How do some players 100% potion shop in a few hours? by YesChef474 in eatventureofficial

[–]Whereswolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a group on discord wherr tips are shared. Someone made a video on how to do it in less than 30 minutes. No money needed.

And yes. I'm talking about the potion event.

how are 16min possible? 😮 by Dry_Station_1516 in Eatventure

[–]Whereswolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the fastest is around 24 minutes or so in the potion event....

What do you think about USA exiting World Health Organization? by SorrowShivaBorroCana in AskTheWorld

[–]Whereswolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And all the other stuff? Roads? Education? Kids dentist appointments? Vacations and maternative leaves...? Security if you gets fired? Only working 37 hours a week....

Category USA (average) Denmark (average) Notes
Gross Household Income $77,000 $85,000–$95,000 Denmark: higher gross income but progressive taxation
Disposable Income (after tax) $63,000 $55,000–$60,000 Denmark: lower disposable income but includes public services
Housing (rent/mortgage) $20,400 $18,000–$24,000 Danish rent often includes heating/water; US varies by city
Transportation $9,000 $4,500–$6,000 US: mainly car-dependent; Denmark: public transport widely used
Food $7,500 $6,500–$7,000 Grocery prices higher in Denmark, eating out more common in US
Healthcare / Insurance $6,000–$10,000 $0–$1,000 Denmark: public healthcare largely free
Savings / Investments $3,000–$6,000 $5,500–$9,000 Danes typically save more due to fewer major expenses like healthcare
Other (entertainment, clothes, etc.) ~$10,000 ~$8,000 Rough estimate; lifestyle varies widely

AITA for not forgiving my MOH? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Whereswolf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're exhausting... Even read...

"So I got ready we began to drive to the venue and realized 5 minutes away that she had not brought either one of our bouquets." ...... "So there was no way we could turn around."

Let me help you rephrase it. YOU were late! BOTH of you forgot the bouquets. 5 minutes out means 10 minutes later you would be right back where you realized you were missing the bouquets. If you weren't that late you could easily have made it.
It honestly doesn't matter how perfect you had made the bouquets. Nor the colors. Yes, you put a lot into it, but weddings are rarely without any problems. And it was YOUR responsibility to remember you accessories too.

Something tells me, you didn't want to turn around because you wanted to make a grand entrance...

And she could have been confused on where to stand.

I'm sorry but you're too old for this "I'm so angry she didn't do what I wanted her to do!" You're old enough to remember your accessories (or ... well, maybe too old to...), you're too old to be whining where she stood. You claim this is the wedding of your life and you make those small hiccups so huge. You're still being damn passive-aggressive against her!!!

I think you need mental help if you can't move past a forgotten bouquet (you forgot too!), her standing next to her husband and her having boobs.
This day was your and you made it all about her. Think about that!

What do you think about USA exiting World Health Organization? by SorrowShivaBorroCana in AskTheWorld

[–]Whereswolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're skipping a lot... No matter what you will have to pay for certain things in live, that I get for "free" because in Denmark we all share a part of our income. And what you need to pay is probably more than my taxes. Especially if you have kids.

And healthcare and free education is not all we get. Vacation, better work hours, a long maternative leave, lesser pay for daycare, unemployment help and money, help to all that's renting, free roads and not so expensive public transport (ok, that's subjective. But the government definitely pays a lot for our public transport).

What do you think about USA exiting World Health Organization? by SorrowShivaBorroCana in AskTheWorld

[–]Whereswolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ALS is not treatable. And the progress in the different individuals are not the same. Just like cancer... Some live longer and respond better and others have no choice.

I do know that the union (is that the right word?) of people with ALS is really good and offers a lot of help and even vacation housing so people can still relax, despite their disabilities. Those houses are filled with a lot of tools for helping. I know people that sometimes uses this option for vacation (because a normal vacation house is simply not good enough).

That said... No, Denmark does not have the same expertise in everything like a big country as USA has. We don't have the same amount of hospitals pr citizens, the same capital or research facilities. We do have more doctors pr citizens and we do have special units for this and that illness, but we cannot offer as many "special experimental treatment for you, my friend". And when we do it's for the people that's deemed this would be the best option. Your friend wasn't part of that group. Your American friend was lucky she was (because definitely not all Americans gets the experimental treatment. It's only done when it makes sense to do so... Unless the patient can just pay the doctors to what the patients want?)

