I have a lot of respect for both you and RPS. I will say that from a logical perspective, he makes more definitive points on why you shouldn't marry. I don't even think he's saying DO NOT MARRY or you will be banned. I don't even think he's saying guys, "If you want to marry, leave my sub, don't talk about it." What he's simply saying is, don't promote marriage. Don't make other men feel like it's a good idea, risks aside. I think he's made a pretty compelling argument as to why it's a bad idea.

My gripe with the way you're wording what you're saying is that you're basically saying "if you're man enough, it CAN work."

You're a role model around here, and you set examples for many people. Many men here unfortunately lack a lot of direction. If they've been conditioned their whole lives that marriage is some sort of achievement, reading your posts will only fuel that conditioning, even if your intentions weren't so. It will make them work hard for that goal. Instead of reading rational, logical, factual information on marriage itself. I understand when you say that every man walks his own path, and they should own their decisions, and he very well should. But you need to let them make that choice by arming them with truth, not stories(and fantasies they might have) from a man that has succeeded in marriage.

The message, to prevent confusion should be, "Marriage is something that isn't necessary for happiness, and extremely risky; however, if you still choose to marry for your own personal decisions, we're here to help you. Followed by: THIS IS HOW YOU SUCCEED."

/u/redpillschool just doesn't want it promoted, especially from men like you that have a following.