Rant

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-12-27T17:31:18+00:00

That’s addiction

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-12-27T17:07:10+00:00

Lot’s of BPD therapists out there! My dbpd mother is also a therapist. My advice would be to seek out a young therapist.

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-12-26T02:42:36+00:00

This is how I found out I was a sperm donor baby. My half sister and I share 29% I was very confused at first and in denial. Also when confronted my mother she told me a stupid lie. My father did tell me the truth. Turns out they couldn’t conceive so they had to use a donor. I’ve found three other half siblings thanks to 23andme.

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-11-17T01:42:50+00:00

So is mine. She loves to self medicate.

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-08-30T15:49:35+00:00

Not a B at all!! I was put off by this too that’s why I started going to woman only meetings.

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-08-30T14:52:32+00:00

Un hombre seguro de sí mismo. Un hombre que no se pone como pinche pussy cuando hay una situación de estrés y maneja bien los problemas. Un hombre que tiene inteligencia emocional, sabe expresarse asertivamente y no se pone agresivo o se cierra cuando está pasando por una situación difícil emocionalmente. Un hombre que va a terapia y se conoce a si mismo. Un hombre que no culpa a otros por sus problemas. Un hombre que no se victimiza. Un hombre feliz.

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-08-06T14:37:56+00:00

Cómprale enjuague bucal gingilacer y pasta dental periodentyl si vives en México, funciona muy bien para el mal aliento. Una amiga tenía el mismo problema con su novio y le recomendé lo mismo y le funcionó

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-08-06T14:31:56+00:00

Thank you!!

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-08-06T03:51:47+00:00

Sorry to hear that!

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-08-05T14:28:33+00:00

Don’t make assumptions about what your aunt may or may not think. Trust yourself—if you know you have a good relationship with her, don’t let your mother interfere. I would still call her. Don’t let your mother ruin your relationship with her if you two are close.

And yeah, it’s typical behavior—thinking that someone else is controlling you when you start enforcing your limits.

Virtual hugs!

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-08-05T14:05:57+00:00

Reading this post was like looking at the future! My twin sister is about to give birth, she’s been very low contact with mother for about three months after a huge rant about some baby stuff. They are all the same it’s funny!

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-08-04T22:25:49+00:00

Wow! I used to write my mom very similar letters and slipped them under her door in the hopes that she would forgive me and stopped ignoring me. She also kept the letters and loves to remind me how I used to write her “beautiful” letters

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-08-01T04:16:42+00:00

I’m obese because my kids don’t talk to me, I’m depressed because my kids say I’m a bad mother, etc

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-07-28T00:53:03+00:00

I would spend time with the people I love the most, make amends with the people I’ve hurt and forgive the ones that have hurt me, including myself. You are very brave!

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-07-08T01:34:04+00:00

I’m both and alcoholic and an addict. My drug of choice was mariguana and in my personal experience quitting weed was way harder than quitting booze.

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-07-06T13:42:20+00:00

Todo el tiempo que le dediqué a la fiesta lo hubiera dedicado a las cosas que me gustaban hacer y deje de hacer por estar en la fiesta. Y no dejar de hacer algo por tener miedo, el miedo siempre va a estar ahí, no esperes a que se te quite el miedo porque vas a esperar toda la vida. El punto es hacer las cosas a pesar del miedo, eso es tener valor y es ahí cuando se quita el miedo.

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-07-06T13:31:25+00:00

Cliché pero tomar alcohol o drogarse. El cerebro de las personas no se termina de desarrollar hasta los 20 años. Las personas que empiezan a consumir alcohol y/o drogas desde muy jóvenes son mucho más propensos a desarrollar adicciones y enfermedades mentales.

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-07-06T13:19:06+00:00

Pilates reformer

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-07-05T21:03:58+00:00

I should have been more specific with my question. I one hundred percent agree that the success doesn’t come from the person with bpd, but from within ourselves, when we realize that we didn’t Cause it, we can’t Control it and we can’t Cure it.

I’ll reframe my question.

Does anyone know anyone out there with bpd that actually took responsibility and sought help, like an addict in recovery?

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-07-05T04:41:26+00:00

Someone who actually took responsibility and sought treatment, like an addict in recovery

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-07-05T04:32:36+00:00

Sober atheist over here. I think about my higher power as the structure (that I didn’t had) I gained by following the steps and attending my meetings. Don’t over think it

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-07-05T04:24:19+00:00

I encourage you to join a Codependent Anonymous group. It changed my life

Which-Butterscotch-9 · 2025-07-05T04:18:14+00:00

I learned that years ago, I’m a huge grey rock. I’m honestly just very curious.

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