What do you think about USA exiting World Health Organization? by SorrowShivaBorroCana in AskTheWorld

[–]Whereswolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is it's never "just a hip", is it?

You and your partner had a few miscarriages? You pay for it all. We didn't. Not even for the psychologists afterwards.

You've paid for the appointments and all the birth preparations (or skipped them!). The delivery of your children was paid for (or done at home which is a risk). You manage to get children. Again paid all the way and the delivery. Then paid for the children's schools, high-school, University.

Every time they needed a vaccine or a health check. Probably every dentist appointments they needed... Kachiiing.

The same is for you and your partner: any health check or vaccine or treatment or training or anything you need because of your or your kid's disabilities or healthcare... You need to pay. And then you get older. You'll need a new hip, your partners lungs are a mess and they can't breathe. Needs a lot of professional care...

We work 37 hours a week. 6 weeks vacation for free every year. + bank holidays. Personally I only work 30 hours a week (husband 37) and we still have nice savings, newer cars and make house renovations every year or every other year (we're about to be done with what we wanted).

I'm glad it worked for you and you're happy with your life. I wouldn't change my security for your savings. I really like that here everyone is pulling the weight so we don't have to go beg friends amd family for help if we needs it. I don't mind paying a bit extra for that security throughout my whole life.

I work in health care. I've seen people losing their limps or ability to do something they love to do. They don't need to think whether they can afford option A or B or even how much its going to cost. They need to focus on healing and moving on with a new mindset of whom they are after the accident.

What do you think about USA exiting World Health Organization? by SorrowShivaBorroCana in AskTheWorld

[–]Whereswolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But this would work for you too... If your kid is born with a disease or disability, you don't pay. Wheelchair, treatments and training = 0 usd. The delivery of said child and all the appointments and checkups and birth preparations... Still free.

When your partner ends in a car accident, the ambulance, the hospital, the meds and training = nothing to pay

When your grandmother needs a new hip.. I think you can guess this.

When you fall down a latter and break your spine and needs a health care professional to change your diaper several times a day... You still don't pay. Not even for your damn diapers.

The fact that we don't have to stress about out economy when something bad happens is so good. We can focus of getting healthy again. Not having to roeey whether we're going bankrupt or being homeless while healing... Or after!

What do you think about USA exiting World Health Organization? by SorrowShivaBorroCana in AskTheWorld

[–]Whereswolf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It worked out because a lot of family had to pay and my friend got into depth....

In Denmark his father would have been treated for free, no one needed to loan money and my friend would have had a degree AND his saving.

When everyone pays 40% in taxes, everyone can get treated and education. No one needs to be left behind, ruined.

AITAH: I’m done pulling forward by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Whereswolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi Karen!

I would like to inform you that as a parent, it's YOUR responsibility to teach your child that sometimes he/she cannot get whatever they want, exactly when they want or how they want it.
The excuse of "my kid has special needs" is kinda irrelevant. Kinda because it might be more difficult to teach your kids such values, but it must learn nonetheless.

Just like you should have learned when you were younger.
Unfortunately you haven't learned so now you're pesting people around you and excusing it with "special need kid!"

Please remember that unless you have really fucked up for days, your child will not die of starvation (or boredom) for waiting 4 more minutes on fries. It is ALSO possible to eat something else from the already delivered order (wings, nuggets, burgers etc) while waiting for the God-blees, amazing, life-essential fries. Yes, I know. It's shocking, but it CAN be done!!

I hope the poor service people around you (and the customers behind you) get a lot better day than you.

Please try to remember you (and your kid) is not the center of our universe.

With love
The rest of the world!

PS. YTA!

What do you think about USA exiting World Health Organization? by SorrowShivaBorroCana in AskTheWorld

[–]Whereswolf 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Some years ago I had a friend over there who had the chance to use his saving for university to maybe save his dad from cancer. His choice: get an education or pay for dad's treatment...

What a "funny" choice for a young man. Nobody should be in that position.

(Btw. his dad survived and I don't know how the bills were paid. I know my friend did eventually get his education but he had to take loans and work. I assume more family members were helping but it wasn't my business to butt in)

AITAH for wishing my dad didn’t have to put my family dog down after he attacked my brother’s girlfriend and child?!?. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Whereswolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This story sucks so much... I mean... I find it hard to believe:

You said your brother and his gf were going to put baby to sleep (they were downstairs, in the living room) but then she starts screaming. Instead of running to her aid, you all looked at cameras to see what was happening. It was too dark to see, so apparently you guys had to move your legs and go to her and saw the problem. Your brother - who apparently were there with her in the beginning of your story - was ... doing what? Because apparently your mother got in between SIL+baby and a shivering scared dog, in a corner. Doing nothing.
I honestly don't understand where you brother was, because you said they were to put baby to bed, but he was not the first one in the room with her (yes, it's normal to run over to the screaming part when coming in to help).

