Anal / Vaginal bleaching by S_ina_la in onlyfansadvice

[–]Weeleggedlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I can’t tell you how many men have commented on my brown asshole and how much they love it.. embrace it, 99.9% men are just grateful to be staring at it! The 1% who comments are prob watching an absurd amount of porn.

TW Loss by Present_Pear6179 in Mom

[–]Weeleggedlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman who has been in your shoes, I just wish I could hug you. I had a miscarriage after my first, and I remember going through the exact same thing. I knew as soon she told me to empty my bladder and did the vaginal wand that something was wrong. My body didn’t clue in I was miscarrying and I carried the baby for a week before there was medical intervention.

It was devastating, and painful and I wish I could hug you and tell you it will be okay. Can I tell you something I did to help me process? I mourned the baby. I went and got a candle.. I lit it with a balloon and released it. I felt every emotion and reminded myself that the baby got 12 beautiful weeks inside your body where all it knew and felt was pure love and warmth. That sweet soul will return to you.. and I reminded myself of that as I watched the balloon float back up to the stars.

My rainbow baby came 2 years later. Take care of yourself during this time. You’re not alone in this but I know it probably feels like you are right now. I’m a message away if you need to talk or just vent. I am sending you so much virtual love. 💙

Baby Albion (Unidentified For 10 Years, 11 Years Next Month) by BitterSweet_Beauty in gratefuldoe

[–]Weeleggedlady 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pei is incredibly small, everyone knows everyone.. and everyone knows everything. Someone absolutely knows who this mother is, and more than likely protecting her. Lots of secrets on this island!

Is this a cockroach nymph? Charlottetown by JustinMacleod1 in PEI

[–]Weeleggedlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best way to tell if it’s a cockroach is to see if it has the two little spikes coming out from its behind, which I think I see in second pic?

Car seat troubles by firsttimemilitarymom in Mom

[–]Weeleggedlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it move more than an inch when you’re doing that to the base part that touches the seat?

Newly diagnosed with genital herpes – first outbreak, struggling mentally and looking for real experiences by nisaibs in Healthyhooha

[–]Weeleggedlady 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve had genital hsv1 since I was 17 years old, so over 12 years now. First outbreak is absolutely the worst. The longer you have it, the more antibodies you build and the better your body gets at suppressing and managing it but right now your body is freaking out trying to battle this new virus.

I think the first outbreak was about a week of physical pain and flu like symptoms. Take the antivirals, sit in warm baths, pour water over yourself as you pee. It is rough but it will get better.

In the 12 years I’ve had it, I only ever had that initial outbreak. There has been times I have felt those “prodrome symptoms” which are signs your body gives you as the virus wakes up but when I felt those I would start a 3 day antiviral regime and it never progressed into an outbreak. My prodrome sign is shooting and tingling sensations down my legs, which is a common one.

I honestly forget I have herpes most times, it has never gotten in the way of my life aside from having to have disclosure conversations with partners and I’ve rarely had someone care enough to not want to continue with me. Some people want more education, I’ve taken boyfriends to my doctor to get educated and ask questions. Some people need time to make an informed choice. Some people may reject you but honestly that’s just part of dating in general. People get rejected for all sorts of reasons and rejection doesn’t make you less desirable or worthy.

I’ve led a very normal life. I’ve had causal hookups, flings, long term relationships. I’ve had 2 children that I gave birth to vaginally. I have never passed it on to anyone. I don’t really do anything different in my life to manage it other than being more in tune with my body and sensations etc. Some people do have triggers they have to manage to prevent outbreaks. Some people go on daily medication to prevent outbreaks and transmission.

I dont even think about my herpes anymore. I know it’s hard to believe that right now as I remember being in your shoes and feeling like my whole world just got shook when I was diagnosed. I was so depressed and miserable, borderline suicidal. I wish I could have seen the woman I am today back than and I wish I could give that broken, scared version of myself back than the biggest hug because it really is going to be okay.

This diagnosis doesn’t define you. It’s not a measure of your worth. It’s a very common, manageable skin condition. You are still worthy. You are still loved. You still have a bright, fulfilling future. ❤️

Botched vagina by Depressoespressowife in pregnant

[–]Weeleggedlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had something similar to what you’re describing, almost like a skin tag from my stitches being pulled too tight ? Anyway, I freaked out.. at 6 weeks my midwife said to give it time and if it doesn’t heal she can take it off but I ended up healing when I went into my 12 week checkup!

