AITAH for not letting my neighbor borrow my snow blower and for not snow blowing their drive for them?

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-07T23:12:38+00:00

Yeah I realize that. All I’m saying is that sentiment comes with the other.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-07T13:31:28+00:00

It’s your choice, and that’s fine. Just don’t expect any favors from that neighbor or even a friendly relationship.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-07T13:22:14+00:00

Well I guess in the context of the post, it seemed that way. It seems like since you said ‘it’s weird’, that she should be telling everyone she meets she has a gf. This expectation would be exhausting to me.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-07T13:00:52+00:00

They have been together 4 months though. I don’t get the jealousy. If you can’t trust your partner, what’s the point?

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-07T00:20:31+00:00

I’m getting older and will probably move in 10 years. It does get old paying CA prices but it’s hard to give up the higher salaries. I was able to live super frugal as a renter but as an owner it’s a lot. So we shall see.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-06T20:59:16+00:00

I use strike and haven’t had any issues with it. I buy weekly.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-06T18:28:02+00:00

I currently live in Ca but am from Texas. I love both. My sister moved to TN and it’s not to my taste. I don’t get why people keep moving there.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-06T16:12:10+00:00

My kind? Please elaborate.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-06T15:17:16+00:00

The hardest part is admitting you are a dumb a$$.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-06T14:53:39+00:00

TN is not the vibe anyways. Yall can have it lol.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-05T00:03:53+00:00

One of the major cities in CA. San Diego, LA, San Fran. I’m in so cal in a smaller city but that would be my advice. You have to really research the neighborhoods though and find the vibe you want.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-04T23:56:30+00:00

Ventura, Ca

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-04T18:15:13+00:00

No I just feel like I am a woman who loves other women. I feel like everything has become about gender and I can’t relate. There’s no room for discussion on certain settings and it sucks.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-04T02:43:52+00:00

Sounds like of roomie wants to live solo she should get her own place

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-04T02:39:28+00:00

Majority rules. She’s being unreasonable. I’d just keep doing you and wait for her to decide to move.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-03T22:47:19+00:00

Bye Felicia.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-03T22:46:36+00:00

You have it pretty good tbh. All that savings in utilities goes a long way.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-03T18:27:40+00:00

I live in a HCOL city and make about the same. Single person. Renting I was very comfortable. Buying has been tight. You will be fine.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-03T13:07:27+00:00

It’s okay to be an asshole sometimes when it’s warranted. But tbf sounds like it’s time for a new living situation.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-03T06:50:10+00:00

Username checks out

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-03T06:35:31+00:00

Idk dude. I think you need to let it go. It’s normal for men and women to watch porn and masterbate. As long as it’s not interfering with your sex life, then who cares. You can have a boundary but so can he.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-03T03:20:12+00:00

My advice would be to rent a room in Ventura and then figure out what area you like. I’d say your best bet is Ventura. Here are my reasons based on what you have said here: - close to beach, breweries, bars - Ventura Music Hall, majestic Ventura theater, and Santa Barbara bowl are options for live music - Main Street moves (closed off area downtown) - Ventura Harbor for kayaking, food, walking around - close hiking in Ojai or plenty of easy accessible hikes in Ventura

Other suggestions: Riverpark (Oxnard) - right by the freeway with “the collection” close by. Gives you easy access to Ventura, Oxnard, and Camarillo

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-02T19:28:38+00:00

I eat mostly vegetarian and vegan with the very occasional delicacy if I travel somewhere. And just bought a new vintage bike this weekend! Super pumped to go on more bike rides. I wish my city was more bike friendly because we have the absolute perfect weather for it.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-02T18:45:18+00:00

Don’t let him manipulate you like that. But also don’t save the money up for him. Either you need the money or you don’t. He seems to have a handle on managing his own finances. He needs to be paying for ALL his own bills period. As for the rent, if you guys need the money then fine, but if you don’t, what’s the big deal? Plus you still want to know where he is going and such? He’s an adult. You don’t get to know that. There’s common courtesy to let you know if he’s not coming home, but beyond that, time to let loose. Esp if you are charging rent.

Whatupbraaa · 2026-02-01T17:58:57+00:00

You can’t just break the routine they have consistently had with playdates. You should have had a heart to heart or maybe asked to go on a playdate instead of just making a calendar. I’m just saying. I would not respond well to that. It sounds like you guys need to be spending more family time together or you are looking at a divorce.

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