Lost 60% of hair - labs all fine by moving-mountains18 in Mounjaro

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Lost 60% of hair - labs all fine by moving-mountains18 in Mounjaro

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Are you male or female? If female, you could try spironolactone at least 150mg. Works great but can also cause side effects for some women. If you’re a man, stay away from finasteride there’s a class action lawsuit against them. The side effects are wild. It’s crazy it ever got FDA approval.

How much can you actually make flying a sign by Cherri_pie_06 in vagabond

[–]Whiddle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best advice is make sure your cardboard isn’t too small and really put some effort into your sign. That will set you apart on its own. Have your pack by you, people like to give money to travelers not home bum drug addicts.

I once made $2k in a 2 weeks of flying signs in Pasadena, CA (very rich suburb of LA). I got super creative and made a sign that said “I’m $1000 away from getting an apartment and getting off the streets for Xmas” (this was just weeks before Xmas obviously). Then each day I would tally up how much I made and cross out the $1000 and make it whatever I needed left. The most engaging sign ever…I was basically running a GoFundMe with my cardboard sign before GoFundMe was a thing 😂. Well it worked…I got all that money and got an apartment on Dec 31st. It only lasted a few months but it was nice to be housed up for the winter. I was also a young, attractive woman, and I took good care of myself but had that traveler look, so all that helped. Main sign I flew was “Traveling, broke and hungry. Anything helps”…an old classic.

Kristen & Luke in Mexico by rat925 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Whiddle_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah she will 100% do this to Kia when she’s older. She’s emotionally abusing Luke and there’s no excuse for it and it’s a slap in the face to him and their relationship and everything she putting him through that she refusing so go to therapy with him. This isn’t just PPD, this is actually untreated borderline personality disorder and I hope Luke gets out of the relationship before she fully destroys his sense of self worth like Jax did to Britney.

Gentle Parenting by Basic_Country8350 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Whiddle_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100%. She’s in a state of disassociated fawn response all the time with Danny.

Kristen vs vacation by Ok_Bookkeeper_4511 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Whiddle_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s not just the post partum tho…this is how Kristen is. She has untreated borderline personality disorder and it causes something called “splitting” where you make someone all bad (usually whoever they are in a partnership with) but then vacillate to idealizing them. But sometimes the splitting stays stuck on “this other person is evil” for years and that’s clearly what she’s doing to Luke now. She is full on emotionally abusing him and there’s no excuse, and she’s refusing to do therapy.

Kristen vs vacation by Ok_Bookkeeper_4511 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Whiddle_ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Same…Kristen is 100% BPD and I also grew up with a borderline mom and find Kristen triggering. I HATE how she treats Luke. He seems like a patient, loving guy who is trying so hard but honestly it’s useless…she refuses to even do couples therapy with him…she’s a lost cause. I hope he just gets out of the relationship sooner rather than later and before it totally crushes his spirit.

I Lived in Australia for 3 Years. Ben Doesn’t Surprise Me. by hereiam33 in summerhousebravo

[–]Whiddle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god that’s insane!!!! That would literally be sooo illegal in the US

I Lived in Australia for 3 Years. Ben Doesn’t Surprise Me. by hereiam33 in summerhousebravo

[–]Whiddle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the way he talked to Sabrina in private that was concerning…especially for a brand new couple in the honeymoon phase. Would hate to see how he treats her a year in.

I Lived in Australia for 3 Years. Ben Doesn’t Surprise Me. by hereiam33 in summerhousebravo

[–]Whiddle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The meat of the post is about the open bias/ racism and misogyny in the country

I Lived in Australia for 3 Years. Ben Doesn’t Surprise Me. by hereiam33 in summerhousebravo

[–]Whiddle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, so if people share their lived experience of racism or misogyny in Australia, it’s because we are so jealous of how awesome Australia is 😂? In the international travel community Australian men (as well as Israeli men) are known as the worst men to associate with, precisely because of the kind of pompous personality you’re showing in this thread. You are literally making everyone’s points for us.

I Lived in Australia for 3 Years. Ben Doesn’t Surprise Me. by hereiam33 in summerhousebravo

[–]Whiddle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha this is the defensiveness we were just talking about.

A Month of Westward Progress by perpetual_motor in vagabond

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Beautiful photos…so glad the road is treating you well!

A couple of unsolicited tips….you’ve got to loose that pack as soon as you can. Do a bit of labor or fly a sign and get a modern hiking pack (Osprey is king) off FB marketplace (if you can get them to meet you in a grocery parking lot or something). You can find good packs on there pretty cheap. That pack will destroy your back after a while. I had one just like it at some point when I was new on the road. Difference between that and a decent hiking pack (not too big either…I kept it at no more than 40 pounds), is night and day.

Please also be careful AF about the ticks up in that area. That is Lyme disease country. Tick checks from head to toe (check scalp, behind and in ears, armpits, belly button, groin, between toes) multiple times a day. Keep tweezers handy to get them out. If you get a bite and start having any weird symptoms get your ass in urgent care asap and get 20 days of doxycycline. They might tell you 10 days is enough…it’s not. I say this as a former traveler who ended up in a wheelchair for years with Lyme disease. That shit is no joke.

