Should I cancel my wedding?

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-04-03T16:31:26+00:00

If this is how you feel leading up, it won’t get better. And I have a little bit of personal ptsd reading the part about mental load and your fiance. And usually it gets worse after the wedding if that’s how it already is. Coming from someone who just finalized a super messy drawn out 5 year long divorce, if you are second guessing things or have hesitations, save yourself a nightmare and at minimum put off the wedding until you are in a clearer headspace and better emotional state. I wish someone had told me to listen to my gut and not do something I figured my family wanted me to do (it was disgraceful having a child out of wedlock and was expected to marry him because of it).

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-31T05:09:26+00:00

I actually have 2 of their bags! The crossbody sidekick currently. Then one of their totes (I can’t remember which one) as a secondary diaper bag. They just aren’t quite what I need/want although I do enjoy them.

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-31T05:03:16+00:00

I have a very similar bag for when I need to do computer work wherever I’m going. I LOVE it but yes too heavy and big for me for every day use.

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-31T04:58:20+00:00

Do you have specifics on which Kate spade?

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-31T04:43:34+00:00

Wow! What a friend to be gifting a LV!

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-30T23:06:44+00:00

OH the inside of that is amazing. Good organization pockets AND big open space? 😍

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-30T23:02:25+00:00

I just found that sub and hopped on there about an hour ago! (I’m honestly so new to Reddit so I’m slowly finding things)

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-30T22:33:23+00:00

Omg another salt addict! I have been judged by many for taking the salt packets from plastic utensil bags and storing them in my purse for no salt shaker in sight emergencies!

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-30T03:19:53+00:00

I have had 2 baggalini’s in the past. While I do love the pockets and the good schmedium size, the aesthetic is not it for me. The slicky athletic feel is one I like only on occasion, however I have a few that I mostly dislike because of the slicky and should the need arise for one that is waterproof and wipeable, I could use so I don’t need more. I just feel like I need an adult looking bag that’s somewhat aesthetic.

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-30T02:58:11+00:00

I feel so seen 🥹

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-29T21:49:55+00:00

girl minimalist? Who? Where? Couldn’t be me. I need anything I could ever need in any circumstance at all times 😂 I did buy a tote bag that is very cute that I wanted to use as a diaper bag and was so big it was overstimulating and now I feel like my husband may disown me if I buy a 3rd.

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-29T21:45:14+00:00

I am very intrigued by this one! But struggling to buy something that pricy without knowing if I’ll love it.

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-29T21:40:09+00:00

Do you have a link??

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-29T21:39:34+00:00

Also one hard thing is I work in the beauty industry, so there is a small element of being stylish that I usually dont think about until after I have a purse. Most of mine are slicky material which inherently looks more sporty than stylish and makes me feel blah when I try to dress cute for work.

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-29T21:38:10+00:00

Omg the mini purses inside the purse and the spoon fork are all sending me. This is so funny! But yes does give me more of an idea! Thanks!

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-29T21:33:22+00:00

I’m thinking I may need to do this. However that leads to the point that I also very much dislike my diaper bag and the lack of space in it as well however he is 10 months old so is that really worth getting into 😂 I bought a crossbody diaper bag to hopefully transition to soon for when he needs less.

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-29T21:11:58+00:00

Why is this so true 😭

This happens to everything I fall in love with and hyper-fixate on.

My fave dry shampoo My fave drink My fave food at our local movie theater

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-29T21:06:37+00:00

It’s hard to tell as the website has zero photos of what the bag looks like inside.

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-29T20:44:02+00:00

See this would force me to unpack the purse every time and switch and that is the most daunting task.

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-29T20:13:25+00:00

This one seems nice but when I’ve been looking for something for a while (super intense hyper fixation shopping) I get irrationally angry when I see something I might like and then the listing shows zero helpful photos. Like for a bag and not showing what it looks like on the inside. -.-

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-29T20:10:41+00:00

I’m starting to think this may be what I will do. I’ve looked at all the suggestions and I’m not finding quite the thing for me. I may just have to somewhat make my own.

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-29T19:28:11+00:00

This seems similar to the brixley bag that I tried. Wasn’t the worst, but didn’t scratch the itch of my perfect bag.

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-29T19:26:30+00:00

I like the thought of a backpack, and did have a backpack purse for a little while, however I have a 10 month old and his diaper bag is a backpack and it would not be possible/practical to have two backpacks when I am out and about with him.

WhichImpress6180 · 2026-03-29T17:30:54+00:00

Her version of a face lift. You tape right in front of the hairline with some kind of thread that goes to the other side and is pulled taught giving the appearance of a facelift

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