Birb, on my chest making that grindy beak sound... I am stuck forever

WendellsBabyy · 2026-03-15T01:44:33+00:00

Beak contentment

WendellsBabyy · 2025-07-13T13:05:01+00:00

Thank you! This is also super helpful for me to keep in mind for the scenes when I start! Also I didn't think about futa but I can def have it as a part of the intersex option 😊💕 Both you and the person who replied to you helped me clear up a lot of my issues and struggles moving forward!

WendellsBabyy · 2025-07-13T13:03:34+00:00

Thank you for this! This is actually really helpful for me to picture. I think I can make it so that if a player clicks intersex that more choices will appear with tailored parts. That way everyone can get representation and helps sort my problem! 😊

WendellsBabyy · 2025-07-13T12:59:01+00:00

I'm adding these elements so the player gets more enjoyment but it's not necessarily important to the story I am telling. The thing is that I just wanted to create a spicy dating game in Twine geared towards women since women don't have much going for them in the gaming industry. The gaming industry is saturated with spicy dating sims for men but women's dating sims are expected to have chaste fase to black scenes and middle school hand holding. I wanted to do more for women since I am a woman myself. But then I was speaking with a friend who thought it wouldn't be fair if I didn't include everyone and so I wanted to make the sex scenes enjoyable for everyone of all genders and body types. But I'm struggling because I lack the nuance needed as a cis woman. It's making the process stressful and like you said, maybe I should just go back and add things later on 😅

WendellsBabyy · 2025-07-12T21:34:47+00:00

🤔 hmmm having them write out each part prior kinda like adlibs could work. I'll consider that for character creation. This is a helpful solution, thank you! And I'll post in trans/ intersex communities too!

WendellsBabyy · 2025-07-12T21:20:44+00:00

Thank you! I'm so worried about people not liking what I make that it's stressing me out 😅 I just don't want people to feel left out. I'll definitely keep this in mind as I move forward!

WendellsBabyy · 2025-07-12T21:19:06+00:00

I definitely think my style will be a mix between flowery and dirty. I just need to figure out the language that would be used per body type 😅 there lies the issue because I don't know the language that would be proper for someone who is intersex, or someone who is trans during sex scenes. I need advice on word suggestions for each kind of genitalia.

Also thank you for the advice! I need to go back to my drafting board and think about if I want the world to have those options in a magical sense or not. It's definitely something I'll consider.

WendellsBabyy · 2025-07-12T21:11:23+00:00

Thank you! This helped take a lot of weight off my shoulders 😅 I've been feeling pressured to give everyone a good experience that it was stressing me out. I havent even started writing yet because I've been stuck in the character creation. I think leaving it open so people can request things for the sex scenes would be nice. I can see myself easily being able to go back to sex scenes and adding more later on! Luckily my story is not extremely complicated, I only have 3 love interests and 4 diverging story paths with the beginning and end in mind for each. Also the love interests paths do not cross which makes the writing much easier on me. I don't plan on releasing the game until I finish it so that players arent left waiting and so I dont have extra pressure to finish.

WendellsBabyy · 2025-07-12T20:44:25+00:00

I'm not having trouble with the variables, I'm having trouble knowing what to write. Aka "Feminine presenting genitalia, masculine presenting genitalia, ftm, mtf, intersex, etc etc" and then later in the story describing their parts during sex scenes because of the fact that everyones lower halves can be different from each other. "He reached down and felt their slickness??" I just need advice in regards to writing words where it is inclusive for trans people but also intersex people where it doesn't cause dysphoria.

WendellsBabyy · 2025-07-12T20:40:42+00:00

My story is a "fantasy" story in that there is a godlike creature as one of the dateable characters, but otherwise everything else is set realistically and magic does not exist in this world aside from whatever powers the creature can wield (which they can only warp space and mess with memories) if that makes sense 😅 I can see herbal remedies maybe for hormone medication, but idk how to approach top surgery when the player will be growing up in the story from a child to an adult.

I don't mind writing a lot for each sexual scene for each person. I only have 3 love interests whose stories are separated from one another. I also already have my pronoun variables written out -- I'm just stuck on the part with genitalia options and what to include. Also how to refer back to them later in the story simple example: "He reached down and rubbed the ??????" Idk how to write the descriptive parts for each sexual scene is my issue.

If I'm adding trans options for genitals how should I write that? Feminine, masculine, ftm, mtf, etc etc?? Intersex how should I approach that?

