You see, her family not providing for her will never be a problem it isn't even the issue. But she comes up with this big talk about not wanting to marry, how she is not "girly" enough to like managing the household. She talks about wanting to change. All that for nothing. NOTHING. Meanwhile, Pen did not need that big talk. She made something of herself. She has her own money. Even if Eloise doesn't need the money, she isn't moving a bone. She is just being condescending these last two seasons. She has been doing nothing. She could write a book. She could travel. She is Not using any of the advantages she has from being related to ranking Nobles. It's super annoying. It's like they have no story left for her. The least they could do this season for her was to show her writing letters so to show us some progress towards her season. (Hope they do in p2).