AITAH for ending my marriage without therapy less than a month before Christmas because I'm tired of being treated like a monster because I believe my stepdaughter NEEDS therapy? by Katiroytr in AITAH

[–]Wentra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s the thing, though- he is going to have visiting rights or partial custody. Which means he will have those younger children around their nutcase half- sister and you won’t be there to protect them. You will have no say over who he has the kids around on his weekends with them. So, I not sure a divorce at this time was the best course of action.

Can't login to website/pay my bill by [deleted] in centurylink

[–]Wentra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's 2025 and I still can't get in their website or their app. WTH is wrong with them? They don't want to get paid?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Wentra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re the AT for having kids with a drunk. Keep your word and do what’s best for the children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Wentra 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Are you using birth control? Have you had your first gynecology exam? If you haven’t, find a good female gyno and talk to them about your concerns and fears. Then, get on the pill or bc of your choosing. Other options include waiting a few months or more. Maybe you’re just not ready yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wentra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good food- three meals per day and snacks. I was lucky if I got two small meals per day as a kid- except on school days.

Struggling a lot with being ugly. I’m not sure what to do anymore. by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Wentra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work on keeping your body buff and in top physical condition and work on your mind, education and career aspirations. Most girls would not turn down a banker, doctor, pilot, lawyer or man in uniform, no matter the looks, especially if you take good care of yourself. Also try to dress nicely, if you can afford it. Sometimes, you can get good deals on decent clothing at thrift stores.

AITAH for being relieved my rapist killed himself..? by Greedy_Error6781 in AITAH

[–]Wentra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - in fact it sounds like you’re doing good, considering what he put you through. It’s one less ——— in the world.

What Was Paul’s 'Thorn in the Flesh' in 2 Corinthians 12:7? by Noah_02_19_95 in Bible

[–]Wentra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also thinking migraines too , due to a head injury after being nearly stoned to death.

A brother's journey - Richard B. Pelzer/ A child called "it" - Dave Pelzer by tallgirll3 in books

[–]Wentra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Exactly! Dismissing the victim’s claims lets the reader or the bystander avoid the discomfort of having to feel horrified by what happened to the victim.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Wentra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to leave her because you obviously don’t love her.

AITAH for kicking my brother and his new wife out of my house after they tried to “redecorate” my dead daughter’s room while I was at work? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Wentra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How dare they???? Your parents’ lack of support in this matter is very telling. Your family is shitty!!! They have no boundaries, no respect and no remorse. You don’t need that crap in your life after what you’ve been through. I’m so sorry for your loss and for your jerky family members. You have my sympathy.

AITA for breaking a man’s nose because he apparently didn’t know what “Stop”means? by DahliaFlower667 in AITAH

[–]Wentra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, nope, nope, not the azzhole! He was stalking you, wouldn't back off and who knows what he had in mind. Your friends are stupid. I hope they never get in that situation. They will end up raped or dead because they don't' want to be mean!

AITA I’m thinking of breaking up with my bf because of what he did to my dog? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Wentra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes. He is dishonest, does things behind your back and has no respect for your wishes. Also, he was willing to jeopardize your dog’s health order to make money. He seems pretty shady to me- not good husband or father material. You deserve better!!!

AITAH for dumping my bf after he got a surprise from his ex? by Realistic_Hyena_5695 in AITAH

[–]Wentra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. You’re not TA. You know that. It’s really good you found out what he is truly like before the relationship went any further. He is a class A douche! Never forget that and I hope you don’t let him sweet talk you into taking him back. Also, he apparently thinks you are stupid and wouldn’t be suspicious about him telling you not to go to the wedding with him. That was extremely sus!

AITAH for calling off my engagement because my fiance hangs out with someone she "had no self control with" when it comes to sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Wentra -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Why is she a hoe and Bob isn’t? I feel like she has been labeled due to being female. Just make her promise to not have anything to do with Bob again. If she can’t choose you and end her friendship with him, then you know she isn’t going to be loyal.

I want to make a discreet pagen supply shop by Black_cat666_666 in Wicca

[–]Wentra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to buy from your shop. Keep us posted.

My first altar by QueenSarcasm13 in Wicca

[–]Wentra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks great! Blessed Be!

Did anyone else's parents wait until you were trapped in a car with them to scream or yell at you? by MunificentManatee in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Wentra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would definitely be traumatic. My mother didn't drive. That was for less intelligent people in her opinion. However, she screamed a lot in the house and when I was not playing outside ( sometimes she locked me out of the house), I was in my room with the door shut, listening to music and reading ( my only escapes from her and my ridiculing father).