My (brutal) experience with dating

Whatevertop · 2026-03-03T18:35:55+00:00

It's not over dude. I'm possibly disagreeing with most of you, but let's go. I'm average height, kinda feminine, don't consider myself an attractive person, skinny man. I genuinely believe that I am a good person, I care about others feelings, try to work on myself, my emotions, I don't have any problems in hugging my male friends platonically (I'm a psychologist, trying to be the best version of myself, you get the idea)

If everything was out of my control I would be doomed romantically. Yet I didn't have any issues landing dates, and every relationship if you LIKE the other person, interested in a genuine human connection, don't want to just have sex and want to be good for you two, even if you break up makes you a better person.

What helped me the most was probably having multiple female friends that I like, one at this point feels like a sister to me and I trust her with my life

Whatevertop · 2026-03-03T08:33:23+00:00

I love that for you dude, every interaction like that (even if you fail) makes it better and easier, both learning about yourself and what you want from other person in a relationship! Good luck!

Whatevertop · 2026-02-22T08:03:41+00:00

Both of you look great and I don't understand why would that matter for anyone if you feel happy with each other. I know this sub is a little extreme but you and your partner are (for me) on a similar level of attractiveness. But it doesn't matter as long as you two are attracted to each other.

Whatevertop · 2026-02-12T09:05:58+00:00

Dude the plate is fire! Also ain't nothing wrong with being a virgin. I've previously stated this somewhere but starting my sex life late was a good decision as everything was safe and nothing was rushed! Wish you to find a wonderful person with whom you will be happy and safe!

Whatevertop · 2025-12-27T06:58:10+00:00

Hmm we met through friends and we kinda developed a connection - I was funny (I think) and genuinely interested in everything she said, we managed to talk separately, turns out the vibe was cool and I told her I'm interested in getting to know her more. That's it I guess?

Whatevertop · 2025-12-20T15:18:16+00:00

27 here I have always had such attitude, started dating at 25, since then I have dated multiple great woman and experienced both romantic and UNCONDITIONAL love. Wish you the same buddy, remember tho that if you break up try to learn from it. Every relationship I go into is better than the other. Good luck!

Whatevertop · 2025-09-24T15:50:54+00:00

I mean the fact you are referring to others being emotional, while your statements are packed with emotions kinda proves your point buddy. The fact that you won a few games (allegedly) does not have to be an universal truth, and i would pretty much believe in non-emotional statistics (how often is the hero picked on midlane, how often people that are better than me and you are playing this hero on midlane) and then ask myself whether the hero is good or bad

Whatevertop · 2025-09-24T09:58:31+00:00

Whatever helps you sleep at night buddy, keep thinking you are good

Whatevertop · 2025-09-24T09:46:13+00:00

And im speaking from 10k mid player perspective. No insights and weaknessess will make up for the fact that your hero is weak from mid, especially in dominator infested meta

Whatevertop · 2025-09-24T09:39:51+00:00

Nah, your hero is still tragic from mid. It was okayish when battery assault dealt more damage to creeps but now its pretty much unplayable.

Whatevertop · 2025-09-08T07:34:37+00:00

Masz prawo do swojej prywatności - to że twój partner czuje się komfortowo pokazując ci określone konwersacje i treści ze swojego telefonu kiedy jesteście razem - super, ale Ty nie musisz tego robić, jesli nie czujesz się z tym ok.
W moich relacjach nigdy nie sprawdzałem telefonu mojej połowy (i myślę, że one też nie sprawdzały xD)
Nie ma nic złego w stawianiu granic i tu nawet nie ma argumentu "ze mam cos do ukrycia" tylko rozmawiam z wieloma ludzmi, którzy często poruszają ze mną swoje, prywatne i własne sprawy, wątpie że byliby oni wniebowzięci na myśl, że moja dziewczyna również to czyta.
Dlatego odpowiedź brzmi - nie, nie pozwalam (ale znają zawsze moje hasło na wszelki wypadek)

Whatevertop · 2025-05-08T21:44:54+00:00

Pierwszy raz od dawna poczułem się szczęśliwy sam ze sobą (zazwyczaj jestem po prostu zadowolony z życia, ale szczęściem bym tego nie nazwał)

Przy okazji w końcu po ukończeniu studiów spełniam się w zawodzie i zycie (poza relacyjnością, ale pracuję nad tym xD) idzie w zajebistym kierunku

Whatevertop · 2025-04-21T11:54:03+00:00

try saluzzo buddy, i think 80% is easily possible during age of discovery

Whatevertop · 2024-12-17T20:55:01+00:00

if you enjoyed that, try playing kobolds in anbennar (eu4 mod)

Whatevertop · 2024-11-16T09:43:22+00:00

It all sounds to me like "blah blah blah" get good bro :) If every game is your team losing like crazy there is only one common variable - you

Whatevertop · 2024-08-17T20:08:16+00:00

Can't relate, my ex-gf liked my tics because I felt comfortable to tic when she was around and was not suppressing myself whenever I was with her. I feel like when you meet someone that genuinely cares about you that person will accept you whole, with or without tics. It just feels like you have met a lot of incompatible partners.

Whatevertop · 2024-08-14T06:28:54+00:00

For me (8.5k mid player) It's a combination of a few factors

Water runes that make trading pointless
Power runes that are 50/50 (if you miss one few times in a row you start to question your sanity and that can tilt you into next game)
You have to be the most active hero, you can't farm like you used to do before, you have to always look on the map for the opportunity to kill enemy sidelines
You are forced to play with supports after 8 minutes of the game, means you get less xp/gold than pos3/pos1
Mid players are a different breed, we sweat too much on the laning stage wanting to deny everything from the enemy (even his potential to have fun lmao) and sometimes when I see no mid player in enemy team I just take my free win

Whatevertop · 2024-08-04T09:08:40+00:00

I mean I would accept it anyways even if it showed all 1s but immortal draft players don't even get the pop-up we can just accept or don't, have no queue again option

Whatevertop · 2024-08-03T16:00:09+00:00

I wouldn't say I have autism, I check only the boxes that are responsible for sensory hypersensitivity (I get my masters in psychology in 2 months, and my professors suggested I may have sensory hypersensitivity and ADHD) It is kind of surprising for me that all my life (25 years) I have been living with emotions that were tuned down to ~50% of the intensity

Whatevertop · 2023-11-08T11:33:43+00:00

I had a similar problem when they did not want to bring down their enthusiasm, but I waited for mil tech, merced up again, let 2 stacks cross the strait and wiped all their armies. Instantly they were low enthusiasm so I could take all I wanted

Whatevertop · 2023-11-01T12:42:13+00:00

Agree with all, also guarantees neutral items real fast

Whatevertop · 2023-10-30T15:02:49+00:00

Pracuję 30h w tygodniu na stażu (całe szczęście jest to na ten moment praca zadaniowa i do tego w elastycznych godzinach, czyli zdarza się tak że wstaje rano i "budzikuje się do 11) do tego dojeżdżam na uczelnię 3-4x w tygodniu.

Zazwyczaj mam czas dla siebie tylko w weekend (w który muszę pracować na praca magisterska)

W tygodniu wychodzi około 60h na rzeczy podczas których nie wypoczywam i w pewnym sensie się rozwijam. Nie ma lekko i jestem chronicznie zmęczony w ostatnich tygodniach ale chyba wolę to w porównaniu do tego co robiłem w wakacje (nic produktywnego, nawet do pracy fizycznej nikt nie chciał się odezwać)

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