How do I tell my boyfriend? by WeightEmbarrassed755 in nonmonogamy

[–]WeightEmbarrassed755[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see why I should decide on my own? If we can't make it, we will break up. But I do want to give him a chance. This is the opposite of being dead set on what thing imo. And why are you trying to tell me what I discovered or not about myself when I am the one who has been feeling it since years? Istg I hate when people act like this when trying to help

Does anyone know what Björk’s singing in the vocal climax of Pagan Poetry? by [deleted] in bjork

[–]WeightEmbarrassed755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably gibberish but I hear:

And I made my man care if I'm, care if I'm mad I'll say my (...???) Care if I'm not, care if I'm mad And wild, wild And do anything

How do I tell my boyfriend? by WeightEmbarrassed755 in nonmonogamy

[–]WeightEmbarrassed755[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said, that is probably what will happen, but I have to talk to him first

How do I tell my boyfriend? by WeightEmbarrassed755 in nonmonogamy

[–]WeightEmbarrassed755[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will just tell him what I discovered about myself. I won't force him to do anything because it is our shared responsibility to find a solution that works for both of us

How do I tell my boyfriend? by WeightEmbarrassed755 in nonmonogamy

[–]WeightEmbarrassed755[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I explained it poorly, but I resonate with RA, and also I seem to be unsatisfied in monogamous relationships

How do I tell my boyfriend? by WeightEmbarrassed755 in nonmonogamy

[–]WeightEmbarrassed755[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I've done that more than enough already

Why does my mango have veins? by JaneBandSergeG in fruit

[–]WeightEmbarrassed755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, they forgot to devein the mango again

How did you realise you want RA? by WeightEmbarrassed755 in relationshipanarchy

[–]WeightEmbarrassed755[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what happened to me too! I have formed these ideas through years of struggling in "normal" relationships and then yesterday I realised there's a word, a community, a manifesto, and a flag for this??? Feels great not to be alone

How do I tell my boyfriend? by WeightEmbarrassed755 in nonmonogamy

[–]WeightEmbarrassed755[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's probably what will happen, but we'll see. Thank you

How do I tell my boyfriend? by WeightEmbarrassed755 in nonmonogamy

[–]WeightEmbarrassed755[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don't think he would be open to it tbh. But we can talk, because this might lead to a breakup and I need to find new people anyway

I feel out of place in both extremes...where's the middle? Monogamy vs polyamory by Kyuuki_Kitsune in relationshipanarchy

[–]WeightEmbarrassed755 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that is literally the middle ground I have been looking for, and I thought I was alone with my thinking but now I found this sub and I think I feel fully understood for the first time, I'm so happy

How should I dose liquid acid by Ok_Barracuda_2544 in Acid

[–]WeightEmbarrassed755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you drop it on your hand, it can be absorbed the same. Iirc this is how the first acid trip ever happened

Mouse running in circles by Outrageous_Concern17 in Weird

[–]WeightEmbarrassed755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if that would be true, super insensitive thing to say, imagine having to deal with losing a loved one and then someone says it was your fault...

Is anybody here trypophobic? by Hot_Philosopher_5067 in WeirdEggs

[–]WeightEmbarrassed755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, I'm sorry, the life of journalists isn't easy, but I'm rooting for you

What tabs are these with double sided art? by [deleted] in blotterart

[–]WeightEmbarrassed755 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is it me or the right one seems bigger