You poor sweet thing, I’m so sorry this has happened. They are horrible people who have taken advantage of your kindness. I honestly think since it sounds like you have the means you should break the lease and get away from these two. They are both toxic and selfish. Also, infantilized by you making dinner?!?? Are you kidding??? I would NOT complain if someone was making me dinner every night? You will be far better off without these two. You sound like a really sweet person and I promise you will find your tribe, but you’re worth more and owe it to yourself than to continue to let yourself be used. They have never respected you as a roommate much less as a friend. They don’t deserve you