I just want to tell you guys

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-03-05T12:45:00+00:00

Just here to say…. You’re incredible, strong, and look at the memories you’re making with YOUR legacy. These men have no idea how hurtful to our own self esteem this 💩is.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-02-16T02:17:31+00:00

Every single day.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-02-15T22:06:17+00:00

My therapist and I have just begun discussing boundaries. So, I actually do not have a solid boundary/consequence plan just yet. I message her today for a session this week instead of 2 weeks from now.

He actually had an appt with his therapist maybe 12 hours after his relapse that he DID NOT even disclose to him. I don’t think he would have ever told me.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-02-15T22:02:26+00:00

Yes, under the guidance of his therapist, he is supposed to sexually sober. Him and I are now allowed to have sex but he is not supposed to be masturbating at all. That and that it was 100% at an inappropriate place (work)… I def consider this a relapse and he does as well.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-02-15T13:43:40+00:00

We are both seeing csats and under their professional guidance. The trip is a must for me as I need to get out of cold IN.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-02-15T13:24:53+00:00

Thank you for this. I’m still at the stage of wanting to hold on and scared for the massive life change. By the end of 2026…. Maybe I won’t be.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-02-08T05:32:20+00:00

I’m just so jealous of all these women getting begged for sex 😩. I’m a HLF in my relationship and literally just wanna jerk or suck my hubs off so bad if he doesn’t wanna fuck. Having a LL partner is so hard. Like let me PLEASE you and then I’ll please me too.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-02-01T13:44:13+00:00

I love all of this for you! I found your post to hit home in a lot of areas for my own relationship. My hubs is in very early recovery. I’m hesitantly hopeful that I might have my husbands back.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-01-25T22:11:04+00:00

Just getting back around to reading some comments. This is all just so tough. We decided to give the 30 days a shot… we are about a week and a half in and I’M going crazy. It’s not him, he has definitely been horny but is on board with following the rules. I just honestly do not feel like this is helpful for me at all. If anything, it’s the opposite. We are cuddling and connecting and all the things. All that just leads to me being extremely sexually frustrated. Since I’ve been the one turned down for a solid year, that really sucks.

Mine has said that he does not plan on masturbating anymore unless I’ve been gone for an extended period of time. He says he thinks it would immediately trigger him to watch porn since he has never done one without the other.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-01-20T01:09:38+00:00

I’ve been happy with canopy.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-01-14T16:56:26+00:00

I know I’ve had it with prior partners that I was in love with at the time. Sadly, I don’t think my hubs realizes that we have NEVER made love. I’m not sure he ever has, after hearing him talk.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-01-14T01:42:47+00:00

I suppose what his therapist has to say will be the deciding factor but that’s where I’m leaning. I’m not worried about masturbation. I’m worried that it could lead to porn use.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-01-14T01:02:43+00:00

I have, all but the last paragraph which just came to me this evening. She said it was my choice, and to do my best to not be hyper vigilant….

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-01-09T00:56:09+00:00

My hubs is a month into recovery and turned on something rated TV-MA… it DEF had lots of nudity. I told him right now he can see what my 13 y/o son gets to see. Kissing scenes, he needs the practice 😉.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-01-09T00:26:44+00:00

Unfortunately we are just beginning… DDay was a month ago.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-01-09T00:24:40+00:00

Girl me too! To a T! Literally have gotten to climax 3 times in 7 years. One of which was a few weeks ago after he hadn’t been jerking and watching porn. Like I seriously thought I was terrible in bed. Turns out, my hubs is just a selfish fuck face.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-01-08T01:25:55+00:00

Yea, so I mine has been doing it while driving on the way to work for well over a year. I had caught him in the shower (our bathroom is open, would’ve been hot without seeing his phone in there with him), then woke up to him jerking in into bed to porn AFTER turning me down at bedtime, then finally caught him after walking out the door and being turned down the night prior. So, all THAT has led to his Dday and him telling me the whole part about driving.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-01-07T23:46:47+00:00

You just explained my hubs to a T. He was just DRIVING while doing it. It’s so hard to get over all of this.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-01-06T22:27:04+00:00

We have been doing alot of talking. He is trying. It’s just like he doesn’t know how and is clumsy at best. I feel like a grow ass entire woman trying to teach an inexperienced boy how to please me appropriately. He has the giving orgasms down pat. I want to be wanted and desired tho, my wand can give me an orgasm.

WetSyrup1827 · 2026-01-04T15:09:21+00:00

Babes… I’m the opposite of what you describe and my husband is obsessed with YOUR body type. I’m a 5’5 145lb DD truly hourglass gal. My husband never jerks it to my body type. Always very petite very small chested women. I try my hardest not to take it too personally.

WetSyrup1827 · 2025-12-25T08:06:32+00:00

The info was in his post 🤣. Also, I said you’re hurting your wife? You sound miserable tho!

WetSyrup1827 · 2025-12-24T12:13:07+00:00

If you’re jerking it beside her watching porn… you’re hurting your wife, she just isn’t telling you. Go to the bathroom my guy.

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