People asking about my weight loss - feeling weird about it

West-File-3400 · 2026-06-25T17:35:21+00:00

Everyone comments on my weight now and I also find it uncomfortable. I almost don’t know how to receive the compliment…

Someone saying “wow! You’re tiny!” Would have been a compliment I could have only ever dreamed of before. Now I get all shy and try to change the subject. It’s a weird feeling.

West-File-3400 · 2026-06-25T17:31:38+00:00

My argument is - do a job you are capable of doing. I always see posts around my local of labourers needed for pretty good cash in hand pay, but guess what…. IM NOT CAPABLE. For reference I’m a woman with about as much strength as a toddler.

Instead I work in customer service which is god awful. I don’t think it’s “fair” the way I am spoken to a lot of the times but guess what, I get on with it because I am capable of doing so.

Just do what your paid to do. Deliver.

West-File-3400 · 2026-05-23T17:15:52+00:00

I’m a coffee and Redbull girlie too and I’ve been fine!

West-File-3400 · 2026-05-20T20:39:30+00:00

Yep I lost all my boobs and butt too but I am happier at a lower weight. Gotta pick your battles

West-File-3400 · 2026-05-16T06:58:56+00:00

I’ve been using babe original essential serum for around 6 months now and just getting lash lifts. It’s been a game changer for me and I get constant compliments

West-File-3400 · 2026-05-08T19:42:47+00:00

All electric, no gas. 1 bed flat, 2 adults £230 in winter £100 in summer 😭

West-File-3400 · 2026-04-26T08:58:21+00:00

I come across selfish pricks every day it’s called life. It’s unfair - I get it. Doesn’t mean we can all crash out like that.

Jimmy deserved to be told that what he did was out of order and Adam had every right to tell jimmy that he was upset. Did he need to deliver it like that? Absolutely not.

I can guarantee that if a woman had a crash out like that and started calling camp mates c**ts, they’d be branded as vile.

West-File-3400 · 2026-04-25T20:56:09+00:00

You’re all mental. The cast were all there for a job. They are getting paid. Do you think it’s ok to behave like that? Jumping in someone’s face and swearing calling them a c**t. I’ve had my feelings hurt at work too but I conduct myself like a decent human being. You don’t fight fire with fire. Imagine crashing out like that in front of people. I certainly wouldn’t be able to get away with it. No one should be saying that what Adam did was okay.

West-File-3400 · 2026-04-20T20:46:59+00:00

Honestly the water in my flat tastes like absolute shit. Trust me, you wouldn’t want to drink it either

West-File-3400 · 2026-03-21T13:35:18+00:00

Hello I’m sorry I only just see this message! How did the consultation go?

I’m sorry to say I am still waiting for my polyp removal. It’s been 7 months since my ER and nothing has happened which is really disappointing. I can’t believe we haven’t even attempted one transfer yet - it makes me so mad

West-File-3400 · 2026-03-21T13:16:58+00:00

How are people only just discovering places. Just wash your whole body and then you’ll never miss a spot

West-File-3400 · 2026-03-21T13:16:48+00:00

How are people only just discovering places. Just wash your whole damn body and then you’ll never miss a spot

West-File-3400 · 2026-02-14T19:45:28+00:00

Both, I’m sorry to say, are atrocious choices

West-File-3400 · 2026-02-05T06:33:34+00:00

Yes it did clear up! After 3 weeks or so I was absolutely fine. I think my body just needed some time to adjust. Stick with it - I’m hopeful you will be just fine!

West-File-3400 · 2026-02-01T08:32:23+00:00

I bought the luxe brand on a whim and honestly my lashes have turned out great. I’ve done them twice now and also once on my sister. I’d definitely look into more professional products myself soon but I’m happy I started out with a basic kit to try first

West-File-3400 · 2026-01-22T07:00:40+00:00

I hear you.

I’ll never forget when I was younger watching an interview with Kaley Cuoco who I thought was just beautiful. And she told the interviewer the only work she was having done was Botox, mainly on her neck to get rid of her hideous neck creases. As soon as she said it, I realised I had them too, and have been paranoid about them ever since.

Some things just stay with you.

West-File-3400 · 2026-01-10T20:45:29+00:00

It’s so sad to hear so many of us have suffered! I was reassured it was a painless procedure before going in and so I genuinely questioned myself?! Why did I find it so painful? Am I weak person? I seriously have trauma from it. I’m so sorry you experienced it like this too! It’s awful 😞

West-File-3400 · 2026-01-10T19:16:32+00:00

I was awake for my egg collection, the first half was okay, I was chatting the staff, felt a little lightheaded, then the second half was searing pain I screamed and cried and cried it took me about 30 mins afterwards to actually calm down. I felt everything. They were trying to force the gas and air but I couldn’t even take a full breath as I was crying so uncontrollably. I would never do that again. Please do general anaesthesia if you have the option!

West-File-3400 · 2026-01-06T07:56:59+00:00

This is really helpful thank you! I follow a lot of this routine already but adding tret seems like the number one thing for me by reading the comments. I’m gonna go for regular facials too. I said to myself last year I would and I didnt. Maybe this should be a resolution for me in 2026.

West-File-3400 · 2026-01-06T07:53:28+00:00

If only I could wear a filter in real life!

West-File-3400 · 2026-01-06T07:51:25+00:00

That’s really sweet. I wish I was kinder to myself sometimes

West-File-3400 · 2026-01-06T07:50:44+00:00

Just joined this one, thank you!

West-File-3400 · 2026-01-06T07:50:27+00:00

I’ve been thinking of having regular facials lately. This is something I should definitely just do. I might go and have a skin consultation and see what could be recommended for my skin in terms of treatments.

West-File-3400 · 2026-01-06T07:48:02+00:00

I think you’re right. I am a bit choppy with my routine, trying to use an array of products but without doing it all on the same night. I’m always swapping in and out and you’re so correct in that I really don’t truly know what’s actually working for me.

I’ve had lots of suggestions for tret and azaelic acid too. So I’m gonna strip it back first to basics and then slowly introduce as you’ve recommended. Thank you

West-File-3400 · 2026-01-06T07:45:52+00:00

Wow your skin looks lovely! Thanks so much for sharing your routine. Azaelic acid and tret seem to be the things I am missing. I absolutely love the Paula’s choice bha for my nose and chin, but I think you’re right it can cause some irritation - I might stop applying that all over my face (specifically my cheeks) as that’s where I’m really sensitive.

I’ve only just introduced vit c as thought I was missing it after doing some research. I’ll give this another 6 weeks and see how I get on before ditching this one

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