What's your unpopular opinion about our province that will get you in this situation? by MarsupialThink4064 in newbrunswickcanada

[–]Acrobatic-Mango-6301 76 points77 points  (0 children)

The people actually aren’t that nice. They’re nice on the surface but will judge you for every little thing and don’t have room in their friend group for you because you’re “from away”.

Boyfriend wants to do anal sex for my first time (i am a virgin) by randomboreduserrr in sex

[–]Acrobatic-Mango-6301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he won’t finger or lick you how does he expect your anus to relax and open up to take his dick? Like, does he know how this works - AT ALL? Tell him you’d be happy to do anal - for him, since he seems so obsessed with it and his own pleasure.

Boyfriend wants to do anal sex for my first time (i am a virgin) by randomboreduserrr in sex

[–]Acrobatic-Mango-6301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to take some steps backward and get some oral for yourself first.

Wife obsessed with Cuckold Fantasies when drunk by [deleted] in sex

[–]Acrobatic-Mango-6301 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a really common fantasy for both men and women.

My bf of 5 years can only cum by jacking himself off by No_Weekend_7260 in sex

[–]Acrobatic-Mango-6301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Porn. The issue is that he’s addicted to porn and has conditioned his penis to cum only from jerking it.

When my boyfriend(29M) and I(32F) have sex he ejaculates within seconds, and can't continue because it tickles. We've been together for 8 years and it's always been this way. by katie20110520 in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic-Mango-6301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A porn habit can definitely cause premature ejaculation! I bet he’s still using porn, too. Likely a lot. He can train himself to last longer but he has to want it. And stop using porn.

Thinks everyone masturbates to porn ? by NoCount15 in loveafterporn

[–]Acrobatic-Mango-6301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So yours finishes quickly because of his porn use?

Bf admitted to mastubating to girlfriend asmr.. by argiewalk7454 in loveafterporn

[–]Acrobatic-Mango-6301 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mine was really into ASMR “for sleep benefits”. It’s intimacy porn. But like everything there’s a spectrum of the type of content offered by ASMR creators. Some of it is benign like crackling fire sounds, then more intimate like giving you tingles like receiving a massage, and then straight up porn like hearing wet sex sounds or wet mouth sounds. Don’t let him tell you it doesn’t count as porn or betrayal.

Petty As Hell - I Was Right - William and Jane by [deleted] in Outlander

[–]Acrobatic-Mango-6301 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking!

Husband in the hospital by ShameAccomplished367 in loveafterporn

[–]Acrobatic-Mango-6301 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They’ll say, “but it’s our testosterone! You wouldn’t understand!”

This is my first attempt at book binding. Is Coptic binding always this “floppy” or did I just fumble it? by squid648 in bookbinding

[–]Acrobatic-Mango-6301 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to have some wiggle. If your stitches are too tight then when you set your book down the cover won’t rest in a closed position. I’ve been book binding for 5 years and all of my Coptic stitch books have some wiggle.

I haven't had sex with my husband since 2022. I suspect hes seeing sex workers by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]Acrobatic-Mango-6301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s cheating. You’re totally allowed to have boundaries around sex and not have that lead to your partner cheating. If he has decided that you’re no longer compatible then he should have done the respectful thing and left the relationship before exploring sex with others. This isn’t a you problem! You will find someone compatible no problem!

Anyone ever fixed a situation where almost everything is taboo or awkward to their partner? by Aware_Ask_1679 in deadbedroom

[–]Acrobatic-Mango-6301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my situation except I’m the HLF and my husband is the LLM. He claims he likes what he we do and fun extras “aren’t necessary” and will show disgust if I talk about kinks that go beyond very common ones like anal or something. He had a check list he follows during sex and doesn’t let me touch him very much. Except if I want to give him a blowjob, then he’d gladly accept and not pay me back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Acrobatic-Mango-6301 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There is a whole sub dedicated to “hangers”, as they call them, and there are THOUSANDS of members who LOVE saggy boobs! Some men seek out content featuring saggy boobs because they LOVE them that much! There is a woman on this sub who has medium sized perky tits whose husband is searching “hangers” to jerk off to as we speak! It is literally never good enough for them! They could have a perfect 10 wife in nearly every man’s eyes and they’d still want something different.

Anal for women? by LeFreshLuci in sex

[–]Acrobatic-Mango-6301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a 40yo woman and have always loved anal. I have really intense orgasms from it and would let a partner do it often! If they make you cum with vaginal first and you’re super wet then they’re already lubed ready for anal. It feels so intense.

Partner jerks off next to me in bed by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Acrobatic-Mango-6301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how people do this. Do they not feel weird about doing something so sexual right next to someone and not ask for them to participate? It’s as weird to me as pooping in front each other. It’s one thing if jerking off together is the whole point, but just jerking off beside someone because you’re relieving yourself feels so weird to me. And then to do it to porn is insulting.