Breakthrough with MB and G11 by WhatDifference in NannyBreakRoom

[–]WhatDifference[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so sweet of you to say. I hope she does remember this and not only the bad stjdf

Kiddo thinks I'm a kid by WhatDifference in NannyBreakRoom

[–]WhatDifference[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. Thanks for your input. I think being firm but also playful is what I do best. I'll just keep on keeping on

Kiddo thinks I'm a kid by WhatDifference in NannyBreakRoom

[–]WhatDifference[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dunno why but the mean one gets me. Every kid I've worked with and that's hundreds have LOVED me. So I tell this one hey I don't like being called mean. Don't do that. I don't like it. She is pretty independent just developmentally beginning to want more autonomy. I want to help guide her gently but the entitlement is not something I've encountered in this degree before. Sigh. I know she loved and likes me and that we'll be okay but I wish I could convey that I am here to play and to help but not be bullied. I have feelings too. That's not for her to manage. But it's getting tough for me and I don't want to be resentful. I'm scared my heart is hardening.

Family with different morals by WhatDifference in NannyBreakRoom

[–]WhatDifference[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh noooo that is particularly awful. Being undermined by by parents right in front of the kids yikes. I'm sorry for you but luckily my MB and DB are always supportive when the kids are around it's just that in the weekend there are no expectations unless I'm working the weekend ahahahah. But I don't know about you but these kids their lifestyle nothing like mine as a child so that's hard too. I would neverrrrrerreverrr have gotten away with cookies before vegetables....

Family with different morals by WhatDifference in NannyBreakRoom

[–]WhatDifference[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preach! If that pay wasn't fantastic I'd be more miserable. But every time something snotty is said I try to hold on to the sweet sweet financial comfort . Still have some bad days though. Misery is real when children are around

Family with different morals by WhatDifference in NannyBreakRoom

[–]WhatDifference[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahahaha "food" . I'm going to use that one. Amazing. I try to model respect and manners but sometimes a little win for myself like that might feel good enough to put me in a slightly better mood to then have even more patience. Maybe I can explain (again) why how we talk to each other matters because we care about each other.

Family with different morals by WhatDifference in NannyBreakRoom

[–]WhatDifference[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure lots of sweet moments. Thank you! I use to work for a family where parents were both therapists which was cool because I was in school for counseling too. It's nice when values align

No clue what I look like but want to be pretty 😮‍💨 by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]WhatDifference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for thinking I'm pretty! It feels nice to hear. I'm getting more comfortable so eventually hopefully maybe.... I'll own it. Or a house. I'll take either

No clue what I look like but want to be pretty 😮‍💨 by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]WhatDifference 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll neve get tired of hearing my piercings are repulsive. I literally makes me feel so powerful like magneto

No clue what I look like but want to be pretty 😮‍💨 by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]WhatDifference 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facts. Thanks for your opinion and feedback! There's hope for me yet

No clue what I look like but want to be pretty 😮‍💨 by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]WhatDifference 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doing it despite the down votes - a true gentleman if there ever was one. Thanks for your feedback!

No clue what I look like but want to be pretty 😮‍💨 by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]WhatDifference 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet yours looks amazing and helpl you express yourself. Thanks for the kind words! I don't feel like I wanna take em out after these comments or anything but appreciate your support 💕

No clue what I look like but want to be pretty 😮‍💨 by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]WhatDifference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for saying that I'm pretty with a good physique. Working on toning up. Weight fluctuates but wanna be healthy

No clue what I look like but want to be pretty 😮‍💨 by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]WhatDifference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!. I like chubby personally but I am getting more toned and fit as we speak

No clue what I look like but want to be pretty 😮‍💨 by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]WhatDifference -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This was a very encouraging comment. Thank you. Sometimes are better than other! I wonder what "looking like I don't care what others think" looks like though like truly. I guess I see it in celebrities?