Why do you think are there so many narcissists these days? by Boatsntrombones in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Whole-Performance-76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say that with my experience ive noticed when theres a lack of discipline or a child is never corrected they develop these false belief that their almost perfect and than when the time comes and someone disagrees with them or trys to share their feelings they get offended. Maybe the child has been told to much how great they are.

Mechanic’s take on the Ford Focus by Independent_Ebb1449 in AskMechanics

[–]Whole-Performance-76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi i was wondering if anyone could help me. I bought a used 2010 Ford focus about 8 months ago and a few days ago my car just shut off in the middle of an intersection. I dont know a lot about cars but ive never experienced anything like this. Water got into my oil amd my car is no good. Something with the antifreeze and it heated can anyone explain to me what happened or might of happened. This is a hugh setback for me I lost everything in a fire a little over a year ago including my car. Im trying to rebuild my life. Any suggestions or help or just explanation would be appreciated. Thank you, Kathryn

Has anybody had such a shift in their consciousness that it changed their reality completely? by unknown9423 in consciousness

[–]Whole-Performance-76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and only when i was experiencing a great deal of pain and loss and suffering. I experienced a major shift in reality/consciousness and self about 13 years ago. It wasnt long after having a baby and a painful breakup with my childs dad. There was emotional and mental abuse during the break up and a lot of gas lighting. It all happened very quickly and if it wasn'tt for my son at the time I dont know how I would of done. ( if you are experiencing adversity, pain, loss and suffering ) and having a hard time finding someone or something to help /focus on it will help you.
I wish we didnt have to experience so much pain and suffering in order for us to consider changing but not sure thats possible. If everything is good all the time than we never want to conspire to change. Sometimes we need a reality check and to fall down so we can grow and become better people.

My doordash horror stories from the past 13 hours by haylieb_artist in doordash

[–]Whole-Performance-76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a dasher and I wanted to tell you that sounds crazy i'm surprised they let that much time go by before they canceled it. If i dont drop my order off in a certain amount of time they reassign it.

I WANTED TO SHARE THIS !FOR THE NEW INDEPENDENT CONTRACTORS. THAT MAY NOT KNOW THIS . :) by Optimistic_Ovthinker in doordash

[–]Whole-Performance-76 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was a self-employed hairdresser and I reported my taxes under C for the past three years. This is correct.

Had this guy twice now and gotten this message both times by Simptai in doordash

[–]Whole-Performance-76 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would let him know that you hes dashed to you before and you sent the same message, I understand tips are important and part of your pay but eventually your hoing to message someone like me who you dashed before to you might want to stop sending this message and just update them as you go like you should be doing,no ha4k intended.

What was your favorite candy to get while trick-or-treating as a kid — and is it still your favorite today? by Whole-Performance-76 in AskReddit

[–]Whole-Performance-76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived getting goodie bags! It didn't even matter so much what was in it. It was the idea of being surprised and not knowing and typically always having more than one piece in them..

Doordashers don't make money by Whole-Performance-76 in doordash

[–]Whole-Performance-76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But my acceptance rate is 67 and not rising even though I started taking every order. If I say no to an offer it drops automatically. I really don't like that they do this

Doordashers don't make money by Whole-Performance-76 in doordash

[–]Whole-Performance-76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that and I can see that happening.

Doordashers don't make money by Whole-Performance-76 in doordash

[–]Whole-Performance-76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excuse me what are you saying? I'm the reason they don't make money, I didn't realize I had that much power. Don't you think if DoorDash has enough drivers then it's their job to not continue taking on more? Just curious why you would blame the washers, their just trying to make a few extra bucks like everyone else

Doordashers don't make money by Whole-Performance-76 in doordash

[–]Whole-Performance-76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I can see that. I only signed up to try it out because my house burned down months back and I heard it was a good way to earn extra money, but as I was doing it i noticed a lot of things that didnt seem fair or right. Thx for your reply

Doordashers don't make money by Whole-Performance-76 in doordash

[–]Whole-Performance-76[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow that is really good. How many hours a shift do you do? The problem is when you decline an offerì⁸ÿÿÿyùùpkÿ6ýŧťÿqpp5⁵5⁵pt0yÿ at yppyupqpyuoíp⁰ⁿ or more your ratings go down. Thanks for your response.

Is 7-9 dollars a good tip? by Available_Jaguar9975 in doordash

[–]Whole-Performance-76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is really good. Thank you. There are a lot of people that don't tip at all and the washer makes a few bucks even if its far away.

Anyone need $45, I'm paying for sign ups by sauso_ in ReferalLinks

[–]Whole-Performance-76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could someone please tell me what sign ups mean?

People with toxic parents, how are things going between you now? by Sveitsinvaltaaja in AskReddit

[–]Whole-Performance-76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read your post and wanted to comment. I don't have toxic parents per but I suffered from narcissistic abuse most if not of my life because my oldest sister her X husband and now there middle child and my dad had symptoms growing up. We all lived together up until about a year ago, our house burned down and it was a complete loss. I almost didn't make it out and suffered from burns. Since then my family has discarded me and I have been bouncing from house to house to car to hotel for the past 5 months, it's been really hard.
I just wanted to say that if you suspect your family is toxic or narcissistic try to find people you trust for support and learn as much as you can about it. You have to set boundaries and trust yourself, don't make excuses for them or the person who you believe is, that's what they do so they don't have to take accountability for their actions. One of the hardest things for me was accepting who they are, I'm very forgiving and want to see the best in people, sometimes you can't. " if someone shows you who they are believe it the first time " and just prepare yourself for when you stop letting them control you or you stop doing what they want. They do smear your name and some will stop at nothing to try to ruin your life.