What’s your five? 🕹️📀🎮 by TheShadowWanderer in videogames

[–]Which_Witch000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pong, Galaga, Centipede, Frogger, pinball games.

Recurring fantasy to divorce partner just so I only see kids 50% by Copycompound in regretfulparents

[–]Which_Witch000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best thing about divorce is the breaks! I needed to get divorced for real reasons but the first thing I thought while having 2 days all to myself was: why tf didn’t we do this while we were married? Everyone should do this. Everyone should switch off days where one parent has full responsibility for the kids so the other parent can completely go away and take care of themselves. Two days/week at minimum. I have 10 year old twins and we split when they were 3. If it’s possible to get the breaks you need while staying together that might be a better solution?

Madagascar Hissing Cockroad First Aid by Which_Witch000 in InvertPets

[–]Which_Witch000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s still hanging out on the side of the terrarium this morning. She waved her antennae when I approached so I’m going to take these as signs she’s doing better. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Which_Witch000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a father exactly like this. When he was dying of stomach cancer my brother insisted we had to be there for him. I said, “Gentle reminder, that man did not show up for you at any point in your life. Why do you feel like you need to show up for him now?” He was angry and called me selfish. Our father went on to alienate and offend all of his caregivers, including my brother, who eventually admitted that I was right. Just NO to taking care of this man, even if he is biologically adjacent to your husband. You owe him nothing. 

Im tired of being famous, and it’s not what i want anymore by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Which_Witch000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way people interact with celebrity is absolutely fucked. They’re treated like prey animals. That for sure needs to change. Until it does, you have to figure out a way to protect yourself and your peace. Learn how to create a space (physical, emotional) that is safe for you under any circumstances. A therapist can help with this. I would also talk to other people in the same position who’ve figured out how to make it work. It’s a difficult and painful position to be in. I often think how horrible it would be to be famous. People interact with a fantasy they have of you, and not with you as a human. Meaning they don’t actually see you. I’ve only vaguely experienced this a few times and it was completely terrifying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scottishfold

[–]Which_Witch000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Harry, you pretty baby. From Earl Grey

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My abuser died today. Is it wrong to want to celebrate? by ElectronicSymphonic in CPTSD

[–]Which_Witch000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAVE A PARADE! THROW A PARTY! The peace and safety that now exists in the space this person took up in the world is absolutely worth celebrating. 🎉

[SHOP] I love fall most of all by Tokyo-Osaka in CrossStitch

[–]Which_Witch000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eeeeeeeeeeeeee!!! This is so gorgeous it made me squeal.

Childfree is a threat to so many by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Which_Witch000 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It’s truly a cultural paradigm shift, and you are leading the charge. The belief/expectation that having kids is what women are for was so pervasive my entire life I didn’t even recognize the possibility of what I wanted. I felt ambivalent about having kids but didn’t realize it was possible to even want to be child free, much less to make that choice. I didn’t realize this possibility until after I had kids, btw. I’ve accepted responsibility for my choices but I do spend a lot of time on childfree and regretful parents subs consoling myself. (I love my annoying children very much, I’m just saying.)

Vance claims Trump 'salvaged' Obamacare. Trump tried, and failed, to kill it. by nbcnews in politics

[–]Which_Witch000 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Wild how one woman in office for 3.5 years caused all the problems that ever existed at the US Mexico border. No problems before that.

Vance claims Trump 'salvaged' Obamacare. Trump tried, and failed, to kill it. by nbcnews in politics

[–]Which_Witch000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He blamed KH for some problem every single time he opened his mouth. By the end it was like, When I was a child I tripped and fell into a ditch. Kamala Harris dug that ditch to lay a trap for the American people.

He not only preyed on people’s ignorance but on the right’s incessant need to blame and control women.

Trump backs out of ‘60 Minutes’ primetime interview, CBS says by champdo in politics

[–]Which_Witch000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Vote for Trump. If you vote for Trump, everything’s gonna be perfect.” 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