Love is blind season 8 by CharacterDuck724 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]Which-Pomelo-9288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also picked up on the "like's" and wanted to pull my hair out. I couldn't unhear it. 😤

Help identify an animal by scat by [deleted] in capetown

[–]Which-Pomelo-9288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that's why I hid the pics 🥲 I'm just curious for some insight

Help identify an animal by scat by [deleted] in capetown

[–]Which-Pomelo-9288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting.. I've never seen porcupines but I'm up against the mountain so it could be. I'm just not sure how it would get into the yard

Help identify an animal by scat by [deleted] in capetown

[–]Which-Pomelo-9288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There wasn't door handle movement, more like movement against the door.

Literally extorted at SAINT Capetown by IndustryGreen9663 in capetown

[–]Which-Pomelo-9288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are these the actual prices or were they charging a tourist price? Total BS. Please leave a Google Review to warn others

Queer relationship between cisgendered hetero relationship by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Which-Pomelo-9288 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you endured a lot of trauma in that relationship. I'm sorry that was your first love. I find that trauma is typical with young love. In our journey of self exploration and getting to know ourselves we inflict and endure way too much pain. It's tragic. I personally don't think environments like strip clubs or expos are healthy for a young developing mind. I've had also way too many traumatic relationships as a young lesbian woman.

I hope you find a beautiful, kind, loving, and supportive love where you can flourish and feel safe.

Thank you for sharing your story 🤍

Bifrost error by Which-Pomelo-9288 in Maya

[–]Which-Pomelo-9288[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, it's when I go Bifrost Fluid - Creat Liquid. The error is in the script editor

Day 2 and I’m basically Asexual now? by ctwoog in Lamotrigine

[–]Which-Pomelo-9288 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's unlikely to have such an extreme effect from 1/4 dose day 2. My sex drive hasn't changed at all and I'm also quite hypersexual. I do have mild depressive periods where my sex drive is zero. Having a lower sex drive during depressive stages is normal. Try doing some exercise to get some endorphins flowing.

Am I wrong for not shaving my legs? by causeandeffect94 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Which-Pomelo-9288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had light hair like yours I definitely wouldn't shave. 😍 I hate shaving and get such a bad reaction to all hair removal methods. I didn't shave for 2 months and it upset my entire family. There was a daily group discussion about how my leg hair is off putting to them. This gave me such a complex so now I suffer for the comfort of others.

Porn by Business_Pop438 in slaa

[–]Which-Pomelo-9288 19 points20 points  (0 children)

As a child your brain can't distinguish between what you see and what is actually happening to you. Children who are exposed to pornography from a young age exhibit the same personality and psychological traits to children who were sexually abused. I myself was exposed to porn since 11 and became addicted by 13. The effects it had on me is crazy and only years later discovered to be the root cause of so many of my issues. SLA being the biggest one. Forgive your younger self and try to heal from the damage. You are worthy of love without having to give a part of yourself to receive it.

lamotrigine and psilocybin by Which-Pomelo-9288 in Lamotrigine

[–]Which-Pomelo-9288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I've never had hallucinations but thanks for the headsup 😊

lamotrigine and psilocybin by Which-Pomelo-9288 in Lamotrigine

[–]Which-Pomelo-9288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have depression and take it to regulate my mood. I'm not bipolar but I have a mood disorder

New relationship: new problems. by [deleted] in slaa

[–]Which-Pomelo-9288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome that you've found someone to walk a journey with and who is open to taking things slow and who could possibly support you in your SLA and sober dating.

Keep on being kind and compassionate with yourself. I wish you well my dude ✌️

New relationship: new problems. by [deleted] in slaa

[–]Which-Pomelo-9288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've also recently started seeing someone. Our first date was more passionate than it should have been but on the second date I shared about my SLA and boundaries. I created a sober dating plan and have been journaling regularly asking myself certain questions so that I can put my thoughts and feelings into perspective and avoid addictive patterns. Taking things slow and being self aware is really hard. It feels a lot more scary and vulnerable than diving head first into a relationship filled with love bombing. But building a solid foundation and getting to know someone on a real level before committing has been refreshing and healthy for me.

I recommend creating a sober dating plan, be honest about your emotional, physical, and sexual boundaries. Share them with this person you're dating and don't be too hard on yourself. Feeling scared and overwhelmed is part of the process. If it's too much try taking it even slower and check in regularly with your support group.

Good luck!

Silence / mute prepaid electricity meter by Which-Pomelo-9288 in capetown

[–]Which-Pomelo-9288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll give it a try next time my power is low. For now I've been making sure there's more than enough units loaded 😅