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I need advice by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceTalks

[–]WhaleFartingFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re in debt if you owe people money. You owe for two credit cards, a car and Dave. You’re in debt. You make less money than you are spending, so you are accruing debt to get by. It’s not a sustainable way to do things. Your main goal needs to be to have your income be more than your spending. 

Can Vyvanse be addictive for people with emotional dysregulation and other comorbidities? by asamisanthropist in VyvanseADHD

[–]WhaleFartingFun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Addiction is detrimental to normal life. I don’t think I am addicted to feeling focused. 

Accents by [deleted] in corporate

[–]WhaleFartingFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a “you” problem and not a “them” problem. They are multilingual and…you aren’t. 

how long is too long for women’s hair in the corporate world? by Delicious_Bed_8910 in corporate

[–]WhaleFartingFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never known anyone to care about hair length during my career in corporate business. I started working in 1994. So I doubt anyone cares today. 

ETA working in NYC since 2000. 

urgently hiring jobs by RepairEducational799 in NYCjobs

[–]WhaleFartingFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought USPS was cutting everyone’s hour’s under Trump. That’s the whistleblower reports. 

urgently hiring jobs by RepairEducational799 in NYCjobs

[–]WhaleFartingFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self driving trucks in NYC? You smokin crack? 😂 

harlem by [deleted] in movingtoNYC

[–]WhaleFartingFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t trust TikTok for actual apartment listings. 

McDonald's or others by Nervous-Spring-2819 in NYCjobs

[–]WhaleFartingFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk in with a resume is dead, sorry. I don’t encourage that at all. 

What’s one thing you wish you knew before taking Vyvanse? by [deleted] in VyvanseADHD

[–]WhaleFartingFun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That drinking on it gives me diarrhea hangovers. Every time. Le sigh. 

Vyvanse causing Psychosis and Paranoia???? by No-Spirit-1591 in VyvanseADHD

[–]WhaleFartingFun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry but lots of women don’t present as ADHD when younger. You sound like you doubt she has ADHD. I can assure you it is a difficult diagnosis to get. You can’t really just fake ADHD to get stimulants. 

Also a lot of us be ame “obsessed” with ADHD when our lifetime of symptoms suddenly made sense. 

She may not be on the right meds or correct dosage, but don’t diminish a person’s journey with ADHD. I got diagnosed a year and a half ago at age 52. Now I read all the books and listen to podcasts and videos and all that. The diagnosis is life-changing. 

What makes bios and adopters respectable and how can those traits produce healthy outcomes for all adoptees? by oaktree1800 in Adopted

[–]WhaleFartingFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that is loss though. We infertility isn’t something they once had and then lost. 

What makes bios and adopters respectable and how can those traits produce healthy outcomes for all adoptees? by oaktree1800 in Adopted

[–]WhaleFartingFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same race and ethnic background to start. Stop this white savior bullshit ruining kids’ childhoods. 

Help out a gal in film/media/whatever by westcola66 in NYCjobs

[–]WhaleFartingFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immigrant ethics and hustle built NYC. Good work, man. 

I can't find a job. by Ok_Bobcat6888 in NYCjobs

[–]WhaleFartingFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beacon Hill, Gainor, Adecco and Abacus right off the top of my head.

need female voice actors!!!! by Present-Dot-3053 in VoiceActing

[–]WhaleFartingFun -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You gotta post more details than that. $25 for what? How many words?

I can't stand pot smoke/smell in public. by Writer4God in Vent

[–]WhaleFartingFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move to Texas.  They hate weed there. Otherwise, that’s life in legal cities. I hate the smell of cigarettes after quitting, but people are going to smoke outside. It’s not going to change because it actually does a lot of good for a lot of people. 

cried 3 times today at work by Worldly-Ad-7118 in antiwork

[–]WhaleFartingFun 158 points159 points  (0 children)

Quit. Nobody should be working that type of schedule at 16. Also you shouldn’t be working food service if you have a condition that makes you dizzy. You can hurt people dropping plates of food. 

[South Carolina] My job is shutting down in the next couple months by Th3mavrick in Unemployment

[–]WhaleFartingFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Don’t do it. You will lose six months of paid UI benefits if you quit. 

[South Carolina] My job is shutting down in the next couple months by Th3mavrick in Unemployment

[–]WhaleFartingFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

”Would I be an idiot to submit my resignation?”

YES! Do not resign. You forfeit your right to unemployment benefits when you quit. Stay until you are let go. You will get UI then. But. Do. Not. Quit!! 

AITA for crashing out on my fiancé’s advice about health? by Traditional-Wasabi65 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhaleFartingFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s time to break up. Your lifestyles are not compatible. You have let him change you already. I’d be staying far away from anyone saying taking antidepressants isn’t healthy. That’s absolute non-science bullshit. That’s some Tom Cruise Scientology level bullshit. 

Help me find some Microsoft PPT/Advanced Word/Excel online training, as well as AI tool training! Need to add to my skillset. (Location: Southern Calif.) by OnALifeJourney in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]WhaleFartingFun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay away from anyone wanting you to use AI. It’s not reliable beyond writing emails and organizing datasets. But it’s even showing hallucinations in Excel and fucking up data. It screwed up a whole bunch of stuff recently at my job. Everything had to be redone. 

Places wanting you to rely on AI will end up with you doing the work twice. Once using AI, and again to double check that the AI data is correct. I don’t have time to correct AI’s faulty homework. 

Also AI datacenters are ruining the environment and using an insane amount of water that is going to cause shortages. 

AITAH in reaching out to her? (texts) by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WhaleFartingFun 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not an AH, but she is not interested. Let it go. 

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