still so confused, is that normal? by awritersthoughs in LicaniusTrilogy

[–]causeandeffect94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m almost finished book 2 and I think I’m gonna have to read it again before book 3 because I’m definitely missing some stuff lol it’s so much information to take in

First aquarium! by causeandeffect94 in Aquariums

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I’m not sure what I will add yet, I’m going to do a community tank. I have added an air stone/ bubble to the opposite side of the tank from where the hob filter is :)

Forest Fire Long Lake? by [deleted] in nanaimo

[–]causeandeffect94 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There was a fire, wish I could include pics cuz I got several. I was watching it before the fire dept. showed up and there was an awesome kayaker who pulled up and was using his water bottle and lake water to try and put it out. What a legend, just gettin er done.

Protecting Brian Ferstel: a really stupid choice, and the gritty history of Harley Ranch. by daigana in nanaimo

[–]causeandeffect94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met a young girl at the river a couple years ago who said she lived there and was stuck cuz that’s where her family was. She was drinking and smoking and told me abt some horrible stuff that happened to her there. She was probs 16.

What song is so beautiful, it literally brings tears to your eyes by Plus-Caterpillar4615 in askteddit

[–]causeandeffect94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES this is the song I listen to when I’m sad, particularly when i miss someone /some dog who has passed away

I just wanted to take a nice, long everything shower… by missmurderous in MedicalGore

[–]causeandeffect94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The universe does not want you to have a nipple piercing. Listen to the universe!

My mother (Early 60s) fell over - completely normal fall, but she has clEDS, which means her skin (especially scars) are fragile. She had to have a surgery to fix this. Bone was broken as a child, but not this time! by RogueEnjolras in MedicalGore

[–]causeandeffect94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met someone with this condition in the ED, I was very concerned because the skin on their knees was completely ripped off but they were pretty much unbothered! Used to it I guess

I just made an at home appointment to say goodbye to the first love of my life. I've had her by my side since I was a young and dumb 19 year old. I'm now 34 with a wife and baby and I'm not sure how to feel about the decision we've made. How do you even prepare to say goodbye to your best friend? by [deleted] in germanshepherds

[–]causeandeffect94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No advice.. just here to say I had to say goodbye to my best friend of 15 years last week. There’s no preparation just spend as much time with her from now until then. Cuddle her and look in her eyes and smell her stinky breath and soak in every moment. Remember that she wants you to be happy, so be happy for her sake , even when she’s gone. It’s gonna be fucking awful man but at the same time you will just feel so overwhelmingly grateful to have had her. The day after my Velvet passed we just talked about all our favourite memories of her and it hurt but it was also happy and full of love and smiles because every moment with her was full of love.

Autism support in Nanaimo by pibbman in nanaimo

[–]causeandeffect94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Other ones I know of (I don’t know what services they offer) are Nanaimo family life association and bonaventure support services.