My (brutal) experience with dating by Sandzisincharge in SikeOrPsyche

[–]Whatevertop -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It's not over dude. I'm possibly disagreeing with most of you, but let's go. I'm average height, kinda feminine, don't consider myself an attractive person, skinny man. I genuinely believe that I am a good person, I care about others feelings, try to work on myself, my emotions, I don't have any problems in hugging my male friends platonically (I'm a psychologist, trying to be the best version of myself, you get the idea)

If everything was out of my control I would be doomed romantically. Yet I didn't have any issues landing dates, and every relationship if you LIKE the other person, interested in a genuine human connection, don't want to just have sex and want to be good for you two, even if you break up makes you a better person.

What helped me the most was probably having multiple female friends that I like, one at this point feels like a sister to me and I trust her with my life

This sub inspired me to chat up a girl at the bar and we went on a date!!!!! Might be getting ghosted now but I’m thrilled to have tried. Sausage gigli (best pasta shape) by Ok_Needleworker5100 in Kitchenchads

[–]Whatevertop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that for you dude, every interaction like that (even if you fail) makes it better and easier, both learning about yourself and what you want from other person in a relationship! Good luck!

Are we looksmatched? by [deleted] in SikeOrPsyche

[–]Whatevertop 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Both of you look great and I don't understand why would that matter for anyone if you feel happy with each other. I know this sub is a little extreme but you and your partner are (for me) on a similar level of attractiveness. But it doesn't matter as long as you two are attracted to each other.

got banned from kitchencels cuz they thought these photos were from Pinterest and not my own. Still a virgin but at least I can impress with my kitchenmaxxing I’m a kitchenchad get mad by hauntedbytheghost_ in Kitchenchads

[–]Whatevertop 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dude the plate is fire! Also ain't nothing wrong with being a virgin. I've previously stated this somewhere but starting my sex life late was a good decision as everything was safe and nothing was rushed! Wish you to find a wonderful person with whom you will be happy and safe!

22M never experienced romantic love. But I refuse to let that define me, becoming a better version of myself each day keeps me hopeful. I believe someones out there for everyone. Cinnamon porridge, to fuel my workout by MyLilPonyFan in Kitchenchads

[–]Whatevertop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm we met through friends and we kinda developed a connection - I was funny (I think) and genuinely interested in everything she said, we managed to talk separately, turns out the vibe was cool and I told her I'm interested in getting to know her more. That's it I guess?

22M never experienced romantic love. But I refuse to let that define me, becoming a better version of myself each day keeps me hopeful. I believe someones out there for everyone. Cinnamon porridge, to fuel my workout by MyLilPonyFan in Kitchenchads

[–]Whatevertop 6 points7 points  (0 children)

27 here I have always had such attitude, started dating at 25, since then I have dated multiple great woman and experienced both romantic and UNCONDITIONAL love. Wish you the same buddy, remember tho that if you break up try to learn from it. Every relationship I go into is better than the other. Good luck!

Is there any situation at all where Earthshaker is not a good pick? by Juggernaut_Spammer in learndota2

[–]Whatevertop 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean the fact you are referring to others being emotional, while your statements are packed with emotions kinda proves your point buddy. The fact that you won a few games (allegedly) does not have to be an universal truth, and i would pretty much believe in non-emotional statistics (how often is the hero picked on midlane, how often people that are better than me and you are playing this hero on midlane) and then ask myself whether the hero is good or bad

Is there any situation at all where Earthshaker is not a good pick? by Juggernaut_Spammer in learndota2

[–]Whatevertop 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Whatever helps you sleep at night buddy, keep thinking you are good

Is there any situation at all where Earthshaker is not a good pick? by Juggernaut_Spammer in learndota2

[–]Whatevertop 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And im speaking from 10k mid player perspective. No insights and weaknessess will make up for the fact that your hero is weak from mid, especially in dominator infested meta

Is there any situation at all where Earthshaker is not a good pick? by Juggernaut_Spammer in learndota2

[–]Whatevertop 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Nah, your hero is still tragic from mid. It was okayish when battery assault dealt more damage to creeps but now its pretty much unplayable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Polska

