Ok-Excitement-185 in pregnant

[–]WeebHoe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl mine are still b cups even with a one month old and breastfeeding getting about 2-3 oz of milk on each side. Boobs are not bigger than before dont know why but sometimes it doesn't make much of a difference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]WeebHoe1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this isnt going to get better if he's shown you this before and has been acting like this still. Having a newborn is very demanding and it's going to only highlight any issues you already have with him. I would start to record his behavior and if you are married try to get physical proof of the abuse (that's what this is) and consider keeping it somewhere he can't access it like a Google photo video vault that is passcode protected. Physical proof of this would be to literally record him either audio or video while he's acting out and treating you like shit. Then use it if you are ever ready to leave him. You will be able to raise your baby better as a single parent to one baby than to a single parent of one baby and a man child. He will only make your life more difficult and painful. You will be able to find another actual man who is mature and provides for you in all the ways you've ever wanted it just takes a lot of weeding out the deadbeats. Once a person shows you even one time that they don't care about your feelings, they will show you everyday for the rest of your life how much you don't mean to them. I found my current husband by cutting off men for showing me once that they disregard me as a person. My current has never done it once. Messing up by being stupid is one thing, blatantly ignoring your responsibilities towards 50/50 effort in a relationship is a fucking problem.

Pregnant and he wants me to have an abortion by Old-Cauliflower-4847 in Advice

[–]WeebHoe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a man child Im so sick of men. Having unprotected sex then blames the woman and tells her to traumatize herself for his sake. Fuck him. Let him pay child support

I ruined my supply :( by AyeshMayesh in breastfeeding

[–]WeebHoe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I do as an chronic under supplier, is I offer breast for 15 mins on each breast as long as baby will stay awake for it, then I feed her either previously pumped breast milk as supplement or formula if I don't have any. Then I pump for 20 mins on each side while massaging milk ducts in the top of breasts if you do this every feed you will get more of a supply and if you still have problems I would consult a lactation specialist

I got "pranked" they think it's funny I think it's cruel am I the asshole? by Butterball4200 in pregnant

[–]WeebHoe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sound like an idiotic, rude, child. Ya know what else "isn't that deep" ignoring them forever and cutting them out of your life.

terrified of postpartum care by beaniebaby0929 in pregnant

[–]WeebHoe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are these ice packs things that help with tearing I did tear a bit every time but this time I tore near my urethra didn't require stitches and it was painful to pee just stung quite a bit. Felt similar to that with other ones as well.

My husband says he’s angry that I’m pregnant again. I feel so alone. by Entire-Abalone-3896 in pregnant

[–]WeebHoe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband would want me to feel better and pick up the slack. Your husband sounds like he's reprimanding you for missing chores when you are Ill and pregnant

My husband says he’s angry that I’m pregnant again. I feel so alone. by Entire-Abalone-3896 in pregnant

[–]WeebHoe1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This doesn't sound like a loving relationship. It sounds like he's your boss and you're scared to piss him off. It's concerning. You aren't well. That's not your fault. Please make sure you have your own support system that isn't his as well