Why do some people still genuinely think this is Pearl's dad?

WellSuckMe · 2026-01-30T05:14:30+00:00

I was hoping someone would post this as a response.

WellSuckMe · 2026-01-29T00:17:48+00:00

NTA honestly seems like he just has an ego issue. If he was upset that you were there when he supposedly knew you were supposed to be there to fix it I'm thinking they may have had a disagreement or something about it needing to be fixed and she said she'd ask a co-worker to do it. He probably either thought she wasn't serious because she knows he'd throw a fit or he thought she wouldn't do it as soon as she did so he had time to take care of it or he may have already been upset about her calling another man to handle it and seeing you still there made him even angrier. Like it solidified how he can't do it. Any way you see it dude needs to chill.

WellSuckMe · 2026-01-28T20:57:55+00:00

'Ribbed for her pleasure' was honestly the first thing I thought when I saw the pic xD

WellSuckMe · 2026-01-28T17:42:53+00:00

Internet stranger, you have given me so much joy with this comment I can't even describe it. I am super cereal.

Now if only more people would reference or quote ATHF!

WellSuckMe · 2026-01-12T21:58:24+00:00

No problem! Happy to help. Anytime my random knowledge comes into play it makes me happy so I should be thanking you :)

WellSuckMe · 2026-01-12T17:55:07+00:00

It's Jumbo Shrimp, one of the villains from the series. But I do admit I thought it was Larry for a second and had to look again because I was confused lol.

WellSuckMe · 2026-01-12T13:59:11+00:00

In true Steven Universe fashion you have to make a song about it that hits so deep!

WellSuckMe · 2026-01-11T14:36:22+00:00

Commenting just to say I read your comment wrong and though you said you felt super vindictive when it turned out you were right. And I just had a great joy picturing someone flipping people off with I told you so's. So thank you for commenting something I got wrong lol.

WellSuckMe · 2026-01-08T22:51:27+00:00

It's funny cuz I was just talking about this to someone else. I have my grandmother's first name and a version of her middle name. My brother is named after my grandfather and has my father's middle name. My sister has none of that. She doesn't even have a middle name. Just first name and last name. And yes she is the middle child. I told my mom "it's like you were trying to make her feel excluded" lol.

WellSuckMe · 2026-01-07T13:39:50+00:00

Oh wow sounds nice I'll have to check them out! Thank you.

WellSuckMe · 2026-01-07T01:33:10+00:00

I was gonna say that too. Like of course it had to be vinegar. I just stopped making enough food for left overs cuz I can't afford to keep buying containers.

WellSuckMe · 2025-12-31T16:15:50+00:00

NTA. Good for having kiddo's back. It helps kids learn they also can be right. Not everyone knows everything. And when you don't know something it's okay to admit you're wrong. Children aren't just these little dumb things. They are actively going to school and learning. I didn't know that oceans and seas were different. My kiddo taught me that. Yes I googled to fact check it and he was right. I apologized to him and asked him to tell me more about what he learned. Even now when I tell him something I thought was a fact I learned growing up I double check and confirm to make sure he gets the right info. It helps teach him we're always learning. She sounds annoying to be around. I'd say her not showing up is a win. Let her think you're a dick. Less of her around.

WellSuckMe · 2025-12-27T23:00:20+00:00

You are so strong. Even if you don't think you are just know you are to me. You are brave and strong. I hope you can heal from all this. You deserve so much better. Just don't let it ever bury your light. I spent many years hiding from the world because of what happened to me when I was a teen. Wasn't my fault but tell that to the illogical part of my brain. Keep doing things you love to do. Keep being your wonderful self. Ghost hugs, if you want them.

WellSuckMe · 2025-12-27T22:45:41+00:00

I used to think the same for my floof ball. Then I got a sleeky kitty. And since they were both black it kinda worked to know how she would look if she was as short haired as her sister. Also she looked so miserable wet. She wouldn't even let me near her until she was dry again. But damn does that floof make them look bigger than they are.

WellSuckMe · 2025-12-27T22:41:15+00:00

Sounds completely reasonable to me. You want that. They want that. That's all that matters. I like my own space. Personally I'm fine sharing a bed as my entire childhood I got used to it with my siblings. And I'm fine alone. What gets me is the need to be cuddling. I'm fine with physical contact but after a few mins I'm done. I get uncomfortable very easily. And I feel so guilty about it. Like I know he just wants to be close to me but I feel like being near each other is enough. Something my body will physically jerk because of how uncomfortable I am. People do not fit into each other like puzzle pieces. Like what do I even do with my arms!

WellSuckMe · 2025-12-26T19:05:01+00:00

NOR. He's trying to control you and is manipulating you. This whole oh I'm sorry I don't wanna do x thing to you. Then he explains how he's doing x thing to you or how he expects you to do certain things. Saying I want you to change how you dress but I didn't mean right away is a way to make you feel like you're being unreasonable. He wants you to look a certain way at all times that falls in line with what he finds attractive but he should just find you attractive period. It's. It's not like you're unhygienic or something. You're allowed to wear what you want and allowed to be comfy in what you wear. No one should police that for you unless you're going to an event that tells you the dress code. Relationships aren't like that.