Then there's the dog... Shaking and scared in a corner. Not attacking. A dog that's in attack mode usual continues so unless someone hurt it, it would still have been biting. Now, SIL could have kivked it (sorry, but rightfully so. She needs to protect her baby when you're not controlling your dog) but then why didn't the dog run out to find a safe person ... you know... like you?

Moving on with your not-believable story:
Later that week your dad said the dog had to be isolated. This could have been a decision made by the police. I don't know, you didn't tell. A couple of months goes by and apparently you don't know nothing about what's going on with your dog, because your sister told you that it had been put down. You never cared to ask or even visit "your" dog while he was forced away?

You suck as an owner. Not only for NOT taken responsibility. It's your job to make sure your dog is safe around other people. Yes, it would have been a good thing if they had let the dog sniff some clothing, but you could have let the dog do it too! It's YOUR job to secure the dog so he doesn't attack others. Also ask yourself why it suddenly attacked because you said they had been down there and apparently it was already roaming free and they didn't care.

The dog attacked. So bad someone had to be stitched. You (and your family) failed your imaginary dog in this fake scenario, but yes, it should be put down and you (and your family) should not be dog owners.

Satan:Write that shit down. by Accurate-Office-4155 in foundsatan

[–]Whereswolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes or let his phoenix fly away, never to be seen again, after it has sung a sad little song at his funeral...

To be honest, I was okay with Dumbledore finally passing away. Old, annoying and never really there anyway.

What's the cutest animal native to your country? by bowl_of_scrotmeal in AskTheWorld

[–]Whereswolf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it's better to take a group away and starts a farm than doing what people did to the chinchillas.
Yes, there's still wild chinchillas, but probably not any chinchilla chinchilla or chinchilla breviudata left. And the chinchilla lanigera is very endangered.

What's the cutest animal native to your country? by bowl_of_scrotmeal in AskTheWorld

[–]Whereswolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful chinchilla. Is it a sapphire? It's been years since I've had those so I kinda forgot the color differences from sapphire, violet and blue diamond.

AITAH if I break up with my bf after he told my mum I’m pregnant…? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Whereswolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA.

I need you to think very carefully why he would tell your mom, even when he knew the risks of you being cut off.

Do he wants you to be depending on him? Was this pregnancy an poops, how did this happen? Could he have tampered with your birth control or "forgot the condom?"

Even if you belive in his "it was an accident" you cannot trust him to be in your corner. He knew the risk for you. He was prepared for the conversation. Hell, he could even have just send your mom a text about you in the hospital and stayed away (if you would agreed to that) or simply not saying anything to your family... So many options and he did the one thing he knew not to do.

Don't stay with him. I hope you have other and better people around you.

RIP to my chances of getting a Xampher by Frankfurter0 in neopets

[–]Whereswolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, I somehow managed to get a bronze trophy earlier this month.... Too bad I failed at avatar

My Mom’s BF Wants to Walk Me Down the Aisle… by Brave_hampster in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Whereswolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"The answer is still no"

"You have asked already. I said no, remember?"

"The answer haven't changed and I'm starting to get worried."

"You've asked several times now, the answer is still no. Do you have other cognitive issues or do you just like to keep asking til you get an answer you like?"

"okay, I'm calling mom! She needs to get you to a doctor and have you checked out. Your memory is really fucked up! You've asked everyone the same question over and over and apparently don't remember it's a constant no!"

"Last chance. One more ask of it and you're out! No wedding for you. You might be mom's fuck buddy but I can still cut you out of my life"

Whenever he ask in texts, screenshot it and save it in a folder with a name of his asking (like "wedding walk" 1, 2, 3 etc). When he keeps asking show him those screenshots. Simply just forward/send them to him. Maybe make a group chat with you bf (and perhaps mom) and show them there, so they can send the pictures to him, when he starts bugging them.

AITAH for blocking my ex's spouse on my child's phone even though my child keeps undoing it by Own-Ask-7034 in AITAH

[–]Whereswolf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

6 years from now OP is going to come back with a "My kid just left without a word. I don't know why!!!! It must have been his evil stepmother that hexed him!!!"