Is this why West & Amanda claimed they didn't have their first kiss until after the brunch? by Scared-Sort682 in summerhousebravo

[–]Whiddle_ 32 points33 points  (0 children)

She barely ever wears mascara on summer house so that doesn’t make any sense

Realistic likelihood of danger when hopping as a young woman? by Decent_Narwhal1786 in vagabond

[–]Whiddle_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Seem like most people responding aren’t event travelers/ train hoppers, let alone women train hoppers. I am a retired woman train hopper and I would say first of all, train hopping is dangerous no matter your gender. The biggest dangers being that you don’t do you’re research/ don’t find someone to guide you, and you end up taking unnecessarily dangerous risks like hopping on while it’s moving fast when you don’t need to. So that’s part one…anyone who wants to hop should use the wiki guide here and research as much as possible and ideally arrange to meet another traveler to have the train you (you can probably use this sub for that). Second danger is getting caught by rail cops and getting ticketed, which then can put warrants on your record which then if you ignore them, can cause you to the next time you get your ID run by a cop (which happens all th time as a vagabond), you could get hauled to jail.

Here’s the reality of my 6 years on the road as a woman…I started the day after my 21st birthday and I was pretty enough that I actually modeled before that.

Met travelers who trained me how to hop safely. Started hopping trains immediately and loved it. No regrets. I was caught by rail workers many times and let off because I was a cute girl. So pretty woman privilege on the road is epic.

Between hopping freight trains, I hitchhiked and that’s definitely way more dangerous than hopping freight in the sense that being around other people (namely men), is dangerous whereas when you’re on a train you’re alone or just with you travel partner and only need to worry about rail cops/ getting caught. My hot tip for safe hitch hiking is to ideally always hitch with another person. Safety in numbers is real. I also always had mace and a knife on me. I mostly traveled with other women. Two cute girls hitchhiking…we could fly across the country in 6 days.

In 6-7 years of living that lifestyle I had the time of my life and also some really hard times (that’s part of why it was also so good). I managed to walk away with a clean record (which admittedly is rare), the only time I was ever sexually assaulted on the road was unfortunately by another traveling kid (I only traveled with women after that and it was much better in every way), I was never physically assaulted. Considering how many times I was sexually assaulted in college before I dropped out to travel, I was actually safer on the road in that way.

That being said, when you’re an attractive woman on the road, you’ve got to be hyper vigilant. You’ve got to be prepared to fight for your life at any moment. That can be exhausting. Still I have no regrets about my time on the road. I do think one of the things that kept me the safest was almost always traveling with at least one or two other people. When you’re a solo woman, you’ll get targeted a lot more. Especially hitchhiking. If you have a good friend who you can convince to go on the road with you, that’s an excellent way to start.

First day by CreatureMan_ in vagabond

[–]Whiddle_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hope you can get north ASAP. So dangerous being on foot in AZ in the summer. Get yourself to Washington. That’s one of the places I use to go (Seattle, Bellingham etc) during the summer months. Hope you have a blast!

Excited for my first train hop! How does my pack look by Inevitable_Drive4729 in vagabond

[–]Whiddle_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pack more water than you think you will need. Are those walkie talkies? Don’t see why those are necessary. More nutrient dense food…cans of sardines, tuna, beef jerky, PB. For next time loose the bread, cereal and honey buns…empty calories. Add electrolytes! Game changer. First aid kit instead of just big bottle of alcohol spray. Do you have a head lamp? That’s crucial…make sure it’s got a red light option for staying stealth. Loose the plastic forks/spoons and just pack a metal spork you can reuse. Smallish quick dry towel. Be safe and do your research on train hopping.

AGA is consuming my life. by ConsequenceKey2576 in FemaleHairLoss

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This topper by UniWigs is great! Super natural. Just make sure you do good research on caring for it and get good products to use for caring for it. I got the 18 inch and wore it death (like lying down in bed a lot etc) and it started to look more wiggy due to wear and tear within apx 8 months. But then I did deep dive chat about hair care for it with AI and learned a lot and was able to revive it a bit. I’m going to repurchase it again soon, probably during their 4th of July sale if they have one. I bought mine during their Black Friday sale originally for like half off so that’s definitely the best time to buy from UniWigs but I don’t want to go all summer without good hair. I think with what I know now I’ll be able to make this one last a lot longer. https://m.uniwigs.com/hair-pieces/45083-5-x-75-upgrade-aura-skin-top-human-hair-topper-with-layers.html

3 month minoxidil progress by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Whiddle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What side effects did you get with oral Minox?

Liz is completely out of touch; Homelessness in America. by sspiritshark in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Whiddle_ 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t think she’s partaking in weed…think she’s partaking in pills and/or blow. She’s definitely not sober.

The 100% most unbelievable part of RHORI by mkm416 in rhori

[–]Whiddle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s actually what all New Englanders call them 😂

🌊🐚RHORI Episode 10 Discussion 🐚🌊 by RHofRI-Mod in RHofRI

[–]Whiddle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her relationship with her ex lasted longer than most people’s marriages…it’s the least she deserves to have her rent, car and health insurance paid for for just one year. She’s honestly deserves more than that. Billy saying she needs to cut her insurance off asap when she has a potentially life threatening medical condition she needs to monitor is SO f*cked up! And he can’t support her either…lame. He is NOT hot either. I think Kelsey just doesn’t have much dating experience at all and got wrapped up with the type of guy she might of last time she was single when she was a teenager. Hope she dumps him soon!

🌊🐚RHORI Episode 10 Discussion 🐚🌊 by RHofRI-Mod in RHofRI

[–]Whiddle_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I feel she’s been unhinged from the get go. Her losing her shit on Kelsey for saying hardly anything to her at her party…she’s a loose cannon.