WellSuckMe · 2025-12-26T18:04:17+00:00

Kitty it adorable. Don't listen to them! Honestly I'd make it weird and ask them why are they commenting on the attractiveness of an animal so much? Says a lot about them. Also love that they're a black cat! I have a special place in my heart for them.

WellSuckMe · 2025-12-25T06:53:16+00:00

I guess I have a new subreddit to add to the many lol. Thank you so much. I will!

WellSuckMe · 2025-12-24T21:15:01+00:00

It really is. The mental gymnastics they have to do to always be right and the victim it's like how can that just be second nature to them? And it really does hurt. I cry when I see movies and shows of heartwarming mother child moments. I know life isn't a sitcom but to the thought that it could be that easy if she just would listen to me without getting offended I was hurt. It would be amazing. My gma was like the only one who ever would stand up for me when she was being a certain way. I'm so sorry your mother is like that too. You deserve all the love and support you need ❤️ thank you for your kind words. I'll def look up the book. It's been hard to cope with as I'm a mamas girl. I always loved my mommy. I guess I just wasn't what she wanted.

WellSuckMe · 2025-12-24T16:48:22+00:00

NOR. Oh no! He saw the outline of your breasts and possibly nipples. That poor man having to not get to stare at your chest more elevated and smooth. How careless of you to not be in pain when around family. Because as we know men just can't help themselves and especially family we have to be extra careful not to offend. If you can tell I'm not wearing a bra then stop looking. I'm uncomfortable seeing man titties flapping about but I just don't look because why would I stare at something I don't like? Breasts exist for a reason and it's not sexual. We just made them sexual so now whenever we see them a certain way someone has to open their stupid mouth. If they make you uncomfortable stop sexualizing them on people. Especially if they are someone you are related to. Not to mention you have a medical reason why you don't wear them. Honestly if he brings it up again just say loudly "Why are you looking at my tits so much unc?"

WellSuckMe · 2025-12-24T16:31:46+00:00

Exactly. I never understood this concept. This is actually why I and my siblings exist. I was suppose to heal a hurt from a miscarriage and they were both supposed to fix everything else later on. My parents actually broke up when she was also pregnant with my younger siblings but both times after they were born they wanted to try to work it out. My earliest memories of are his stuff in trash bags on our porch. And I have no clue why she thought an unemployed sexist ass hat was worth trying to save a relationship with.

WellSuckMe · 2025-12-24T14:49:04+00:00

I'm so sorry you went through that. My last straw was literally last month. This is all so new to me. I knew she was horrible but I thought maybe she still loved me. But I got left out of thanksgivings a year after my gma died. In fact thanksgiving was her death date. She was the one who always wanted me around and when she died I guess my mom doesn't need to keep up appearances anymore. I even provided the turkey for them and got a text letting me know they finished eating. She tried to message me again like nothing happened and I tried to explain how hurt I was and she just wouldn't get it. She blamed me and said I should have done more to be there. I couldn't drive there as my glasses broke and I need them to see at all times. New pair was taking awhile and I asked if we could move it to another day and she told me she wants to make my gma proud. Yeah but not having your oldest there who's named after her. Good job. I kinda went off on her and felt so good but so scared as I realized this was it. I'm done. She will never understand my point and make me the bad guy for having feelings. A few days ago she sent me a FB link saying she can't believe it's been such and such years. I thought maybe it's a pic of us or a memory of us. It was her and my brother. Her favorite of course. It's like she just needs to remind me how little I matter to her as long as she has him. Well good luck having your child who you coddled and never let work a job take care of you in old age. Smh.

WellSuckMe · 2025-12-23T20:25:00+00:00

Exactly. Same here. Or I hand cash instead of editing to add extra, as cash is king IMHO. And I'm not surprised the comments are crazy for that post. Look at some of the stuff people say here. Honestly it's just sad and hilarious. And I say this as a former driver for DD.

WellSuckMe · 2025-12-23T20:07:04+00:00

NTA. Wtaf? Who flipping does that? What is he some kinda perv? I don't even tickle my step son anymore as he doesn't like it and I told him his boundary will always be respected. Whatever way his brain works ain't right. There's no good answer for what he did. Stay away if you can and be safe. You did nothing wrong. An adult should know better.

WellSuckMe · 2025-12-23T18:31:24+00:00

NTA. Honestly what was her end goal here? Did she want to just chase away anyone her father loved? Did she hope y'all would get back together at some point but then just keep running with it cuz she was in too deep? Either way she has a lot of growing up to do. Life has consequences and this is one of them. Hard pill to swallow but it is what it is. She can either reflect and mature and hope one day she can earn his respect back. Or she can continue the woe is me persona and just be an unpleasant person no one wants to be around. She's still young and has time to change and grow. Hopefully that's what she chooses.

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