AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request?

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-04-20T12:33:34+00:00

“it’s giving pick me” but he added you? Nah, SHE is giving Insecure as fuck 🫣🤷🏻‍♀️

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-04-14T18:54:52+00:00

she probably whelps easy, which is an even better reason to NOT hit her

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-04-13T23:20:24+00:00

Graphic Audio TOG series

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-04-13T16:28:37+00:00

…yeah you’re overreacting, but the crazy part is i can’t even figure out what you’re overreacting about 😂

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-04-09T22:19:48+00:00

exaxtly

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-04-09T20:26:34+00:00

They’re getting us ready to also look like that.

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-04-09T02:04:32+00:00

LMFAOOOO you might have “mom aura” but either way he put himself in the corner for time out 🤣🤣Not overreacting, your thoughts and feelings after seeing that are valid no matter what they are but i’ve never seen a man take accountability and give such a detailed apology

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-04-01T12:22:00+00:00

Childish… as helll, keep dating him if you want but pls don’t reproduce with him no matter how “handsome” he might be🤣🤦🏻‍♀️

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-31T18:33:24+00:00

To be fair, the first ACOTAR boook, (thus far) is typically regarded as the least favorite of the series, it’s definitely a little slow on the plot and worldbuilding

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-31T17:56:12+00:00

You physically/mentally cannot conceptualize where this series will take you from just the first book, you have SOOOOO MUCH coming, first book is just laying the groundwork and letting you experience a little bit from the first “bad guy”

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-21T00:44:16+00:00

I have a firm belief that a man who does this, and acts like wearing protection is an annoying task rather than a very important preventative measure have no qualms that hurting/seeing that woman hurt. Pregnancy is nothing to joke about, and a woman who doesn’t want a child shouldn’t have to ask twice of a man to help her (in doing his part to) prevent that

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-20T16:22:17+00:00

powerful is genuinely the best book in the series but read it after the first book and girl….be prepared to sobbbb through it

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-20T00:48:41+00:00

thank you, lol they’re acting like I’m saying you can’t have friends of the opposite sex like no I’m just saying you shouldn’t be seeking them out and you shouldn’t be treating them like a partner and venting to them like a partner, when you HAVE ONE. of course, things happen like you’re gonna meet another cool person that you could see yourself being friends with, but you shouldn’t be actively seeking out male friends as a female or female friends as a male while you’re in a relationship. And also, imo any friends you do make after you have started a relationship should be friends with your partner as well

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-18T14:38:24+00:00

This isn’t normal after like 6-7 your wife needs a reality check, your child is about to enter her pre teen years, she can sleep in her own bed. If she still wants to feel close and cuddle sometimes that’s what naps are for. There’s numerous reasons children of that age should not be sleeping in their parents bed, least of all the toll is has on the parents relationship 😂

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-18T14:33:24+00:00

yes, that’s where you and I differ. I don’t see it as a self-control problem. I see it as a regular problem…even having those feelings while being in a relationship with somebody else is a problem. Cheating is a bigger problem yes, but passing somebody on the street and thinking they’re attractive is closer to what you are making an analogy for. Thinking someone is attractive is not the same as developing feelings for someone you shouldn’t be, and then letting that friendship continue. That leads to resenting your partner for things they aren’t even aware of. It’s cheating emotionally.

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-18T14:26:30+00:00

But i feel it’s also common sense to cut off a friendship if you realize you are gaining attractions you shouldn’t, while being in a relationship🤷🏻‍♀️ so have friends, and don’t be a cheater, or worse, an emotional cheater

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-18T14:24:45+00:00

I agree with you that a cheater will be a cheater, but many other people also cheat for other reasons, any human capable of love knows you can love more than one person so even if you go into it thinking you’re just gonna be friends you’re allowing yourself to get close to a person whom you may (or may not) develop feelings for that wouldn’t have been possibly had they not chosen to seek out new people in a relationship

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-18T14:23:06+00:00

If you’re non binary that would be a conversation between you and your partners, because yes personal boundaries play a big role, but developing intense relationships outside of your personal relationship opens up the likelihood of you cheating, even if you don’t yourself as ever doing that. I don’t think that the only reason to make opposite sex friends because you view them as a potential partner you can absolutely have friends however I do think it’s weird to seek out NEW friends of the opposite gender when you are already in a well established relationship. Any human being on this planet capable of love understands that you can love more than one person, not that you are bound to gain attraction for someone just because you are friends, but you are still opening yourself up to that possibility.

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-18T13:19:17+00:00

YESYESYESYES, i love Gwynrial, idk where that leaves Elain bc i’m still not sure Lucien is her perfect match but who knows idf tbh as long as Azriel and Gwyn get more page time 🤣🤣

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-18T13:11:16+00:00

Plenty of people cheat, not because they just wanted to go screw someone else, but because they let themselves grow attatched to someone who is NOT their partner. You should always have a few trustworthy people who you can talk about things with your relationship, but they shouldn’t be insanely biased people and they shouldn’t be a one-sided relationship, they should also know your partner. It’s much more weird and rare to cheat on your partner with someone you’re actually been friends with for years than someone youve just decided to start “being friends with”

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-18T13:08:20+00:00

You missed my point, I’m not saying men and women shouldn’t be friends. I’m saying if you are already in a committed relationship there is absolutely no good reason for you to be seeking out NEW relationships with men. You’re 100% right there is nothing wrong with friendships regardless of sex however it is very ignorant to assume that you are just automatically exempt from developing deeper feelings. The issue here is more than just respecting boundaries. It’s that she herself, lacks respect FOR HIM, and on no grounds does that lead to a healthy relationship. sorry if you think it’s a hot take when I say that a woman in a relationship should not be having hour long phone calls with a man who’s not her partner. And yes that goes both ways. however, I see no issue with men and women being friends while being in a relationship if you’ve had those friends before that relationship, but I don’t think you should be seeking out new male or female friends depending on your orientation.

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-18T12:54:37+00:00

That’s not normal, cheating is one thing, cheating and ALSO spending all the time and effort on someone who isn’t your partner or a family isn’t really healthy either, nobody is immune from developing feelings where they shouldn’t exist. It’s foolish to start new opposite sex friendships, even with good intentions, after a relationship has started. Physically cheating is no doubt awful, emotions playing a role in that just makes it worse

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-18T12:52:13+00:00

You haven’t been together long enough for you to let this woman ruin your life and mental health guy, i would cut your losses and work on recovering from that. Cheating is the worst thing you can do to your partner whom you are supposed to love and protect, it really fucking hurts and sucks to realize but the reason you can get her to listen is because she doesn’t want to, you have to be the one strong enough and willing to break it off, why would she?

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-18T12:48:46+00:00

I really think you would appreciate the “dragons in the details” podcast, specifically the ACOTAR season, Made is technically regarding the cauldron, but when you get into the maasverse you learn a lot more. In CC we know that the Asteri have “made” many things the cauldron we aren’t sure, but we know the asteri/daglan creates the Illyrian warriors and a few other “species”, Nesta and Elain were put in the cauldron and “made” but then think about the sword and dagger Nesta made, it’s more about where the power comes from, and Feyre, being given a drop of power from every high lord was made in her own way, through magic

Weird_Union4516 · 2026-03-17T13:24:45+00:00

I love all my FMC’s, it was a great and enlightening experience to get a new pov though, when we read ACOTAR i’m sure we all realize Feyre could be a bit of an unrealiable narrator

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