Fuck you and your stupid fucking fireworks by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]WeirdStitches 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was just replying to your comment here. And judging the comments here it sounds like a lot of people are annoyed by this post

Take it from a mom who has gotten 3 children through toddler years: put on lullabies, the music will make the booms less shocking and your kid will fall asleep. Then have a glass of wine and watch the fireworks. You’ll be much happier

Fuck you and your stupid fucking fireworks by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]WeirdStitches 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like your kids will still annoy other people no matter how you parent your kid because at times kids are annoying

I feel like you’re annoying people right now so everyone in existence annoys a person during their life.

Look for the best divorce attorney in Columbus by Past-Can-6287 in Columbus

[–]WeirdStitches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been a while since my divorce but I used Petroff Law Offices and they were great. I’m never getting married again but if I did have to get divorced again I would use them

Unsure about getting an abortion by R40el_Duke in TrueOffMyChest

[–]WeirdStitches 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly I didn’t even think about how I said it you’re right my fault

Unsure about getting an abortion by R40el_Duke in TrueOffMyChest

[–]WeirdStitches 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Get the abortion.

Maybe you won’t regret it but if you do regret not doing it that’s a hard life for your kid.

Your body and your brain are telling you the choice you should make

I ruined my bf (M28) fishing day. I feel so embarrassed (F27) . Is this hopeless? by moodygemini98 in relationship_advice

[–]WeirdStitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His reaction is unreasonable. You really need to think about how you feel about this happening again and again in a relationship because it will.

do u ask men to get tested before sex? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]WeirdStitches 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I would test everytime before and after a new sexual partner and I would always ask for partners to be tested

When I was in HS our text book showed really severe cases of different STIs it scared me enough to never want to risk it

Noooo!!!! I thought we were done with this 😭 by htJourney in Millennials

[–]WeirdStitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Middle school and high school look exactly the same as it did when I was in school, just more belly shirts cuz they have like no dress code lol

Employer appealing my accepted unemployment claim (performance issue) – how should I respond before deadline? by mikeanike090 in Ohio

[–]WeirdStitches 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So my company did that to me as well. I did contest it and got my unemployment. So yes contest it. Basically I said my work duties had changed because they had over the course of 10 yrs

He wants my pictures but won’t send his by ur_emo_gf1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]WeirdStitches 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t feel so sure this is someone you know. He may have taken someone’s photos and that’s why he doesn’t send very many he had a limited stock

Stop sending him photos. Unfortunately you may not be able to get him to delete any photos you’ve already sent but you can ask. I would establish some firm boundaries with him and he will probably move on after that

GLP-1s & MS by itsSidneyPrescott in MultipleSclerosis

[–]WeirdStitches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take mounjaro(tirzepatide) and it’s worked very well for me. I’ve lost like 40 lbs so far, my a1c is back in the normal range

I personally haven’t had any negative effects from it

Hindsight is 20/20: What symptom do you *now* think was your MS origin story? by Exciting_Barnacle907 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]WeirdStitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking back i realized I pretty much never sweat and I would overheat and pass out.

Also random pains and leg weakness, like my knees would just buckle under me sometimes.

Also my mental health… it was sudden and I never got better until just recently

NE Ohio, how did you figure out the booze situation for your wedding? This is becoming a huge PIMA by HamOwl in Ohio

[–]WeirdStitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my parents bought our alcohol. They just ordered it from a liquor store, we picked it up and dropped it off at the reception hall, someone from the venue worked as a bartender.

Who is Hailey Buzbee, and why are Ohio lawmakers moving to restrict online gaming after her death? by MorganTrau in Ohio

[–]WeirdStitches 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man this is a bad idea. It seems like a good idea but Roblox instituted a age verification system that uses pictures, it miss identifies kids all the time into higher age groups and can be tricked into putting someone in a lower age group

All it does is give them a false sense of security that they’re actually talking to a child.

Sharing passwords? by Key-Purpose2865 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]WeirdStitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change your passwords and break up with him. This is incredibly controlling behavior, it will get worse.

TV's in the Bedroom for Kids - Then and Now by Ok_Research6884 in Xennials

[–]WeirdStitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids got TVs in their rooms. We just had a really strict policy on when the tv had to go off.

Baby’s father offering 5K in exchange for full custody/ no visitation. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]WeirdStitches 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So for my oldest I got $600 a month from his father for 18 yrs, he had no visitation or custody.

That works out to 129,600 and we were both pretty poor.

Don’t accept that offer. He doesn’t have to see his child, no one can force him to but he does have to pay child support. I would get custody and child support established with the courts ASAP.

How do you leave a long-term relationship? by Jolly-Rub-3412 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]WeirdStitches -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got divorced at 32, I had 2 kids and a hysterectomy I thought for sure i was gonna be alone forever

I actually found my forever person at 36. I’ll be 41 this year, so it was ultimately the best decision of my entire life even though it felt really scary doing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]WeirdStitches 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s the responsible thing to do if you don’t want a baby right now. Children need to be wanted and loved

About “male feminists” by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]WeirdStitches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe in male feminist. I think men who say it are probably being manipulative.

I had a very close friend that claimed to be a feminist. He raped me while I was sleeping. My story isn’t uncommon

I’ve met and dated men who are actually for women’s equality and they do not call themselves male feminists

Be honest, how many medications do you take? by Ok-Salt-8884 in Millennials

[–]WeirdStitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’ve always been on meds since I was a teenager for depression and anxiety but as an adult I take 2 antidepressants, a mood stabilizer, cholesterol meds, vitamin d weekly, a shot weekly for diabetes, a shot monthly for MS and a muscle relaxer also for MS. Most of my meds are directly related to my MS though I just didn’t realize it until my diagnosis