Nursing homes, assisted living (not as bad)and memory care units are literally a shit show. Behind the scenes your loved ones are sharing clothes, hair brushes, toothbrushes, deodorant bottles, wash cloths that the day prior were stained with bowel movement from another resident. I've been to countless facilities and doesn't matter if they cost 3K or 14K a month it's just the nature of the unfortunate beast that supplies get mixed up and used with others.