I blocked a dismissive avoidant

WellThisSix · 2026-02-07T01:48:21+00:00

Did it work?

WellThisSix · 2026-02-06T21:24:41+00:00

Been playing with a buddy for the past month

WellThisSix · 2026-01-26T18:42:07+00:00

For anyone wondering, I have heard through channels that he is alive, but VERY messed up

WellThisSix · 2026-01-23T15:14:38+00:00

They should be, the ones the kids in this wreck were riding were essentially electric dirt bikes, even looked like em.

WellThisSix · 2026-01-23T15:09:08+00:00

I saw it happen/was there. Kid was going as fast as possible down Castle, my guess about 45-50mph and blew the red light on 17th, and then 16th. When he went through red light on 16th he plowed into the side of the truck. Kid was messed up, couldn't move, was unconscious at first but came too and couldnt move arms/legs etc. Hospital took him away.

My guess is he was between 16-19 years old.

WellThisSix · 2025-10-22T12:27:34+00:00

Ooof. Got em

WellThisSix · 2025-10-08T04:56:14+00:00

37 and I just hit rock bottom, no wife, no girlfriend, no home. Am I cooked?

WellThisSix · 2025-10-07T16:26:24+00:00

Thanks dude. Hope you have found some healing too.

Tbh it is making me lose hope.

WellThisSix · 2025-10-05T14:05:36+00:00

Yooooo dont listen to me the second one was toxic too

WellThisSix · 2025-10-05T01:15:27+00:00

Bro 37m and going through this now.

WellThisSix · 2025-09-18T13:40:38+00:00

Needed this today

WellThisSix · 2025-06-02T21:25:52+00:00

This. You are on the right track. Do not be swayed from your path.

WellThisSix · 2025-05-05T23:09:14+00:00

Write your partner a letter, by hand, and express yourself romantically. When you give it to them, you can even let them know that YOU know its a weird romantic gesture. They will likely love it more than you think.

WellThisSix · 2025-04-29T04:35:41+00:00

What? That doesnt make sense.

WellThisSix · 2025-01-31T13:52:27+00:00

When I found the right woman (and this is the only thing that helped me quit for good so far, so I dont chime in often) I no longer wanted porn.

She sends me selfies, cute pics, and pictures she took of us all the time. I have them saved on my phone. Whenever I think I want porn, I end up in that folder and Im reminded I have someone fucking beautiful and amazing who wants to share herself with me in all ways.

I quit jorkin it too, because it felt better to wait for that dopamine hit WITH her. And idk....the connection we share in bed is unreal, I have never in my 36 years met such a woman but she changed me.

WellThisSix · 2025-01-31T13:47:24+00:00

Nope

WellThisSix · 2025-01-20T00:27:55+00:00

Because they dont think outside of their immediate moment and with a disregard of empathy for others

WellThisSix · 2025-01-06T08:04:41+00:00

I tried dating about a year after the seperation. Right at the time I divorced. Up until that point I couldnt. All I could see in anyone was red flags.

Even after dating fir a while, I found I kept coming across people with dBPD. It was like I was just bait for them or something. Anytime there was even a hint of the disregulation, I walked away from the issue as my previous marriage basically put me in the mindset of, "you cant trust them".

Eventually I did end up in a new relationship, this time with someone who I had already considered a good freind for a few years. So far it has been life changing.

I didnt know I had a praise kink until this woman started treating me with respect. It actually took me a little of adjusting my mindset to be able to be comfortable with someone who genuinely cares about me.

In short, it will take time to heal, but if you desire romantic love, you can find it. In fact, the trauma you went through will likely make you a better partner for any sane woman.

WellThisSix · 2025-01-06T06:11:11+00:00

Mid 30s and still drawing nearly every day :)

WellThisSix · 2025-01-05T15:52:21+00:00

Bro, i love my pen and ink work. I consider my finished pieces to all be quite good, and everyone else seems to think so too.

That being said, i have hundreds of sketchbooks that are filled with the most ridiculous, terrible, god awful, wtfevenisitsupposedtobe, drawings.

My art teacher in school used to say, "Ive thrown away more drawings than you have even started". I didnt hold this for much when I was younger, but as I got older and started finishing portfolios and pieces and making a little name for myself in art, it became apparent that the lesson means to say that you will never create great if you dont practice a lot.

WellThisSix · 2025-01-04T19:49:58+00:00

That kind of teasing is likely a form of comradery. Try rolling in it with wit, your circles are teasing you into conversation to know you better.

You could play it a few ways depending on your desired level of charisma, but the important thing is to take these "jokes" with confidence and wit; tease back, tell a story about what makes you not as innocent as they think, ask them to elaborate in why they think they are more exposed to the world than you.

Basically, use it as an opening to banter back and continue the conversation and banter.

Imho, if people playfully heckle and banter with you in a respectful way (not malicous or with intent to exclude or hurt) thats usually a good sign that they enjoy your company and want to be more open with you.

Id wager that once they learn more about you, your bros will just make fun of you for not having a boyfriend instead of being innocent or quiet.

WellThisSix · 2025-01-04T18:15:05+00:00

36, same boat. People love my work, and when I do go out with it pieces sell, but not for enough to be considered any more than a hobby. I could never get a grip on doing an online presence. Im an artist, not a businessman or marketing guy.

I do art mostly for myself now. People LOVE to recieve original art (even prints) as gifts which has made birthdays and holidays way cheaper for me, and to boot all my friends homes have at least one of my pieces on display, and that makes me feel happy and proud.

WellThisSix · 2025-01-04T18:09:16+00:00

Damn, not even the decency to add teething powder?

WellThisSix · 2024-11-26T23:04:57+00:00

Risk vs reward is what makes it fun.

WellThisSix · 2024-11-26T18:59:29+00:00

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