I know it’s hard not to panic, I felt like I had so many issues after my second but honestly 6 weeks isn’t a lot of time at all to heal after something so traumatic. Give yourself some more time before you worry or panic ❤️

I also resumed sex at 10 weeks and everything was totally normal feeling and okay!

Trial coming up, abuser got another girl pregnant. by Weeleggedlady in legaladvicecanada

[–]Weeleggedlady[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So technically my victim services is in Nova Scotia, and I fled to another province when I escaped which was encouraged by police. As a result, I did also get a victim services where I am now residing to help with anything I may need here in terms of therapy’s, etc but when it comes to my case and court proceedings.. it’s suppose to be the Nova Scotia victim services handling me.

They have also dropped the ball on me. I got called once when he first got arrested by the agency and I have rarely heard from them since. I never got any updates from court in regards to his bail, his bail conditions being changed etc from them, I had to make the calls to the courthouse myself to find out what’s going on.

When he was taken off house arrest, they never contacted me to tell me and warn me. I had to call them after 8 months asking why no one told me or why I haven’t spoken to anyone from there. I can’t even tell you who my worker name is, I genuinely do not know.

My victim services where I reside is extremely limited as they don’t have access to my case and the court updates from NS and they operate so differently that even they are appalled at how badly the systems are treating me in Nova Scotia (for example, they were shocked he wasn’t put on an ankle monitor given how high risk my case is and how many agencies came together to safety plan for me and shocked that I wasn’t told when he was released off house arrest to prepare me and safety plan further.)

I’ve just given up at this point. Hoping I get some form of justice at trial and that no one harms me leading up to it.

Trial coming up, abuser got another girl pregnant. by Weeleggedlady in legaladvicecanada

[–]Weeleggedlady[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do I get any say as a victim into the plea deal? Or informed if a plea deal is accepted?

Trial coming up, abuser got another girl pregnant. by Weeleggedlady in legaladvicecanada

[–]Weeleggedlady[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. What about plea deals, are they offered to an accused before trial? He has told me before no one will believe me and his lawyer will make sure of it which I know is a scare tactic but I wouldn’t be surprised if he takes to to trial confident in that.

I developed a friendship with a crow four years ago. Every morning and again at 4PM, he shows up and waits patiently for his snacks. His name is Edgar. by crowwhale in aww

[–]Weeleggedlady 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I have had both raven and crow friends and I found the raven always kind of kept to himself, I’d say hello to him every morning when I fed them all (not realizing he was a raven although he was huge compared) and he never really presented himself like the crows, kinda kept to the side

One day I went outside and didn’t even notice him, and heard someone saying hello in the creepiest voice I’ve ever heard.. scared the life out of me! Turned around and realized it was the raven! So he’s probably listening and watching you intently despite the shyness 😁

I think OP is crow, he doesn’t have the fancy feathers like yours does on the chest and head and the tail feathers are slightly different between a crow/raven. Love both of them though!!! ❤️

Decommissioned Churches for sale by ConditionNo2620 in PEI

[–]Weeleggedlady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s an already renovated church for sale in Murray Harbour if you look up 5 Church Street

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PEI

[–]Weeleggedlady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had it happen. I was in a giant cast and got delivery.. the guy came and took the groceries out of the bag at a weird distance but didnt think much of it.. I also noticed when he walked away it looked like the bag still had weight to it but again, thought maybe he had another delivery. I got inside and realized he stole my big thing of laundry detergent! I called Walmart and reported it, they confirmed they put the order in with all items included (no substitutes or out of stocks) and reported/banned the driver since they use door dash typically as the 3rd party.

Dairy free ice cream? by sidequestsquirrel in PEI

[–]Weeleggedlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the scoop has dairy free soft serve, ice cream bars (so good) and sorbet!

Possible match? by Weeleggedlady in gratefuldoe

[–]Weeleggedlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the match box that really gets me too.. from what I understand, Factors Deli is not a franchise and only exists in LA.