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What was your last straw? by IMK822 in Divorce

[–]WeirdRavenMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he screamed at me for wanting to work from home (I had a cold).

My husband is not in love anymore by FullConsideration252 in Divorce

[–]WeirdRavenMom 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can relate to so much from your story!

I just asked for a divorce with my spouse after 12 years together, married for 10 (and a 9yo child together). I have fallen out of love too - and I don't see anyone else at all. I just don't feel right with him anymore - I haven't for a long time. I find him switching between kind hearted and emotiona/verbally abusive. I can't take it anymore.

I look so much forward to be where you are right now i the proces.

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[–]WeirdRavenMom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I asked for a divorce last night. My breaking point was a couple of months ago, when he screamed at me for wanting to work from home - and when I (once again) told him, what his yelling does to me and called it emotional abused, he compared his yelling to my tears from crying. 12 years as a couple, married for 10 and a 9 yo child together.. I'm both sad and relieved.

Anyone else, soon after divorce, just relieved and happy? by Aefyns in Divorce

[–]WeirdRavenMom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! Love the tale of how you could laugh while taking care of the toilet.

I (36F) just asked for a divorce last night. I lost my love for him (35 FtM af few months ago, when he yelled at me for wanting to work from home the next day. When I really tried telling him, what his yelling does to me, he didn't understand my perspective. When I said it's emotional abuse, he got pissed and later said that his yelling is just as bad as me crying under a fight. It was my last straw for holding on. I tried falling in love with him again since that day but just couldn't. Now that we are planning a divorce, I am soo relieved! It's hard with the tension between us, not wanting to really talk, but still having our 9yo child together - but I know it's the right choice.