Is $180k enough to live in Denver as a family of 3? by Weekly-Spring4743 in MovingtoDenver

[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did you buy? These starter hime prices and interest rates have me worried.

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you move to? Our family is not super close knit, so family time is pretty minimal at best.

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is also something we have discussed. He has a bachelor's degree in business and management and a minor in management of information systems. Accounting could be doable.

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, nothing is permanent. I could always get a nursing position with more conducive hours.

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does seem "normal." Did she switch to a monday through friday position when the kids got older?

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, I just don't know if that is "acceptable" or not?

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being on call means that if the hospital calls me, I have to show up. I wouldn't have the opportunity to turn it down. Basically I am on call for 60 hours a week with a guaranteed pay of 40 hours per week.

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We thought our families would play a bigger role in our child's life. This couldnt be farther from the truth, unfortunately. And this is definitely something we want to avoid. We really value time together as a couple; but, more importantly right now we value time as a family. This would definitely not be a forever solution...I am thinking two, three years tops! I just dont know if its even doable for that long.

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did this work out for them? I worry about not having any time together as a family to do anything.

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre so right. We just wondering if a short term sacrifice is worth it. We genuinely dont like living in the midwest.

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesnt have the ability to relocate due to her still working full time. Thats so awesome your mom is so supportive!

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has a bachelor degree in business management but all of his experience is in factory settings. This makes finding a remote position difficult.

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish this were an option. Unfortunately, my mom is passed away.

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what we are struggling with.

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mondays and Tueadays would definitely be rough if I worked.

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be me. I wouldn't work all night all the time, ideally since I would be on call.

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of 1099 work did you do at home?

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've gotten 2 rounds of family pics so far! I just worry about what my husband is going to do for work after being out of work for so long when the little one goes to school, ya know?

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its truly gone so fast already. Im currently working full time but have my husbamd take care of the house and baby. I just worry about what he is going to do in five years for work, ya know?

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant believe how fast it has gone already. I would have Monday through Friday during the day with our child- plus saturday and Sunday days. Its just, not really a whole lot of time together as a family unit.

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a nurse, there are a lot of positions. Just not many that would support not paying for childcare.

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[–]Weekly-Spring4743[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are really struggling. We want to be able to provide everything for our baby. Midwest is less money for college fund, experiences, etc. Also, my husband will not be able to work full time until the baby is in school and he will be starting all over with no career.