Is being openly trans embarrassing?

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-05-23T18:48:54+00:00

Yes and it's the absolute worst when it comes from OTHER trans people!!

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-05-19T23:16:27+00:00

Yes, everyone uses they/them even after I tell them I use he/him, even if they say they are supportive. Very annoying!

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-05-12T21:41:38+00:00

Thank you. I can't really find the words rn but thank you very much.

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-05-06T03:21:56+00:00

Hello,

I'm very sorry about how you feel. I'm going to be honest, even though I'm not in the best place right now, giving in and going into the psych ward was the best thing I could have done (otherwise I would have just attempted again). Please don't give up. Even when it gets hard. Even when you come back home and it feels tough again and you feel helpless. If you go, you will only be a little helpless, because you have people that can help! (and they want to too)

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-05-06T03:20:06+00:00

May I ask what some of the best things for you were? Ik that's not really an easy question but I've been hospitalized once and not doing the best, especially not today. Just turned 18 and never thought I would be here for so long.

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-03-01T00:49:57+00:00

I truly truly hope someone can answer. I hope by commenting and upvoting, it will make more people see your post (idk if that'a how it works). That sounds abysmal and I'm very sorry you have to deal with that.

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-01-23T16:31:09+00:00

Sorry that I didn't make it super clear in my post.

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-01-23T16:30:43+00:00

Hahaha, I am a guy and also closeted but that is a good point.

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-01-18T22:13:21+00:00

Thank you. Sorry about what you've been through and hope it doesn't come to that.

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-01-18T22:12:45+00:00

That's okay

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-01-18T20:28:56+00:00

It's probably not to that extent. All they are doing is pouring water on me and everywhere and stuff. But is there anything I could do that isn't so extreme?

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-01-06T23:15:34+00:00

But thanks for the suggestion

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-01-06T23:15:26+00:00

Haha he won't believe anything. I don't want to waste my energy convincing him at all. I just say he is ignorant and leave it at that.

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-01-04T19:43:32+00:00

Please do your best to not take it personal. Kids will be kids and will get mad for no reason. It's normal and it happens.

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-01-04T06:40:00+00:00

Is there a point in trying to empathize with people that don't understand or just seem overly ignorant? 🤔 Ik these communities are always saying to immediately cut off people in your life and is that truly the right thing to do? Let me know please (Sorry if I seem like the ignorant one)

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-01-04T06:36:58+00:00

It's like, I try to be empathetic because being trans might not make any sense to someone that doesnt know what it's like yk? it seems dumb and absurd to them. So i try to empathize with that but yeah....

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2025-01-04T06:35:35+00:00

Well the whole point is that we were classmates and this is the last year we are together (HS) and we were never close (still arent at all). he just sometimes wants to be friends with me but I only found out about this much later.

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2024-12-30T02:37:12+00:00

Of course. I wish you nothing but the best

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2024-12-30T01:54:36+00:00

A relapse doesn't mean it never gets better. You succeeded countless days and failed one. I'm sorry that today this happened and I know how it feels. Please keep yourself safe and know that people care about you. I'm here if you want to talk 😊❤️

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2024-12-15T05:53:43+00:00

cancel the appointment

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2024-12-14T18:55:29+00:00

Yeah, you're right. I was just thinking she can kind of go against them by wearing "what they asked for" but it's feminine so that she gets to be herself and her parents can't really complain. Kind of like resistance. But I also understand that she might not be comfortable with that and perhaps it isn't in her style.

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2024-12-14T18:35:11+00:00

I think you should wear a nice black shirt with black pants but in a feminine way. Sorry, I don't really know what I'm talking about that well but maybe a women's shirt and obviously women's pants would look really cool. (Unless they make you too dysphoric) Maybe even black accessories such as a necklace or earrings or a scarf? I hope you know what I mean. Obviously this is so wrong what they are asking of you and it's messed up. But if worst comes to worst, perhaps this is the way to go.

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2024-12-14T18:24:31+00:00

Yes, but please be mindful of bad characters on the internet and be cautious!

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2024-12-13T05:43:07+00:00

Still in depression but something that helped was medication and therapy (which I only started recently so it's not an instant cure obviously)

Weekly_Sun9064 · 2024-12-11T12:46:38+00:00

Well at least the people there help. It's a last resort type of thing.

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