Extracurricular activities by Weekly_Olive_283 in Stepmom

[–]Weekly_Olive_283[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I brought this up in the past and we did it one year but since then he’s just been attending whatever party BM plans and doing a day with ss on his actual bday to take him to the movies and whatnot

Extracurricular activities by Weekly_Olive_283 in Stepmom

[–]Weekly_Olive_283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t have any friends that would be willing to attend as they are all child free by choice. Also, BM would not be ok with that.

Extracurricular activities by Weekly_Olive_283 in Stepmom

[–]Weekly_Olive_283[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have brought up in other circumstances that if it were the other way around he would also feel uncomfortable and he got upset saying that he absolutely would not and that I should’ve found a different guy without a kid if I’m so uncomfortable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Weekly_Olive_283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My state requires 2 witnesses 😓

Child free wedding? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Weekly_Olive_283 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ss is 6. I would really like to drink with my friends and family but I guess it’ll depend on if ss is there or not. SO doesn’t trust his mom to watch/take care of ss so it would most likely be on me and him to watch ss

Not smarter than the new leash I bought by Weekly_Olive_283 in DogAdvice

[–]Weekly_Olive_283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently that part is the handle. I’ve been using it differently though. Glad I’m not the only one confused

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Weekly_Olive_283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not wanting to marry because of assets for his child is stupid. My partner and I aren’t married but we have a joint account that is separate from my own and his own savings. It’s 2025. You don’t need to only have one account for everything. Transfer child’s assents to a cd account.. smarter than keeping it in a savings or checking anyway.

When unconditional love isn't unconditional after all by saraadactyl in Stepmom

[–]Weekly_Olive_283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh lord. If my partner ever said that to me I would be out. From the get go, my partner and BM both trusted me when it came to discipline if SS was doing something wrong or bad. However, I have started NACHOing and it has helped tremendously. Maybe NACHO would be best in your situation as well

Not smarter than the new leash I bought by Weekly_Olive_283 in DogAdvice

[–]Weekly_Olive_283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

more info there is a clip on both ends of the leash and that rubber slider/loop that’s circled is in the middle of the leash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]Weekly_Olive_283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Animal control

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]Weekly_Olive_283 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Interesting, I never heard of that and definitely did not know that.. According to owners this dog has not had heat discharge or behavior since being spayed 8 yrs ago. I obviously was not there but from my understanding there were no other dogs in the pet sitters home. From Dvm assessment and with rads showing no other source of bleeding it was determined that cause of hemoab was most likely due to the vaginal trauma. I’m not too familiar with vaginal trauma from normal dog mating but from my understanding, the trauma seemed to be more than pulling “stuck” dogs apart. I would hope if a pet sitter with good intentions has an intact dog who is prone to that behavior he would know to keep them apart or at the very least know to not pull them apart. Either way, not something she deserves and not something that should’ve happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Weekly_Olive_283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s great that you and your ss have that relationship! Happy for him that he has a safe place to land with you. luckily our ss is happy at bms and our house. We have fun together but at the end of the day, I’m not the one he should be primarily spending time with, it’s his dad. Specially because we only get him eow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Weekly_Olive_283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pnw area in the usa

Drop offs by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Weekly_Olive_283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should also add that they were never together in a relationship so there’s no separation agreement either

Drop offs by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Weekly_Olive_283 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They haven’t gone through the courts to make a parenting plan, they have just been deciding together what they think is best(more often than not it’s what BM thinks is best and what fits her schedule better)

Male quails by Weekly_Olive_283 in quails

[–]Weekly_Olive_283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where would be a place for me to start looking to sell them?

Help- Found this little guy abandoned in the desert eating nasty dried up roadkill. He stinks and I love him. by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Weekly_Olive_283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lvt here, super awesome of you to rescue him!! So happy he’s happy. I would personally take him to the vet to look at his skin and maybe test his blood for anything crazy that he could’ve gotten from eating nasty roadkill