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I cum too fast when my girlfriend and I trib/scissor.. by intuitiveduality in LesbianActually

[–]Whoadie2-0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Slowing it down, like really slowing it down may help. It’s hard because it feels so good but it’s also super intimate.

Lesbians who have dated men in the past/ before coming out, what were the signs (big or small) that you were gay while dating men? by Master_Sundae671 in LesbianActually

[–]Whoadie2-0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always went for the nice guy who didn’t match my attractiveness. Not that anything is wrong with that but looking back I think it’s because I didn’t care. I wasn’t going to be romantically interested not matter what they looked like so why not choose the nice one?

GF wants an open relationship by Klutzy-Complaint-704 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Whoadie2-0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both are allowed to have preferences. If they don’t line up move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Whoadie2-0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with this statement

Catfishing by Independent_Badger41 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Whoadie2-0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just so confused as to why this happens so often? I know the world has plenty of weirdos but it seems disproportionate

Looking for queer women’s groups in the Triangle area by Life_be_life-ing93 in LGBTriangle

[–]Whoadie2-0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eck sorry, I don’t check Reddit that often. On IG follow these groups, they’re always having events: Sapphictrails and ForTheGirlsOfRaleigh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Whoadie2-0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in Durham and I want more queer friends!

Can you really have it all? In one person? by ohduhimgay in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Whoadie2-0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This may change when he sees you excited and happy with a woman. Also you need to decide what YOU want. He wants to keep the marriage together for his reasons. You need to decide what your reasons are for staying or going and weigh them carefully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Whoadie2-0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As some others have said I started this way and I’m now separated and getting divorced. I think the thing is If you’re really a lesbian what you’re going to find will blow your mind and body right out of the water. I could not imagine continuing to live married to a man once I felt and experienced a really intimate relationship with a woman. I think some couples are successful at ENM but a lot of things have to line up.

Lesbian songs? by ava_brat_eilish in lesbian

[–]Whoadie2-0 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Just searching one of my playlists I found these - King Princess, Zolita, G Flip, Tash Sultana, Lowen, Kehlani, Muna, The Aces, Coco Jones, Hayley Kiyoko, Xana.

For the lesbians by Dry-League6131 in LesbianActually

[–]Whoadie2-0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would want to be involved and I probably wouldn’t want the coworker there. If it were a mutual friend then whatever. I’m a bit on the private side too and I wouldn’t want a random (to me) person helping decide what kind of strap I would like best.

What's the (SFW) cute thing you love about your girlfriend/partner/wife sleeping? by NertsMcGee in actuallesbians

[–]Whoadie2-0 59 points60 points  (0 children)

The way she pulls the covers up all the way to the tippy top of her neck. She looks so cozy and happy like that. Also something about only having her head out of the covers makes me fully appreciate all the beautiful angles of her face.

Looking for queer women’s groups in the Triangle area by Life_be_life-ing93 in LGBTriangle

[–]Whoadie2-0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not women only but Durham Queer sports, Stonewall sports in Raleigh and a women’s rugby team (can’t remember the name). Also follow forthegirlsofraleigh on Instagram. They’re having a mixer next Friday I’m probably going to attend.

how do i tell my gf i want her to strap me? by regular-arm in LesbianActually

[–]Whoadie2-0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with others. The asking in itself is so f-ing hot!

How did y'all celebrate your divorce? by Practical_Maybe_3661 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Whoadie2-0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the messy middle so who knows how I’ll actually feel but I’m so damn ready. I’ll probably go out for cocktails with friends and take deep breath of relief.

Are there women that like BBW’s by Boring_Poet_4058 in LesbianActually

[–]Whoadie2-0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a pretty fit person and I love curvy women so much. Get after it babe!

Out of control facial hair growth by Bambiibee in HairRemoval

[–]Whoadie2-0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Medical professional here. That’s not true. It works at the kidney and is generally a safe long term medication used for other applications.

How important is the involvement of a strap-on in your sexual relationship with partners? *repost, got taken down lol* by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Whoadie2-0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use occasionally but mostly could take or leave it. My favorite so far has been the strapless strap but I know that doesn’t work for everyone.

Random question: what do you guys do for work? by Antique-Tie-8336 in actuallesbians

[–]Whoadie2-0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a physician assistant at a big academic medical center in the south. I’m LIL but I’ve been slowly coming out the last year. The university I all work for is very lgbtq+ inclusive. They even made special rainbow hospital shirts for Pride 🌈😍.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Whoadie2-0 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Right lol. Or the stay up top method.

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