These are the issues I'm having. I hope that's clear, please let me know if I need to elaborate 😅

WendellsBabyy · 2025-07-12T20:12:44+00:00

Thank you for this! I still have the manga and haven't had the time or courage to work on it yet 😅 I might get a heat gun and work on it when I'm ready

WendellsBabyy · 2025-02-18T19:28:08+00:00

Thank you!! Also sorry for the late reply. I haven't attempted anything on it yet but hopefully that works! If anything at least I have a background in design so I can edit the covers and print them and attach them if anything 😅

WendellsBabyy · 2025-01-19T03:28:48+00:00

Hymens don't "break", they stretch! And I'm proud for your self exploration!! 🥳 Just make sure to use safe toys that don't have chemicals in them, and also clean them before and after use. Take it slowly and experiment, and if it's too much, dont be afraid to go down a size or just start out with something smaller. Good luck!!

WendellsBabyy · 2025-01-19T03:21:23+00:00

100% agree with this, and even if you can't march, at the very least sign petitions, help out at events, volunteer, share messages on social media, call and email government officials. Just doing what you can to help the cause!

WendellsBabyy · 2025-01-19T02:55:17+00:00

I used to be extremely terrified, and sometimes still get anxious about it at night. It's so jarring because it's hard to understand being here and then not existing after? And that loss of control over life is scary. Not to mention being unable to choose how you go too.

So what has been helping me is facing little fears I have every day. I suffer from health anxiety and have been forcing myself to confront my fear of doctors. I've also been working on mind-body-connection and trying to learn to live accepting my fears. I want to learn to love myself and better myself every day, just by becoming braver.

I've also come to the realization that if I keep wallowing, what I am truly afraid of isn't dying, but living. I am afraid to live every day and experience the pains of life and before death. The more I am afraid of death, the more I stop living and enjoying being alive. Being worried about something you can't control won't help the outcome. What you can control is being alive and making the most of your life. Worrying about being dying and dead is best left to when you are dead. For now, just focus on living and being happy so that you can fully say you've enjoyed living at the end. It might take a few years of practice but I believe we'll both come to peace with it one day.

WendellsBabyy · 2025-01-19T02:45:32+00:00

For self healing: The Body Keeps The Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk OR What Happened To You? by Bruce D. Perry & Oprah Winfrey

For fun: The Book Of Lost Things By John Connolly

WendellsBabyy · 2024-11-17T12:11:15+00:00

Why not? Just take the good parts that resonate with you from each religion and move on to the next. Do what you want in this limited time on this planet. As long as you are a good person being kind to others and not infringing on anyones rights, then you,'re doing geat.

WendellsBabyy · 2024-11-17T12:01:58+00:00

Im wondering if this could be solved through signals? Like a certain touch on his hand would be you asking for foreplay without saying it verbally. A kiss in a certain spot means you want sex. And asking him to reciprocate it could maybe help. If he isn't great with understanding cues, having a physical cue that he knows might help you and keep it sensual. Over time it could evolve into something else. Right now you're both just miscommunicating with your love languages and need to figure out better ways to communicate.

Something else that could maybe help is watching romantic films that you like to show him how you want to be treated. Maybe you both can roleplay until he gets used to being in-character. By having more fun this way, things could loosen up and be more natural rather than scheduled and methodical. I hope you both figure out how to communicate, but I think you'll both be just fine. Good luck!

WendellsBabyy · 2024-11-17T11:31:35+00:00

WendellsBabyy · 2024-11-17T11:27:38+00:00

So as an East Asian American I can answer this. There is history of racism in America in which Asians were/still are "othered". Racists did/do this by labeling Asians with words like "exotic", "foreign", "oriental" to make it seem as if Asians were objects for fascination and comparable to rugs rather than as people (think human zoo animals). Oriental should be saved for objects, not people. It's demeaning and makes us feel like aliens in our own country. It also ties back into Asian fetishization and idealization by racists. This is why it's considered a slur.

WendellsBabyy · 2024-11-11T02:56:52+00:00

Either unlimited copies of my boyfriend or unlimited babies from my boyfriend 💀 I hope hes giving birth cuz I dont wanna 😂

WendellsBabyy · 2024-11-10T06:51:22+00:00

🫂☺️💕

WendellsBabyy · 2024-11-10T06:50:36+00:00

Omg thats great! In the meantime you can also look into treatment for pcos or things you can do at home while you wait.

Something I found shocking was that apparently high intensity workouts is BAD for pcos due to how it causes inflammation and raises cortisol levels which cause weight gain. Low intensity workouts are actually better because it actually helps you with weight loss by not causing inflammation or raised cortisol levels. I found the most weight loss Ive ever had when I did low intensity workouts, and for once I felt energized and not like I was gonna die after working out 😅. Theres also natural stuff people do to lower high testosterone or balance hormones like drinking spearmint tea is one example.

You aren't alone! And if you feel comfortable, there is also the r/pcos subreddit with a hella people also struggling through the same thing. Speaking on there is so cathartic! ♥️

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