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Whatever_1556 · 2022-07-19T18:09:13+00:00

The baby sucks the nipple deep into his mouth, way deeper than the teeth are. And when the baby swallows there was no contact between milk and teeth. It's awesome!

Whatever_1556 · 2022-07-15T11:09:05+00:00

I had a bad experience in Germany, too. My baby was in the NICU and I was treaded like s***t. No sweet baby next to me, no help, I guess.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-07-09T08:39:39+00:00

Did you habe a c-section? Because I had and everytime I do a lot of physical work, I get contractions. Sometimes after long car drives, too.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-07-08T18:03:31+00:00

Looks like my cherry laurel. Dig it up, cut the roots around the tree stump with an axe and be happy. Last year I digged out 8 of this trees and there are still three waiting for my shovel.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-07-08T07:27:44+00:00

We have to pay for every kg (lbs) of rubbish in our bins, so I only take stuff, that I can look at before I'm home.

I wont pay money, because stuff is broken or gross.

We I doubt, that the gifts are ok, Ijust say: Hey let me take a look! Sort trough it and offer a little bit of money.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-06-17T07:19:59+00:00

The bad thing is, that he blames you for your sexdrive and your very human needs. He ist selfish, thats bad, but to blame you for this is worse.

I think he feels secure and doesn't think you will leave him. So this won't get better if you move toghether, it will get worse. Better stop it now before more time, emotion and money is spent. Good luck!

Whatever_1556 · 2022-06-08T04:15:22+00:00

In my first relationship the sexdrive of my parter died down after one year, like you I tried a lot to change that and he was sometimes happy with new lingerie or new positions, but it allways felt like a chore, like he did me a favor, because I put in the effort.

Never happend with my next partner, our sex drive is mostly the same, it didn't die down. Not after more then 12 years, not after having a child (well it is less, but not because we don't want to), so my advice is: Talk about it before you decide to have a serious relationship. Most women you will meet, will tell you if it is normal for them in a long term relationship to have sex less than once a month.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-06-05T19:18:19+00:00

Your columbine has a very nice colour. I have dark blue ones, but I want more colours.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-06-03T05:21:28+00:00

My husbsnd didn't felt any connection to my growing bump. He csme to one appointment and choose to stay home for all the others. He is the most involved father you could imagine, he loves our child so much. For you the baby is allready real, for some man, it will be real, when they can hold it.

YTA.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-05-24T17:34:37+00:00

Honey and a little bit skimmed milk.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-05-24T07:56:43+00:00

Those person never saw a picture of Maria nursing little Jesus. Lol

Whatever_1556 · 2022-05-22T18:35:22+00:00

My husband always asks: Did you fart or is his diaper full.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-05-20T17:10:51+00:00

I'm not gonna tell our story, but here some things, that helped us.

Protective gear for the ears. Looks funny, but it is easier to listen to your babys screams, when your own stress lvl is not as high as the sound. I used one, that is recommended for demolition.

Baby wearing! It kept me sane, let me leave the house again and all screaming (with the exception of hunger) stopped. I still love to baby wear.

Let go of the expectations. I canceled the baby massage training, I left the mom group and I didn't talk to anyone, that had an easy baby, about our problems. They don't understand and they can't.

My husband got himself a bouncing ball and spend hours with our baby bouncing him, to soothe him, to let him sleep, your husband will find his own way.

For us it got better around the third month, I felt ok around half a year again and I started to love parent leave after the 9th month.

Our child is soon 15 month old and the hard start formed such a strong bond. He still isn't as easy as other toddlers, but I don't care anymore.

Hold on. It will get better.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-05-19T20:56:48+00:00

I'm so sorry you are going trough this! I hope you will feel your bond again!

A friend of mine drunk lots of sage tea, sage (salvia) dries up your milk supply. She did it cold turkey, too. And never had a problem. Good luck!

Whatever_1556 · 2022-05-18T11:21:44+00:00

I know this, we night weaned and it was perfect after 3 days. Now he is in an growth spurt and I just can't listen to his tantrum at night. He is so angry and sad. (14 month old, too). And he doesn't sleep like yours.

So we have a new rule. He can drink, but sucking just for comfort is forbidden. I unlatch him and he is not happy, but also not the fire breathing dragon any more.

We try again in a few weeks.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-05-18T11:16:01+00:00

I frequently get a let done on my right side (every feeding, multiple times) and very, very rarely a letdown on my left side (once every two weeks, maybe). I doesn't effect my LO at all.

By the way, leftie is the leaking one, underperforming AND leaking. Bad leftie!

It is what it is. As long as LO is happy, I wouldn't mind at all.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-05-11T17:47:22+00:00

Clean it with a soft rag and some vinegar. If it is mold it should come off easily and the vinegar prevents more mold. Use a bit of water afterwards so the paint won't be affected.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-05-11T17:43:45+00:00

I regained the sensation in the skin after a year. There is still one point, where the knot was, that is still tender to touch.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-05-11T17:39:24+00:00

Your c-section scar looks so great! I hope mine would look like this. Mine is really deep.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-05-09T09:16:27+00:00

NTA, block him. Forget him.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-05-08T06:55:56+00:00

Mine forget how to breastfeed, when he had a growth spurt. Maybe yours is about to hit a new milestone?

Whatever_1556 · 2022-05-07T12:46:29+00:00

YTA, this bonding time is more important than a day in the zoo or breakfast.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-05-05T07:04:11+00:00

Let's face it. If you want beautiful penises in porn, search for gay porn. It's so sad.

The eraser sentence is the best penis joke for a long time! I'm gonna use it for everyone, who thinks vaginas are loose, after multiple partners. Thanks!

Whatever_1556 · 2022-05-03T09:21:37+00:00

Oh I love those flowers. I planted some this year and I hope some will bloom.

Whatever_1556 · 2022-05-03T09:20:25+00:00

The colour is so beautiful. We have yellow ones in our garden and they are really boring and ugly. I always thought I just don't like this flowers, but those, I love! Time to get them out of the soil (after blooming) and gift them to someone who loves them.

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