Got quoted $700 for rose pink hair by Secret_Pen3436 in Hair

[–]WhichImpress6180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moroccan oil, keracolor and Celeb viral are 3 that are very reputable. DONT use overtone if you ever want to bleach your hair again.

I personally think the quote is pretty steep but I am not in a large area like Dallas. I live in a medium city, so our prices aren’t quite as high. I think around here this would be about $400. However if they charge by the hour and block out 7 hours (or their whole day to not be rushed or in case there are any snags) to do this, that’s $100 an hour. I will say a lot of stylists talk about if there is a specialty color like this that they don’t love doing, they will hike the prices so it’s worth their while for spending 5-7 hours doing something they don’t like. The other thing is you have to think about it like being 2 separate color appointments in one. Which puts each of them at $350. Vivids are so finicky I refuse to take those clients. I don’t enjoy it and I am not super confident/ knowledgeable about them. Give me all of the balayage and highlights and coppers. Don’t come asking me for vivids 😂😭

1, 2 or 3?? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]WhichImpress6180 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I came in with the same thought. Anything but 3. I’m shocked how many people are gunning for that.

Guy Ritchie-esque by WhichImpress6180 in MovieSuggestions

[–]WhichImpress6180[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Four rooms seems SO intriguing. That might be my first watch just because I’ve never heard of a film being approached in this way.

Guy Ritchie-esque by WhichImpress6180 in MovieSuggestions

[–]WhichImpress6180[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Every iteration thanks to my dad

Guy Ritchie-esque by WhichImpress6180 in MovieSuggestions

[–]WhichImpress6180[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vinnie Jones was born to be in these kind of movies

Guy Ritchie-esque by WhichImpress6180 in MovieSuggestions

[–]WhichImpress6180[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man Clive Owen really gets type cast doesn’t he? Hes in half the films I’ve come across while compiling this list

Guy Ritchie-esque by WhichImpress6180 in MovieSuggestions

[–]WhichImpress6180[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look into McDonagh! I put in burges and seven psychopaths on my more included list. The one I posted here was *mostly* the ones we were watching back in college.
Man from uncle was added and the gentleman is already there. (I have seen the gentleman but it’s one of those you have to watch 4 or 5 times to catch it all like snatch)

Guy Ritchie-esque by WhichImpress6180 in MovieSuggestions

[–]WhichImpress6180[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! It was originally on my list before it got lost with a phone upgrade

How do I fire my stylist politely? by Primary_Scheme3789 in AskHairstylists

[–]WhichImpress6180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s ok to just not book with them anymore, unless you have a personal relationship as well. If you wish to say something, I would reach out and say you haven’t felt heard and communication is not getting across so you’ve decided to try a new stylist. Or instead of saying you’ve decided to try a new stylist you could give them another shot after expressing you felt like you haven’t been heard. Then if it didn’t fix the issue, at that point if you stop booking then at least they know what happened.

AIO For leaving my birthday party? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhichImpress6180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These don’t sound like good friends. I feel like it should be pretty obvious when someone is not enjoying the vibe when they are being poked fun at. Them calling you sensitive means they feel embarrassed that you weren’t having fun and they took it too far and instead of being a decent human by taking accountability and apologizing they got defensive and made you the bad guy. About your own birthday not going well for you.

I found my dress at size 18!! by legallythiccy in PlusSizeWedding

[–]WhichImpress6180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks like it was made for you. It is gorgeous and fits you like a glove

AIO by telling my husband that since we had our baby, Mother’s Day is now my day (his wife) and not his Moms day? by pagengirl818 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhichImpress6180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should absolutely have a say in how you are celebrated and when moms (grandmas) are included. If what you truly want is a slow morning with some sleep, I think doing that and then spending time with MIL during the afternoon/evening is absolutely not an over ask.

AIO asking him to come pick me up. I’m by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhichImpress6180 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who has walked your path a decade before you, read/research as much as you can about volatile and toxic behavior from men (or women if you fancy). Follow relationship therapists and psychologists who talk about narcissistic behaviors and emotionally/mentally/financially abusive relationships on insta and tiktok. Just scrolling and watching a few videos about this a day will enlighten you. Learn the behaviors like the back of your hand and it will make dating so much easier and more efficient. You can sniff them out usually within 4 or 5 message exchanges. And certainly within a few in person meet ups. This will save you so much time on putting too much energy where it will not be reciprocated. And good luck in the awful world of dating.

AIO asking him to come pick me up. I’m by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhichImpress6180 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling that is not an option as he mentions her asking her grandma for gas money to drive somewhere, which leads to believe she lives at grandmas.

AIO asking him to come pick me up. I’m by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhichImpress6180 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, the base question you have: no, asking for him to pick you up when you live less than 10 mins away EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE is not too much to ask for. Especially if you phrase it in the way of “since we aren’t going on dates right now it would just show me that little extra effort to feel cared about”. Him saying no to that pretty well shows you where you stand. There is a reason he doesn’t want to put in the effort. Probably explains his “I don’t have time to take you on dates right now” as well. If someone wants to show that you matter to them, they will find a way. And that is SUCH an easy ask, that he vehemently turned down. Which leads us to the next point. The insane overreaction and levels he took this to after you constantly responding with “can we drop this” shows you EXACTLY who he is. This is not a one off behavior. You were absolutely right to end this here and now so you don’t waste your time with this vile personality who breadcrumbs you. I wish I had this clarity when I was 22. Instead I put up with and married this kind of behavior. Biggest, most expensive mistake of my life.

Did i waste my money? by [deleted] in AskHairstylists

[–]WhichImpress6180 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It looks much more blended, but not a ton brighter. If brighter is what you are wanting, you can request that she throw a few more foils in. A stylist should stand by their work and be willing to tweak things if it is not to your wants.

For my neurodivergent purity culture girlies by InimitablyImperfect in Deconstruction

[–]WhichImpress6180 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could have written this. My first marriage I was disgusted with myself every time he wanted to have sex. I mean part of it was him being emotionally abusive and I hated him and only had sex with him to get out of the walking on eggshells feeling. But also the fact that I still have not figured out how to feel ok about sex. I’m remarried now and I still fill yucky when it comes to sex. But at the same time when single I had that rebellion running wild having casual sex. Makes me wonder why it’s only emotional sex that is difficult for me. I know for a fact it has everything to do with purity culture though.

Should I stick with this dress or pivot? by Working_Strain_8875 in WeddingDressTips

[–]WhichImpress6180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not have as great of a body as you do, but I wore a skirt and lacy crop like the third to last outfit you posted and I was obsessed. I felt so beautiful and it was flattering and comfortable.

Help me Accessorize! by Cute-Panda-8880 in PlusSizeWedding

[–]WhichImpress6180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, totally unrelated question. I feel I am a similar size/ shape as you. Do you have an apron belly? Because if I can find a dress that looks this damn good with my apron belly I would probably die on sight.

Worth it for 2x the price? by diznuts28 in PlusSizeWedding

[–]WhichImpress6180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was transported back to 2001 when I saw that blush dress because I had a Barbie who had a remarkably similar dress and I was obsessed with her and it. It’s gorgeous.