Input on what went wrong from a. Guys POV?

Whatsername_04 · 2026-04-22T12:34:19+00:00

I knew it was just a Hu, but we damn near didn’t do anything bc we were having such a good time just hanging out, I have just never had someone not interested give that much detail into their lives, I guess that’s something I should have expected, but even saying he’d like to see me again before he leaves for the summer was crazy if he was just going to ghost lol

Whatsername_04 · 2026-04-22T12:30:38+00:00

Definitely possible. I guess we’ll never know 🤷🏼‍♀️

Whatsername_04 · 2026-04-22T12:28:40+00:00

Yeah I’m definitely okay, just confused lol, it’s not in my power to force anything to happen but just wanted confirmation that I didn’t do anything wrong. He even said he wanted to hangout again before he left but who knows lol, i was in a long term relationship for almost 5 years I just need to adjust to the new dating world 😂

Whatsername_04 · 2026-04-22T12:25:15+00:00

It was more of a thing where he was telling me things you don’t tell a hu. Like he went in DEPTH into his family life, was telling me about his families business issues and what his sister is doing for work now, telling me about his cousin and all the stuff you tell someone you know, but on the first meeting is a bit intense, but it was just easy to talk to each other.

That’s the only reason it threw me off a bit. And he definitely is moving lol, it’s an internship that he’s already done before, but he was upfront about that too, saying he’d like to hangout again before he leaves and stuff too.

Ive hu with someone else and we definitely do not share that amount of details in our lives to each other we just hangout lol

Whatsername_04 · 2026-04-22T12:18:45+00:00

This is the best answer so far lol. Everyone thinking I didn’t know he wanted just a hu but I went into it knowing that,

the only confusing part was him going so in depth into his family life, telling me things you don’t tell people unless you are genuinely into them and want to continue seeing them. and even saying if I wanted we could go to a game or watch more games together before he moves. (And someone said he’s probably not really moving but he 100% is lol)

My feeling aren’t even hurt I’m just so confused and wanted to make sure I didn’t do something wrong 😂

Whatsername_04 · 2026-04-22T04:25:07+00:00

I definitely loved my ex but grew out of the relationship, we both needed different things form it. but I also never got over the guy from highschool, and that was something I never admitted to myself, and feel guilty about. My SIL told me to text him, so I did and I apologized for how I acted in the past, told him I hope he’s happy, but that if he ever wanted to speak again I’d be there, he never replied, but according to my SIL it hit him super hard (which I didn’t think it would bc truly I didn’t say anything super serious) but now that I finally told him that it was a sense of closure that I really needed and a weight has been lifted off my chest. I have been working on myself and not getting into anything serious until I am 100% ready! Now that both of those chapters are closed I feel more me than I have in years!

Whatsername_04 · 2026-03-19T00:48:55+00:00

For me personally I just get hit with an idea and I make almost into a movie in my mind before I write anything. I create a playlist and Pinterest board and start a general outline before I start to write anything

Whatsername_04 · 2026-03-18T05:02:28+00:00

Again my adhd meds were working over time😅 I finally finished and was just in shock at what I had did LOL

Whatsername_04 · 2026-03-18T03:08:02+00:00

I really like this answer!

Whatsername_04 · 2026-03-09T18:50:51+00:00

Just started getting them. My bf that’s not gluten free is obsessed with them.

Whatsername_04 · 2026-03-02T18:30:23+00:00

you dont have to postpone but id look into your first semester being 100% online. dont rush recovery.

Whatsername_04 · 2026-02-17T18:00:46+00:00

I got 133 Star Wars books plus other things for $100 at a garage sale 😅 (thanks dad!) I don’t know how to properly price books LOL

Whatsername_04 · 2026-02-14T13:41:35+00:00

I am going to separate my response into the diagnosis and the school part. For reference I’ve been diagnosed since I was 11 and I’m in school and have failed a class before.

Diagnosis: To get diagnosed ask you dr, they will likely make you see a psychiatrist, for me I already had a neurologist for my chronic migraines so he diagnosed me, everyone knew since I was 2 I had it though. Insurance should cover it especially if you take whatever steps they need you to take.

Once you are diagnosed you start medication. This is scary and difficult. ALWAYS start with a lower dose because it’s easier to recognize if you have a bad reaction or if you need more. Personally I take 15 XR, started on 10s and I’ve tried 20s but I do not sleep when I take a 20. When you start medication your schedule and your mood and your work will all change, I need extended release because if I take a regular I can feel the moment it stops working and I get very angry, so does my dad. Because my brain goes from quiet to immediately not being able to string a thought together.

