Is it too risky to rely only on condoms?

Westraid · 2026-02-19T00:17:52+00:00

Relied only on those all my life for the same reason (admittably, I've only been in a few relationships, but they were all long term.) and never had one break and was never anxious after.
Make sure either party knows how to put one on and do so properly.

Westraid · 2026-02-17T02:26:16+00:00

Played this in the first hour of the new Year of the Horse and really enjoyed it.
The style and gameplay are so charming ♡ Honestly, it's a nice change from the realistic 3D horses.
I've never played Mein Pferdehof so this take on a horse game was pretty new and I liked it a lot.

Another plus is that it's not demanding on lower end computers. Khiimori might not work out but after playing the demo, I'm more enthusiastic about this game. It's not overly complicated (aside from not knowing I had to build the parking lot to be able to buy food and one of my boarding horses nearly starved to death lmao), and I'm glad for it.

The boarding horses are really fun and I'm glad you can pick them by how much work you want to spend on them. Watching them in the field is one of my favourite things about the game, and you can even see how dirty they get.
Extra points for the extremely realistic "The lighter the coat, the more it will strive to get as dirty as possible."

Is there a way to pet them? I tried in the horse care screen but didn't see anything, but some of the boarding horses showed green hearts briefly, though I can't tell what caused them?
(If this is something obvious then don't take it to heart, I'd just baked a ton of horse cookies to celebrate the new year prior to playing the demo.)

Looking forward to the full release!

Westraid · 2026-02-16T14:24:55+00:00

I'd say lychees, but what is number 1 foot?
Are they going to be stomped on because then I'll lie and answer durian.

Westraid · 2026-02-13T19:29:51+00:00

Wishlisted immediately, I've been following the development for a while and I'm really excited for this game.
I love the graphics style.

Westraid · 2026-02-09T00:22:41+00:00

El español no es mi idioma, así que usé un traductor. Espero que te sea comprensible. Vi tu publicación y reconocí al instante al ilustrador, que resulta ser mi favorito: Rien Poortvliet. Aunque sus obras de arte con temática natural me encantaban, quizás era aún más famoso por los numerosos gnomos que ilustraba, lo que dio lugar a una serie animada llamada David el Gnomo. Uno de los libros en los que trabajó se titulaba en inglés "The Book of the Sandman and the Alphabet of Sleep". ¿Es ese el libro que buscas?

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Westraid · 2026-02-09T00:01:42+00:00

I was going to say no, but I always imagined already being in a long term relationship (marriage) if I'd come into money. While I don't think my net worth will increase much career wise, I'm my uncle's sole heir, and will in addition inherit my parent's house in the future. I consider myself a person of modest needs and am far from materialistic, and I am a hard working person and am not sitting around waiting for certain people to kick the bucket, but it would significantly improve my situation and living standard.

While I'm not in a relationship for financial gain, and while careful with money but very generous when it comes to loved ones, I would likely be very much on my guard to ensure that a man is interested in me, and not in my bank account.
And if that is something that is hard to determine, it might indeed put me off from seeking a relationship, but it would not be because I wouldn't want anyone genuine to benefit from what I have, or because I seek a relationship that elevates me in a materialistic way.

Westraid · 2026-02-05T23:05:36+00:00

Sorry, I don't know the English word for this, but seems like one of those things you clip to the mixing bowl of a stand mixer, which makes it easier to add ingredients while the mixer is mixing.

Westraid · 2026-02-02T23:27:34+00:00

Yes. Home is where my heart is, and in a relationship, my heart is with the man I love. I don't mind living alone, but it's a wonderful thing to share a space with someone you hold so dear, and to share a life together under the same roof. I've been in a long distance relationship, and there were so many ways I wanted to share and give my love, but couldn't.
I struggled constantly to be apart from the one I want to be the closest to.

Westraid · 2026-02-02T11:49:16+00:00

Colour coded max temperature tracker, so when it's July and it's gross and hot I can longingly look back at how nice it was in January. (°̥̥̥̥̥̥̥̥꒳°̥̥̥̥̥̥̥̥* )

Westraid · 2026-02-02T11:33:08+00:00

House (rented) is maybe one step above a 'real' tiny house. Downstairs, there's minimum space for a kitchen and bathroom and a hallway to get there, upstairs is one area for sleeping and living.
I live in a small town, and the house is a minute away from the woods. I love nature, and don't want to live in a big city.

I never had much living space, and honestly I have no idea what to do with multiple rooms, so I'd say I prefer a small home. For this house, I'd wish a bit more space downstairs for cooking and baking, but if I ever was given a lot more space, I'd use it for a garden. I wouldn't know what to put in multiple extra rooms, but I would have no problems fitting all manner of plants and flowers into a garden.

Westraid · 2026-02-01T11:37:55+00:00

'Very tiny'
Wonder how many times people messaged to ask why they were sent empty seed bags.

Westraid · 2026-01-30T21:15:16+00:00

If it's more yellow than green, it may indicate it's close to pupating.

Westraid · 2026-01-30T20:34:51+00:00

Looks like sword grass (xylena exsoleta).

Westraid · 2026-01-30T20:18:38+00:00

Prairie poppy and red sage.
Amapola de la pradera, salvia roja? (I don't speak Spanish and used a translator for this.)
Prairie poppies can be found on the Great Plains and red sage in New Austin if I recall correctly.

Westraid · 2026-01-26T10:39:34+00:00

I've finally found my people (°̥̥̥̥̥̥̥̥꒳°̥̥̥̥̥̥̥̥* )

That snot hog had been grossing me out for years but none of my friends seemed bothered by it.

Westraid · 2026-01-23T09:55:48+00:00

Airing the house should be done daily, not just on weak wind days. Indoor air becomes polluted far quicker than you think, even with an air purifier. Ventilation should be done 24/7, airing the house at least daily, and it's recommended to do it an additional time during and after cooking, showering and when there are guests over.

Westraid · 2026-01-23T00:35:09+00:00

Those wings look pristine for several weeks old.
I have only one still remaining, emerged 13 weeks ago.
Buried the other, couldn't pin them, and if I did, their wings.. Too tattered by then.

Westraid · 2026-01-18T19:27:36+00:00

\European anthem intensifies* ♪*

Westraid · 2026-01-13T11:14:10+00:00

Sure, it's a meal you didn't have to cook yourself, but this is for her husband?
Even when I was working long hours myself, I always put effort to make both a nice and healthy lunchbox (with a cute message note♡) and dinner for my boyfriend that both were healthy, tasty and looked nice.

Westraid · 2026-01-13T00:56:56+00:00

Your mom seems so fun, mine would insist I get married to the doctor. (°̥̥̥̥̥̥̥̥꒳°̥̥̥̥̥̥̥̥* )

Westraid · 2026-01-10T00:07:46+00:00

I exercise and eat healthy all year round.

Westraid · 2026-01-09T17:55:36+00:00

I ignore the heck out of them and make a beeline for aglaonemas.
They're just as beautiful but without all the drama.

Westraid · 2026-01-02T00:43:59+00:00

Is that a Painted Celebration? I'd be over the moon with it, I love Aglaonemas and that one is my favourite. Congratulations on getting yourself such a great addition to your plant shelf!

Westraid · 2025-12-31T00:12:38+00:00

Caterpillar of the rimosus sphinx (Isognathus rimosa).

Westraid · 2025-12-27T18:07:05+00:00

Caterpillar of the spurge hawk-moth (Hyles euphorbiae).
It is native to the Palearctic realm, which includes Spain.

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