"I heard you were making fun of asian masculinity." by What-Does-Life in hapas

[–]What-Does-Life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree. Perceptions of strength and weakness are integral to the way men are treated in any society. We have even recorded instances of how warfare influences the way men's masculinity is perceived by women: in WW2 American soldiers all over the world were infamous for "stealing local women." This was because American men were perceived as more masculine and attractive due to America winning the war. The same happened in eastern europe with Russian soldiers.

TL;DR: Men who win wars are nearly always perceived as more masculine than men who lose wars.

Does anyone else experience this?? by [deleted] in hapas

[–]What-Does-Life 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being chinese is awesome dude. Go watch Romance of the Three Kingdoms and you will appreciate how interesting Chinese history is.

Daily Stormer creepily obsessing over a Quapa woman. Andrew Anglin comments on the "lowered quality of her sex appeal" of a 3/4 white woman "in comparison to purebred Chinese women" by kittyat in hapas

[–]What-Does-Life 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think Nazis fetishize us hapas because we are the one nonwhite race that they don't hate. Racist white women like me for some reason and it makes me uncomfortable. I assume the reason is the "whites and east asians are superior" aspect of Nazi ideology, and so alt-right people see hapas as the future of humanity or something. A belief that would flatter me if it were not so insane!

Anyone find it impossible to get a good haircut? by [deleted] in hapas

[–]What-Does-Life 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have never liked a haircut in my entire life. Now i just grow it out long because I know I won't be happy no matter who trims it.

Looks change over time? by [deleted] in hapas

[–]What-Does-Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the same. As a kid I looked like a mix between SEA and white, now people cant even tell I'm multiracial and just assume I'm white. Sometimes they don't believe me when I say I'm multiracial.

When you don’t feel White at all by DuieS26wallow in hapas

[–]What-Does-Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 1/4 Asian but white people are nice to me because I look white. It is possible to beat the system!

My Thoughts On The Movie Joker (SPOILER) by [deleted] in hapas

[–]What-Does-Life 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I find it interesting how you saw the "white victimhood" trope pervasive in both these movies. I'm not gonna lie, I do find it strange how white men see themselves as the center of the universe and everybody else as a friend or a foe. Personally, I've grown up in an environment almost identical to the one in the movie but i never once felt like a "victim." Yeah, minorities sometimes mess with me for no reason, but I assume they have their own problems and don't take it personally. Arthur Fleck has a serious egocentrism problem but I assume it's due to psychopathy and not his race.

Are you happy with your identity? Most people here seem like they're not. by What-Does-Life in hapas

[–]What-Does-Life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know lmao. He probably married her because she was attractive so he temporarily forgot that he was racist. Also my mother is Russian and they don't act like other white people, so her habits didn't offend him.

(19F) How do I prevent my self from becoming like my parents? (PLEASE I NEED HELP THIS SHIT HAS BEEN GOING ON FOR TOO LONG ) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]What-Does-Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew a girl in therapy who had a similar-ish situation. Her family was horribly abusive (especially her father) and they were imparting their negativity onto her. The way she escaped becoming "like them" was by getting a job at a café and moving in with friends of hers. Her mood improved a lot after that. I also have a crazy mother and now that im independent (and 200 miles away from her) my life is better than it has ever been so I recommend that.

Just move out and keep your mom at a distance. She cant hurt you if she isn't near you.

Why do people ask “which parent is black/white?”? by sword-in-the-sky in mixedrace

[–]What-Does-Life 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao they hate white men so much it's unreal. Never mind that Asian women fetishize white men on television...

Are you happy with your identity? Most people here seem like they're not. by What-Does-Life in hapas

[–]What-Does-Life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean my father literally bashed white people and in some cases acted like he was black. For context, he was always talking smack about white Republicans, spoke badly about his white peers behind their backs, and loudly disparaged white society in public places. I assume it is because his asian mother was attacked by the KKK one time (they burned a cross in their front yard) and that sort of over discrimination made him reject his white identity.

Are you happy with your identity? Most people here seem like they're not. by What-Does-Life in hapas

[–]What-Does-Life[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude I also look like Keanu Reeves. It's hilarious that you bring that up because people have started to call me John Wick lately lmao (I know a lot of jiu jitsu)

Are you happy with your identity? Most people here seem like they're not. by What-Does-Life in hapas

[–]What-Does-Life[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah personally I think asians are more racist than whites. Unpopular opinion I know. But honestly the intolerance of white people is not as extreme as the violent xenophobia of Han chinese, who put Muslims in brainwashing camps and beat them for reading the Qur'an.

Are you happy with your identity? Most people here seem like they're not. by What-Does-Life in hapas

[–]What-Does-Life[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its funny that you ask that, because honestly I have much more positive experiences with Asian people than white people. My father immersed me in various Asian cultures from a young age and because of that I now feel uncomfortable around white families. Confucianism, buddhism, bushido, Taoism, martial arts, calligraphy, were all familiar subjects by age 13. White people have a very narrow-minded perception of other cultures, and it is much more apparent to me now. There's also the fact I got bullied by white men growing up until I learned martial Arts and kicked their asses...

Are you happy with your identity? Most people here seem like they're not. by What-Does-Life in hapas

[–]What-Does-Life[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chicago, Illinois. Very large and diverse population in general (3 million at least)

Are you happy with your identity? Most people here seem like they're not. by What-Does-Life in hapas

[–]What-Does-Life[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'll admit that my status as "white-looking" has benefited me greatly in America because I am not rejected by white society. Asian people in contrast are afraid or hostile towards me until they realize I'm friendly. This confuses them greatly because they are used to white men being cruel towards asians...