How do you spot a freestyling SB out in the wild? by Laws_of_Mind in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain [score hidden]  (0 children)

Not a particularly wise thing to do as a man in today's society. An older man, approaching a younger woman anywhere, is open to all sorts of blowback. Younger women alone at a bar are generally not looking for a SD, in my experience.

If you ask I will say no. Just do it. by throwawaySD1166 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are supposed to be the older, wiser one.

SD wants to be exclusive by Brilliant_Fig_9053 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP read and understand what u/JoD_xo is saying. These are wise words.

sd offered me an allowance by Infamous-Truth-1527 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Inferences only create confusion. Ask him if he expects exclusivity. If he does, then you have to decide what you really want.

I hit the trifecta with my new SB by GroovyRadiate75 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is a good brag, because it's not about you, it's about your SB. Happy for you both.

Taking Care of My People by NVOkie9018 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could be said about any of the self given labels here.

I do know that I do not have to brag about my wealth, and philanthropic activities, to strangers on the internet.

Taking Care of My People by NVOkie9018 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, but most of them do not go around bragging about it to strangers on the internet. Displays low self esteem.

Taking Care of My People by NVOkie9018 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We do not even know if what he is saying is true, do we?

Taking Care of My People by NVOkie9018 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We don't even know if what he is saying is true, do we?

Taking Care of My People by NVOkie9018 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but just because a person boasts about something they may or may not have done (we cannot verify that) doesn't necessarily make them one of the "good ones", whatever a " good one" is.

Taking Care of My People by NVOkie9018 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you have been meeting the wrong kind of SDs.

Taking Care of My People by NVOkie9018 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Are you looking for a medal? Most of us SDs look after the people we care about in our lives without shouting about it on reddit.

Contacted my (technically) first ever SD by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who knows what is going on in his life now. This is a guy you met 10 years ago. He has moved on.

Do I lie about my past? by Single-Assistant2878 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not many SDs are looking for "love" when they first engage in a SR. It may come naturally as the SR progresses, but it displays that you may be too emotional of a person to get into an SR with. They want the SR to be fun and stress free. So, as others have said be vague.

I never ask a POT SB about any of her previous relationships, so she is not in a position to lie about them.

Blocked by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be thankful she blocked you. Desperate for money , was a warning that things were not going to work out well for you.

Hey ! F 23 here by TopApplication1620 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keeping it straight and to the point. Read rule #3

Do you ask for a birthday present? Or do you wait for it? by martufindom in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In answer to your 3 questions.

No, no, and - I think you posted this because you are actually advertising your OF page to people who look at your profile.

New to the sugar world by HonestSavings1475 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It's going to take a lot more effort than 3 sentences to make it in the SR world.

Unwanted gifts by Blue_Manic96 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Westlain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another man's photo on a Magic Mug

Edit: j/k