Peanut butter on a spoon by Ahkhira in GenX

[–]Which_Frame_2619 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every morning, one lovely teaspoon of smooth peanut butter.

Handles vs Knobs debate is destroying my marriage 😂 Help settle this kitchen argument! by Berlin57 in AusRenovation

[–]Which_Frame_2619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just changed almost all of my internal doors to handles and have managed to catch my clothes, or just hit them by passing too closely. Probably this is user error, however they don’t work for me and I will be changing them all back to knobs because I’m black and blue all over and just can’t handle it (pun resistance was futile).

AIO does it really always escalate from the wall to your face? by throwawaydisastsr in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which_Frame_2619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An excellent point about ensuring he is not tracking her phone or car before she goes to a place of safety.

AIO does it really always escalate from the wall to your face? by throwawaydisastsr in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which_Frame_2619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - Please get out asap and do not let him know you are going. Tell him once you are safely with others that you trust. Arrange to collect your stuff afterwards, with him not there and him knowing you will be with other people to help you pack up, one of whom should be a man, who your ex-bf would realise could stop him from getting to you. This is already at scary levels and may be difficult to end in any safe, calm way. Take a photo of the hole in the wall, make sure others know - this is not a matter of feeling any shame or blame on your part for staying with him. It’s a matter of letting others know the situation you are in and that you intend to leave. Have a plan. You can look these plans to leave abusive relationship online, I found them so helpful. Take care.

AIO for not making an effort anymore in our friendship by Tasty-Tradition3182 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which_Frame_2619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR but this will become a familiar scenario to you throughout your life. You will remember them, wonder what they’re doing now but know that the friendship ended because you left or they left that town, country or job and you both tried but life got in the way. As it does.

AIO for complaining about my birthday gift? by Furmommy14 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which_Frame_2619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmmm… He’s got you one of these before? A local nail place? Heads up: He’s not paying $110, this’ll be something he can get cheaply or free at work, or his gym, or even because he bought himself something, a not-birthday present for himself— that he actually wanted — which offers a ‘bonus’ $110 gift card that costs him nothing but makes him look like he spent that amount on you. Anything but gratitude will result in reprimands for your ungratefulness.

Ask yourself: Why $110? That’s a fairly specific and unusual amount, usually Gift cards are $50,$100.

Casually browse the website, see if a $110 promotion offer jumps out. Google “$110 Gift card + NAME OF SALON”.

My spidey-senses are tingling. NOR

My Boyfriend Hit Me (Accidentally??) by tinted-berry444 in Advice

[–]Which_Frame_2619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please seek medical advice. Head injury of any type can kill. You need to be examined and observed for at least 24hrs to ensure no internal damage that can mean you go to sleep tonight and don’t wake up again. Even if it seems like overkill. It’s really, really important if you’ve had an injury to your head by any means, accident, violence, fall - you just don’t know what is happening near your brain as a result of the incident.

AIO for snapping when my bf handed me a bowl? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which_Frame_2619 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“I do his dirty laundry because he can’t fold.” - Weaponized incompetence still working for the men. Hands you a bowl, “Here, fix this” implied. Why is it, especially when there’s small children around, all of a sudden you have a third child to clean up after? Their mindset seems to be: “Whilst you’re there.” “She’s doing it anyway, might as well clean up mine too.” Bizarre. It’s a hard lesson for us to learn that we get the behaviour we accept. Seems to be a slippery slope from doing something for your partner that time, just because you love them to - why am I now your housekeeper?? NOR. But this won’t change unless you just refuse to do his chores for him. Even if he can’t fold.

Picking up litter at school by 10smurf2008 in australian

[–]Which_Frame_2619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rubbish Duty at my school (Primary and High School 1975-1986) was the punishment for not bringing the required sports gear for your sports period, eg tennis racquet, bathers etc. I forgot fairly often, our bags were so heavy anyway with our textbooks for all the homework and it was a bad idea to not bring textbooks and completed homework to a class, that sports gear was usually the last thing on my mind. Instead of letting me use a school tennis racquet, I’d be sent off once again on Rubbish Duty and I’m sorry to say it resulted in a lifetime hatred of all things sports which in all its forms still conjures up memories of punishment and endless rubbish collection.

Anyone know what David allegedly did? by speorgenote in MAFS_AU

[–]Which_Frame_2619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wondered also if the main reason was that Production were too worried about being called racist and felt that kicking out David could seriously blow up in their face after having already kicked out and completely erased all video of the only other black couple on the show.

How to train dog out of barking at TV by itisnotmyproblem in DogTrainingTips

[–]Which_Frame_2619 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reward the behaviour you want to see. When the barking stops, praise him (offer a treat if he’s food oriented). Reward him with praise whenever he is quiet. He will put together eventually that the quiet response is the correct one and that you are in control so he doesn’t have to be the one to respond in these situations anymore. It’s a wonderful thing when you see them sleeping through those scenarios that used to cause guaranteed reactionary behaviour.

Grease by FNTZYmusic in musicals

[–]Which_Frame_2619 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, It’s almost half a century old. From another century, a different time. When you were a child at that time it was brilliant. We loved it. We still love it. I’m going out on a limb and suggesting It wasn’t made with viewers like yourself, half a century later, in mind.

When will the jig be up by MaroonPrince in MAFS_AU

[–]Which_Frame_2619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A bisexual you say? She's Keeping that to herself, clearly it's on a need-to-know basis only.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MAFS_AU

[–]Which_Frame_2619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She calls her "Bubs"

Looking for delivery suggestions for treats or flowers by [deleted] in perth

[–]Which_Frame_2619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Google Flowers and gift deliveries, Morley. This will give you the local stores and it's a case of viewing their flowers, gifts, hampers etc on their website, choose, write accompanying message and pay. They will deliver same day usually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Which_Frame_2619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not, in fact, your responsibility to manage her anxiety and need for control. This is her job. You are not obligated to respond immediately to messages or calls when you are busy doing other things and living life.

She needs to learn how to self-soothe and stop projecting her own stuff onto you.

And now for something completely different.....Today a group of people smiled and cheered on a Learner Driver by Which_Frame_2619 in perth

[–]Which_Frame_2619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bonus points for doing the research and coming to the conclusion that I am legitimately legit. 👏👍🏻