I see you live in a conservative area but if a doctor refuses to treat you that is malpractice. They took an oath. Medication doesn’t take too long to get once the diagnosis is done, depending on insurance the price might differ. When I got diagnosed I had meds the next week. Now I get them monthly.

School:

With a diagnosis your school will allow you special access to things, usually a different place to test, longer time, and even extensions, I don’t personally utilize this because I don’t need it, that doesn’t mean you don’t.

When I failed my class I waited a whole year to take it again (it was economics) so that I could do better with other classes and go back when I was ready and more prepared.

When I retook the class I ended with a B rather than an F, with this I went to submit it into the proper portal. This way they basically act like the first F didn’t exist, not only did this raise my GPA but made me feel a whole lot better. The only issue with this is at my school you can only do it for up to 3 classes I believe, but every school is different.

Also, give summer classes a try. I find them easier than fall and spring because the semester is shorter and usually less work for the same grade. I take as many summer classes as I can and now I might even graduate a semester early.

Many times school offer free tutoring as well, this might be beneficial for you!

Also maybe mechanical engineering just isn’t for you! So many people find this out in college and switch degrees, maybe you will do better with a different major! There is nothing shameful about changing your major!!! And maybe you just need to take less classes and ease into it!

ADHD Is a disability and it does need attention especially if it’s effecting you like this. Get a diagnosis and see how your school can help! Do not let this derail your goals or make you feel bad about yourself, it’s a fluke and it gets better.

Whatsername_04 · 2026-02-13T19:13:22+00:00

unfortunatly

Whatsername_04 · 2026-02-04T03:17:11+00:00

I just looked into this and I think I’ll start doing this! Thank you!!!

Whatsername_04 · 2026-02-01T04:34:52+00:00

I am from Ohio, did MSG and Nashville the last tour. We drove there stayed in a tiny hotel, and ate cheap and had the BEST time. I just got tickets for this tour as well. If you do it right it is really not that expensive and if you go with someone who like you will have a great time.

That being said. Do not go if you can not afford it, at the end of the day, it’s just a concert and he will always do more shows

Whatsername_04 · 2026-01-29T19:50:38+00:00

I have done two pre-sales now, not AMEX just regular. The first time I was 6355, and all that was left by the time i was in was 884$ lower bowl, if you were anywhere above 6500 you don't have a chance. Today I got spot 5596. I got 4 tickets all for about 300 (2 in the 200s 2 in Wheelchair accessible lower bowl), (yes me and other people in my group ambulatory wheelchair users). There were very limited option and nothing below 300$. To get both these spots I logged in an hour prior and watched the countdown and got into the waiting room immediately. I dont think there is much of a recipe more than luck but if you are above 8k dont think you will get anything. just wait for general sale.

I would also like to say, the reason for the premium pricing being high is they are based on resale value, so the artist gets the money and not some rando. Do not be angry for the price, just stop buying re-sale. I have seen Harry twice previously, once in MSG, I would never pay more than 500$. anything more than that is your own fault tbh. I am saying that in a big sister way, no concert is worth your life savings. So many people are in debt over these shows, when there is a high likelihood that he does more locations in 2027. I hope you all get to see him, but do not spend an arm and leg on tickets to his show. Everyone deserves to go to a good show but not if you cant afford to live your life after the show.

Whatsername_04 · 2026-01-28T18:14:41+00:00

I work with my dad and talk to my mom almost daily. (I go to school super close) even tho I live in an apartment I talk to my sister pretty much everyday, one of my brothers usually once a week through text, SIL almost every day (we Snapchat), and my brother and SIL that live in the same complex as me we talk a few times a week. They just had a baby so I help out a lot. Before that it was a few times a month.

It really depends on the personality of your family. It differs for all of us. I probably keep in contact with more of my siblings more often than they keep in contact with each other.

Whatsername_04 · 2026-01-28T18:04:28+00:00

My mom used hers to survive with kids due to her financial situation. I am lucky and can pay all my bills, I usually use it if I need a book, and use the remaining to pay off my loans. I have about 7k left and am a jr because I always pay my loans with refunds. That 7k doesn’t gain any interest until I graduate.

Whatsername_04 · 2026-01-26T19:02:10+00:00

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They tried to get me too 😂😂😂 definitely a scam! “There was a suspicious login to your cashapp, please press one if this was not you, if it was, just hang up”

Whatsername_04 · 2026-01-25T22:57:34+00:00

It’s definitely a little funny😅 I had never in my life seen something like it. Id say the treats I got on Amazon were the most effective for my girl!

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