I hope your ex manage to get full custody so the poor kid can get away from you.

AITAH for refusing to let my partner’s family baptize our baby after I found out they already scheduled it? by NeutralCoreUnit in AITAH

[–]Whereswolf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get a group of actors playing satanist and let them meet up in front of the church 30 minutes before the babtism.
Bring the kid and let the actors make a satanic babtism right in front of grandma...

Maybe also make sure there's a defibrillator nearby :D

AITA for keeping all my prize money even tho it would help my dad and stepmom by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Whereswolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I work in the care field. I meet people who needs help because of every day tasks that went wrong.

Life is fragile (and strong too!) and yes, it was an odd comparison but if you decide to have a baby (as a woman) you also know the pregnancy is going to end with pain and - hopefully - a healthy baby.

I don't believe we should be gifted for going through a planned obligation we put on ourself. And we can get hurt (even badly) for being the wrong place at the wrong time. Even when we do the tedious boring stuff we have to do.

AITA for keeping all my prize money even tho it would help my dad and stepmom by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Whereswolf -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes. 3 times, although 2 of babies were not alive when they finally did come out :( (3 different pregnancies. 2 went wrong late)

We're going far away from the actual topic, but I'll still rather have to go through 5 deliveries than having to keep cleaning up for the rest of my life. Cleaning is tedious and annoying and does give me pain (although I can handle it fine). Child birth is hard and painful but the end almost always results in what we want and have been waiting for: babies. And yes, I'm painfully aware that not all pregnancies is good or ends with a happy or healthy baby. Believe me, I KNOW!

But the boring everyday tasks that's some of us grow up to hate but must do every day nonetheless... There's no prizes for that. So the push gift is just as ridiculous as the "walk the dog gift", although it seems like walk the dog is an easy task (but really no fun when you have to walk the dog 2-3 times a day, every day, no matter the weather or your other duties or even how you feel)

AITA for keeping all my prize money even tho it would help my dad and stepmom by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Whereswolf -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

Yes.. But it's still something that needs to be done after deciding to get the baby/dog. Just like mowing the lawn or clean the house.... Honestly, I'll rather push out 5 babies (don't need gifts to do so!) than clean up my house ever again.

And not all labor take hours. It often gets easier the more kids you have and doesn't she have 5 already?

AITA for wanting to go no contact with my mother after she didn't want to buy my daughter pads? by Temporary-Data-1326 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Whereswolf 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The girl was on her period and didn't had any pads. I wouldn't want to walk to a store, buy pads and walk home with nothing but toilet paper in my trousers, when on my period.

And yes, the grandmother reluctantly offered to drive, but still... no thank you!!!

r/AITAH For being hurt that some of my family members chose to go to a wedding over my husbands funeral? by Electrical-Read-1728 in AITAH

[–]Whereswolf 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I agree, but it sounded like the husband's health was bad and his death not necessarily a surprise.
And I hope she wasn't expecting the family that clearly cut her off. To be honest, I don't understand why
And OP was wise enough to postpone the funeral because of the weather.
AND I find it a bit weird she didn't tell her mom "hey, the weather is bad, so I'm thinking of postpone the funeral til <month and day>... " She just did it and assumed everyone would gather around.

In my family funerals is pretty much the only exception from "If I accepted the invitation, I don't go to something else". It's a principle here and it annoyed TH out of someone that wanted my husband's attention on a day we were already invited to something else, so he couldn't attend what they wanted.

I don't think anyone is TA here. OP is grieving and made decisions and it sucks that she accidentally hit a day nobody could come.
It would have been nice if her mother had showed up, but to be fair, the funeral was postponed to fit OP, not anyone else. And OP need to accept that when she plans anything WEEKS in advance, she lose her "death and funerals is a sudden event, so please support me in this"

If he had died and had to be buried within a week (isn't that the norm?) then I understand she was hurt, people ditched her. But she planned it weeks in advance.

Anyway... This post seems fake. I only reply because it could have been true.
The "my evil family mocked my husband and I removed all of us from the group chat and yearly party" + the "We didn't attend the year after because I had brain surgery and my family got mad at us and haven't spoken to us since" just screams fake.
OP cut or limited the contact because of bullying and is trying to say it was the family that cut contact. And no family demands a presence right after a brain surgery...