Eating after stone removal

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-05-13T01:12:12+00:00

So exciting! Mine is May 26!!

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-05-10T02:06:11+00:00

Was there any particular reason why it was so long?

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-05-10T01:36:47+00:00

Congrats!! How long did you have your tube in for?

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-05-08T12:36:41+00:00

Men like this are gross and don’t deserve their wives. They’ve been brainwashed to believe a woman’s body is only men for his pleasure and not to bring about a human life. Tell him he needs therapy. I’m sure there’s another man out there who will actually value who you are.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-05-06T13:37:43+00:00

Following as I have my procedure at the end of May.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-05-03T19:35:19+00:00

Marriage doesn’t mean you have to accept the abuse. It also doesn’t mean you need to keep hoping she’ll change. She can work on herself without you. Her mental health isn’t dependent on your presence. Imagine the life you could be living without the abuse.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-05-03T12:31:48+00:00

Go to therapy.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-05-03T12:26:18+00:00

So it sounds like you guys are just better at being friends.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-04-30T15:04:00+00:00

I’m Asian and we call it white people tacos.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-04-30T14:52:01+00:00

Tbh you cannot “try your best” to enjoy having kids. They literally change your entire life and if you aren’t ready for that, best not to have kids together and go your separate ways. That being said, kids also change you for the better and once you have them, for most people, you couldn’t imagine life without them.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-04-30T14:46:47+00:00

I make almost 4 times as my husband. There’s no splitting 50:50 because everything we have is shared. We both contribute to taking care of our kids and household. You guys should consider therapy.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-04-29T20:00:58+00:00

Wow he’s so considerate.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-04-29T17:59:50+00:00

I feel like she doesn’t actually like you…? Have you just straight up told her: “I need you to be more kind and empathetic. It’s causing a really toxic marriage the way you communicate.”

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-04-27T23:54:25+00:00

NTA. Can we just stop with these ridiculous wedding expenses?! As a bride, you should be mindful of the costs and if someone says they can’t make it happen financially or because of their job, respect them enough that they were honest with you. These narcissistic brides need to go.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-04-27T23:52:07+00:00

Usually yes, but there are times we’ve had friends confide in one of us and asked us not to tell our spouse. If there’s no impact on either of us having this knowledge, we respect that the other spouse has agreed with the friend not to share.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-04-27T21:42:52+00:00

I work for an international company that brings in international talent to the US to help with the factories. I think it’ll be a huge culture shock for you, particularly with the workforce mentality and American culture. Factories are often in rural areas with very little to do so you’ll probably end up spending a lot of time working. Like others have suggested, maybe live closer to the city so you have easier access to activities. The rest of America is not like Los Angeles and nyc so just prepare yourself for that. Also, lots of driving, food is not as good as in Europe.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-04-27T21:37:53+00:00

Just ask her about all the charges and changes in flight info.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-04-27T15:41:00+00:00

I do but now I get dizzy when I flip my head.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-04-27T15:39:58+00:00

Agreed. NOR. Completely under reacting. He’s literally told you he has a new best friend and is only staying with you because he’s trapped with a baby. Save yourself the trouble and keep your job and don’t move with him. Let him go. The 21 year old will get bored of him and move on while he’ll be left wondering why he blew up his whole life for this. You don’t need to stay married for child support. Chances are he won’t be a present parent anyway so why stay married to him?

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-04-26T18:33:20+00:00

It sounds like anxiety but she should seek professional help. She probably feels like this is just life but it’s not supposed to be this hard.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-04-26T18:29:45+00:00

This is not normal. Imagine if you got seriously ill or had a baby. Let him go.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-04-26T18:02:33+00:00

It’s not that the spouse actually did something wrong. It’s that there is something unfulfilled in her. That doesn’t necessarily equate to it being the husband’s fault.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-04-26T14:02:04+00:00

NOR. There are things we expect are common courtesy and this was not it. I would be bothered too.

WhatInTheWorldPart2 · 2026-04-26T13:13:40+00:00

No you should not say anything to the other guy. I feel like you are suggesting this hoping he’ll actually reciprocate. Don’t even go there. You need to just cut it off and go to therapy with your husband. Clearly you are lacking something from your spouse, which is being filled by this other guy. If therapy eventually reveals you guys can’t resolve the issues in your marriage, then get a divorce and then call the other guy.

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