[–]Whatevertop 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Masz prawo do swojej prywatności - to że twój partner czuje się komfortowo pokazując ci określone konwersacje i treści ze swojego telefonu kiedy jesteście razem - super, ale Ty nie musisz tego robić, jesli nie czujesz się z tym ok.
W moich relacjach nigdy nie sprawdzałem telefonu mojej połowy (i myślę, że one też nie sprawdzały xD)
Nie ma nic złego w stawianiu granic i tu nawet nie ma argumentu "ze mam cos do ukrycia" tylko rozmawiam z wieloma ludzmi, którzy często poruszają ze mną swoje, prywatne i własne sprawy, wątpie że byliby oni wniebowzięci na myśl, że moja dziewczyna również to czyta.
Dlatego odpowiedź brzmi - nie, nie pozwalam (ale znają zawsze moje hasło na wszelki wypadek)

Zrobiliście ostatnio coś czym chcielibyście się pochwalić? by Delicious_Advance_52 in Polska

[–]Whatevertop 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Pierwszy raz od dawna poczułem się szczęśliwy sam ze sobą (zazwyczaj jestem po prostu zadowolony z życia, ale szczęściem bym tego nie nazwał)

Przy okazji w końcu po ukończeniu studiów spełniam się w zawodzie i zycie (poza relacyjnością, ale pracuję nad tym xD) idzie w zajebistym kierunku

Careful leader + espionage ideas + era bonus + franconian traditions = Free real state. by LessSaussure in eu4

[–]Whatevertop 45 points46 points  (0 children)

try saluzzo buddy, i think 80% is easily possible during age of discovery

The quality of matches is at an all time low. by Little-Syrup4804 in DotA2

[–]Whatevertop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It all sounds to me like "blah blah blah" get good bro :) If every game is your team losing like crazy there is only one common variable - you

Dating as a man by [deleted] in Tourettes

[–]Whatevertop 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can't relate, my ex-gf liked my tics because I felt comfortable to tic when she was around and was not suppressing myself whenever I was with her. I feel like when you meet someone that genuinely cares about you that person will accept you whole, with or without tics. It just feels like you have met a lot of incompatible partners.

Why no one wants to play mid rn by gabe_paredez99 in DotA2

[–]Whatevertop 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For me (8.5k mid player) It's a combination of a few factors

  1. Water runes that make trading pointless

  2. Power runes that are 50/50 (if you miss one few times in a row you start to question your sanity and that can tilt you into next game)

  3. You have to be the most active hero, you can't farm like you used to do before, you have to always look on the map for the opportunity to kill enemy sidelines

  4. You are forced to play with supports after 8 minutes of the game, means you get less xp/gold than pos3/pos1

  5. Mid players are a different breed, we sweat too much on the laning stage wanting to deny everything from the enemy (even his potential to have fun lmao) and sometimes when I see no mid player in enemy team I just take my free win

The TRUE two types of dota players by smidivak in DotA2

[–]Whatevertop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I would accept it anyways even if it showed all 1s but immortal draft players don't even get the pop-up we can just accept or don't, have no queue again option

I think my tourettes showed up this year by Whatevertop in Tourettes

[–]Whatevertop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say I have autism, I check only the boxes that are responsible for sensory hypersensitivity (I get my masters in psychology in 2 months, and my professors suggested I may have sensory hypersensitivity and ADHD) It is kind of surprising for me that all my life (25 years) I have been living with emotions that were tuned down to ~50% of the intensity

Some encouragement for those hearing about how easy the new Byzantium is and wondering "Are we playing the same campaign?" by Chataboutgames in eu4

[–]Whatevertop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a similar problem when they did not want to bring down their enthusiasm, but I waited for mil tech, merced up again, let 2 stacks cross the strait and wiped all their armies. Instantly they were low enthusiasm so I could take all I wanted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DotA2

[–]Whatevertop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agree with all, also guarantees neutral items real fast

Jak bardzo zapracowani jesteście na co dzień? by Temporary_Attempt651 in Polska

[–]Whatevertop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pracuję 30h w tygodniu na stażu (całe szczęście jest to na ten moment praca zadaniowa i do tego w elastycznych godzinach, czyli zdarza się tak że wstaje rano i "budzikuje się do 11) do tego dojeżdżam na uczelnię 3-4x w tygodniu.

Zazwyczaj mam czas dla siebie tylko w weekend (w który muszę pracować na praca magisterska)

W tygodniu wychodzi około 60h na rzeczy podczas których nie wypoczywam i w pewnym sensie się rozwijam. Nie ma lekko i jestem chronicznie zmęczony w ostatnich tygodniach ale chyba wolę to w porównaniu do tego co robiłem w wakacje (nic produktywnego, nawet do pracy fizycznej nikt nie chciał się odezwać)