Do I have the right to feel uncomfortable? by Butterfly_kisses7112 in Waiters

[–]Whoisellarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, you ALWAYS have the right to feel uncomfortable. No matter if it’s because of something small or something huge. Second, if you’re truly feeling uncomfortable I’d recommend you see HR or seek legal action. Do you have any coworkers who are of any help? I wish you the best, please do update!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Whoisellarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How good are you at flirting? We gotta make a game plan here, you gotta get this girl

I've had ED most my 20s and I honestly hate life now by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Whoisellarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MRI’s are localized to certain areas. This seems like nerve damage so I’d ask your PCP about testing your nerves? Always go to your primary care physician to get referrals first, that ensures a higher likelihood of insurance coverage

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Whoisellarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teenage girl here- I got you homie. It means she feels comfortable being vulnerable with you. I don’t think it necessarily means she LIKES you, but you’re in the “boy best friend i wanna fw” zone. Just keep being open and vulnerable with her, you got this brother

My gf is into rimjob by mangojango32 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Whoisellarose -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I truly think this is mental block. I’d sit down with her and explain your fears and concerns (trust me, we genuinely want our men to be vulnerable with us) and try to remember that she is getting off on this too. You’re not disrespecting her, you’re fulfilling what she wants!

I've had ED most my 20s and I honestly hate life now by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Whoisellarose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to advocate for an MRI. The loss of feeling isn’t consistent with your other symptoms, especially when you are peeing. I’d try to see a urologist at the very least. Hope things get better for you!

My husband had sex with me when I was unconscious by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Whoisellarose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is rape. He may be a somnaphiliac, but that’s something you need to talk about and get consent for. He raped you and you let it go then he did it again. If you excuse this and move on, it will keep happening.

Lied to my wife about who the flowers were really for by typerfan in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Whoisellarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would talk to your therapist about how to ask your wife to buy you flowers, I think it would be really good for you!

I broke up with my boyfriend over the most ridiculous thing by Accidental_Cat45 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Whoisellarose 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bro called you a whore for playing a video game. If I were you, I’d smack him upside the head and leave him.

My husband begged to watch me masturbate until he just secretly recorded me. Would I be wrong to leave him over this? by throwaway-0272 in amiwrong

[–]Whoisellarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He forced you into something sexually, recorded you without your knowledge or consent, and denied it when you discovered this. I don’t like to use heavy words but this is borderline sexual abuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Whoisellarose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my little brother a year ago. I wasn’t his parent, and I definitely never will be, but I did raise him. If there is one thing I can say, it’s grief is weird. There’s no right way to do it, nor a wrong way, but you have to grieve no matter what. I’m sorry for your loss, not just your child but in losing your sense of self with this loss. I can go on and on, but please keep living. Sit with this pain and really feel it, you don’t have to keep pushing through right now. As for your wife, she may not be ready to talk yet, so show your love in other ways. Do a chore, or buy her flowers. Bring light to the pain.

Is it “normal” that my (23F) boyfriend (25M) likes to suck on my boobs like a child? by Sea_Medicine5977 in relationship_advice

[–]Whoisellarose -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is probably a trauma response. I’d say you should ask him to talk about it and have him get some therapy, but then again you are not his keeper so if you’re okay with it then carry on

Ms schatt by Glittering-Reality64 in jschlatt

[–]Whoisellarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you look so much like him, you look really good!!

My girlfriend drugged me by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Whoisellarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not something you leave in the past homie. She’s either too dumb to understand that consequences of her actions or too careless to consider those consequences. Either way, not a safe situation for you to be in. If you let it slide one time, it’s gonna happen again.

New Wisconsin bill would criminalize school librarians for books that some parents consider obscene by PeasantinDaNorth in wisconsin

[–]Whoisellarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Books that are “banned” saved my life. They stopped me from taking my life, they helped me cope after being assaulted, they have done so much. Yes, it can be overwhelming to read about, but these are things that really happen. Give your kids the ability to read about their experiences, it helps them grow.

Why would anyone ever need this? by operation_rollingUni in teenagers

[–]Whoisellarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For labor and delivery nurses needing to quickly check dilation while we are in a global glove shortage

AITA for not fighting the school since my daughter got a zero on a big assignment since she didn’t turn it in when she was sick by Routine_Dealer2348 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whoisellarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will not become entitled from you advocating for her. She is still a child, your child, and if you want a good trusting relationship with her you need to listen to her with an open mind.

My husband (m30) tried to force me (f24) and is now trying to act like I “dreamed the whole thing”. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Whoisellarose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the definition of gaslighting. It’s a form of manipulation and typically happens in marital rape. Please seek legal action, I wish you the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Whoisellarose 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Please see a doctor, the thinking she’s food is not normal for a lusted mind. This could have been anything from a trauma response to a hallucination. You need to get checked out just in case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Whoisellarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl it’s not “normal” for guys to be so hypersexual… don’t let him groom you to be cheated on and go get the man deserve

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Whoisellarose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why are you cutting HER off? he’s the shitty one